Look I'm a man with a mental illness that makes me want to be a woman. I take estrogen. But I'm not deluded enough to think that women's clothes or makeup are going to make me or anyone else think I'm a woman. Please enlighten me.
>>42312704Good advice nona
>>42312704I just don't understand how presenting yourself in a way where others would only refer to you as a woman out of pity helps in any way
>>42312355And the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.
>>42312875>I just don't understand how presenting yourself in a way where others would only refer to you as a woman out of pity helps in any wayBecause it’s for me and my perception of myself. If you presented like this you’d know people but especially strangers don’t gender out of pity or politeness, they say what they see. I’ve only been gendered female a tiny handful of times and that’s included a few pretrans friends trying to force themselves to do it as best as they can and giving up after a couple they/thems. I do it to mainly help my own dysphoric self-perception, and you know what nowadays I’d argue I even like how I look. All I need now is someone not yelling "tranny" everytime I walk down a busy street which is why I’m planning to move to a more tolerant area. Is it perfect? No, and you could probs argue I’m building a hugbox around myself or something, but if you’re *that* dysphoric would you rather do everything in your power to help it or sit and let yourself rot as depressed as ever? Idk it’s not like I’m going around introducing myself via pronouns or using women’s loos, and as I’ve said everyone is seeing me as a man in the exact same way you’re describing yourself, but I think we have to really wind the fuck back how we present why we’re transitioning in the first place because so-called "honmoding" has been far too villainised by the public and the last thing I fucking want are trans people acting uptight about it too. We all have the same mental illness and everyone forgets this is the recommended treatment.
>>42312388this anon no debate
How to get a tranny like this?
>>42313191>i find beautiful women attractive, what type of guy do beautiful women go for?
>>42313202Okay, fine, thanks for not helping I guess
Just look for places where you'll find trans women
>>42312819>>42313191be built like a chad (or a cute femboy in some cases) and be a strict top that does not want to touch her dick in any way
>>42313365like whatas a trans woman the only social circle im in is my local methodist church
im 19 and im really scared is it too latelike and transitioning is really scary its like a whole life change im really scared chat idk what to do i need help pls help me pls pls pls
>>42313249maybe but it's gonna be odd how smooth your skin is. and how much your tits poke out
>>42313227after you've been through puberty it's just down to bones, either you have a frame/skull that'll make it with feminine fat distribution from hrt or you don'tthere's not really a reliable way to say you will or won't make it because of age>>42313249>is it possible to at least still manmode and blend into society without looking like a trannyit is, at 19 worst case unless you're insanely fucked you end up some twink hon, binders or loose clothing work for breasts since most trannies never really develop large ones, especially if you don't put on weight
>>42313274>work for breasts since most trannies never really develop large ones, especially if you don't put on weightshould i still be putting on weight though? i read somewhere that hrt doesnt actually redistribute fat but it just redirects new fat or smth, so if i wanna optimize should i just fatmaxx?
>>42312943This is my exact thoughts, I'm still early on (like I'm currently 19 and started soon after my birthday) and it's either suffer the humiliation of transitioning now or die as someone I despise>>42313227Surprisingly I'm pretty hopeful that I can eventually pass since testosterone really only destroyed one thing for me, my voice
>>42313296>so if i wanna optimize should i just fatmaxx?i think fatmaxxing is a psyop tbhon, but it is true that hrt has much more an effect on new weight gain/loss than it does on existing fatthe secret though is that existing fat cells take years to die, cycling doesn't really kill them, it just takes years for total fat redistribution in a conventionally female manner. part of why i think if you're gonna troon the earlier you do it the better. there's basically no utility out of delaying further since it's gonna take years for hrt to work anyways, but realistically you get most of your face changes in like 2-3y tops and that happens regardless of weight cycling assuming you aren't overweight to start with
My motto for romance as a trans woman is simply this "I refuse to share my bussy with men who wouldn't politically defend it" - Kat Blaque
This also applies to men who don't have the nerve to defend me as well, not just the malicious ones. If you're dating a trans woman or are looking to be with one of us then stand up for her and have her back. It's the bare minimum.
trannycels what would you do if your bf has a shelf full of girly manga because he has a sissy fetish and he doesn't even like them in any way or read them
>>42310337you need to integrate your inner sissy so you stop doing humiliating shit like this and can focus on being a smart woman instead
>>42313177i took em down today to see and it felt empty O_oas for being a smartypants that's true I guess but I'm too low energy to be studying shit and AI will make it useless but I hope to get one day a STEM degree
I feel like I've hit a point in my transition where I can do better than my current boyfriend. I don't want to sound like an evil bitch but the guy I attracted as a 6 month babytranny and the guys I attract now 2 years in are leagues apart. My current bf isn't bad or anything, but he's not like exceptional either . I don't know, I guess I'm wondering if I actually like him or do I just like that he supported me when I was uglier.
>>42311263I really wish I knew how he did that because I could then deconstruct that relation and it would be easier to move on from him.I guess it's his confidence, how assertive and possesive he can be, his Intelligence and academic background. Like, there really is nothing better than having intense intellectual discourse in the evening followed by being used and abused by him in bed. I don't know, it's the way how deeply he knows me which is wierd he got to this point because I'm at least a bit guarded at all times so I guess there were a lot of moments when I was off guard with him. Like, he leads and I follow. I guess it's mostly that he took the time to get to really know me and because he's smart af he saw things that I don't let to be seen for others and then he knew exactly what to say and do with me
>>42311378On the upside, you know some social circles where the next Mr Perfect might come from, which can inform your filtering of your current suitors. Then again, you can meet intelligent academics with a taste for making a woman obsessed with them in places outside of academia too.This is good, it means you know one way in which a man can be a really good match for you. I hope you find the one that'll be that, without the current downsides. Good luck nona, it was a pleasure chatting with you. I'll be heading out, real life calls.
>>42296431Attractive men don't want trannies long-term
>>42311474it was a pleasure talking with you too ^^good luck with your stuff and take care anon
>>42311809sounds like nona had a subpar man and now wants an average man
im done chasing trannies theyre heartless monsters
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>>42309461All of them lived in different countries, you can hardly think of an irl meeting, but even then I wouldn't have been very interested anyway since I didn't really feel the chemistry in the first place>>42310220Didn't happen often, but I did witness some breakdowns as well, completely unprompted
never get attached mang, the chicas, they're for fun mang, why would you marry a cow when the milk is free?
>>42312720TRVTH NVKE from el jefe himself
>>42311187i can brave it out, but they are just rarer in both real life and online spaces
It's really hard for me to not hit my gf when I come home from work and dinner isn't ready, but I rarely do it and I don't know if I mostly behave because she's 17 or a tranny
>>42312710If this isn't larp, kys
>>42312716You should kys regardless
>>42312710kys
im 21 and can adopt a trannywhere do I find a cute shut-in to spend my youth with
>>42312452you never know unless you open to tryingseems like there’s a lot of brainworms on this site
>>42308549larp but if not, take it from an elder tranny; do not adopt any from online here. If you’re looking for tranny types, just use dating apps and search your area: grindr, tinder, taimi, hinge, bumble, etc.Other options is to frequently participate at lgbtq+ support groups and be an ally; check out nerd centered places such as board game shops.Heed my wisdom or be cursed with explosive, self-destructive and even violent trannies.And for the trannies looking for an easy out; there is none. This life is difficult in its nature and demands that you work hard to not just transition but succeed and live a life that could bring happiness. Any successful tranny you casually read about, still had to put the time and work on, and who knows what personal sacrifices they made to get there. The hypothetical “luckshit with perfect body, finance, family, job” is an insane ~0.001% on an already insanely small group. It’s profitable and easier to just say life handed it to them, but cold reality is this bitch of an earth demands labor just the sun sets and the moon rises.
>>42312674yea a lot of trans women have brainworms but i dont the negative things i say about myself are true
>>42312780how tall are you>>42308609how tall do you prefer
>>42312780I’m just perusingthings should take time, but I’m hoping to soon meet new people at clubs and stuff for sure>>42312829:(I hope you feel better about yourself someday>>42312834I don’t mind height too much, but the shorter you are from me would probably make things better
>mid 30s>on hrt for a couple of years>dysphoria due to agp/porn addiction from a young age>complete failure professionally and socially>never had sex>face that wouldn't pass with ffs>zero desire to transition >miserable as a man but can't be a stealth trans woman which is the only outcome that could make life bearable>ashamed of every facet of my beingstruggling to see the point in staying alive
>>42311775Me too but that’s cause it too close to home, you can’t fight what you are you just like… are. Lots of people who are kinda neurotic and introverted kinda hate themselves or things about them it’s pretty normal really.
>>42311775i think you should open your mind. the alternative is the status quo which is clearly miserable and stagnant
>>42311679im younger than you but i can see myself ending up like youi really fucked my life up by dropping out of school and just isolating myself for a long time. its so sad, i probably could have been a trans woman if i took it seriously
>>42312874It's either man or non passing tranny freak. I'll take the former
>>42312893you're free to do whatever you want with your life, including the same thing you've been doing with no change whatsoever that's been making you apparently miserable.
any tips from a fellow shoulderhon? used to get compliments from family members abt being built like a quarterback fml
>>42312938Surgery
>>42312938deemphasize with clothing. muscle atrophy. cope.
She said this:> I can do better than you> I don't want sound like an evil bitch> The guys I can attract now are leagues apart from you> I don't know if I ever liked you or your supportI knew her since her early trans days and was extremely loyal and help her through her journey.I spent all my money on supporting her transition and now I'm in debt.What shall I do?
>>42312506seems like a LARP thread given how a very similar thread from the troon perspective was up the other dayIf not then RIP.
>>42312506>>42312569yeah its so unbelievably obvious op read that other thread and wanted to larp about it to get attention and/or spread a message
>>42312506Why did you pay money to fund a LDR trannies transition to the point you are in debt? I don't want to victim blame because you are a victim of a terrible person who scammed you, but I hope in the future you are more cautious so you don't get taken advantage of again. That person is horrible and you didn't deserve what happened to you.
>>42312506Good luck anon, happened to me 2.5 years ago and still think about her everyday, don’t have any advice cuz nothing is really working for me
I'm gonna gym-maxx this year to improve my physique in preparation for surgeries, and I'm wondering what exercises people do to maximize feminization and improve their overall health and physique. Right now I'm focused on targeted exercises and general cardio. I'm also interested in learning about other medications people have taken to improve feminization, as I've read about using glucocorticoids for augmenting breast growth.
>>42311184Every day is leg day. Step ups and leg presses are my favs. LIGHT chest day once a month (seriously three sets of chest presses with moderate weight is all you need).
>>42311247ok good
>>42311248Frankly I am very unversed in the names of specific exercises. My leg muscles are large so I don't want to build more except in my glutes and more so just want to firm them up. Right now I have clamshells, leg lifts, and hip thrusts for my glutes. Upper body I just have situps and some breathing exercises for rib flare.
>>42311184You need to be Pilates maxxing and doing a heavy leg day once a week in the gym
>>42313079Okay but what specific exercises? I'm formerly overweight and thus have the obligatory former fatty huge calves/thighs so would prefer to focus on other areas/toning exercises.
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>>42309874Is he wearing a woman's top?
>>42310395Probably. He is a femboy as well as a Mafia assassin and ethical rapist, after all.
>>42310426>tfw no femboy rapist bf whose parents sold him to the mob because of their marijuana addiction debt
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