Why are so many normalfag girls "gay" nowadays? It's like every second white girl says they're gay but then only dates and fux guys.
>>42206416best not to think about it
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42203939bowump
>>42198186>Oh, sadly not, I am aiming for it and more or less applied for just that, my chances are slim though, and my perspective is shifting rapidly.Ah, okay. It's still amazing how far you've gotten. Good for you. I am jealous.>I am growing increasingly tired of the FrenchI am also tired of the French!
>>42162119I did it, /sig/. I got the FFS that I worked 4 years to pay for, right after starting HRT.The results are mostly ok. I don't pass mostly, but it's better than it was.2026 will (hopefully) be the year of working out, and maybe saving for VFS. I'm too lazy to voicetrain unfortunately, I don't think I can bruteforce my way through that.I should probably start changing my docs as well.Things are kinda rough financially due to the surgery itself + some unexpected expenses afterwards. But things will be okay.
Hi everyone!So, this is my problem with my stomach relaxed versus my stomach pulled in.I have this issue whether my BMI is 18 or 25. I'm currently at 21, and I like the weight I'm gaining, but since my stomach already bloats very quickly (and deflates just as easily), I have this problem of my stomach sagging when I relax it. And especially, the diaphragm area at the top is tight, like I have a beer belly. The visceral fat area looks full, even though my doctor told me I haven't gained any visceral fat.I'm recovering from a long period of eating disorders, and I'm very anxious. I've been doing vacuum exercises and other things, but it doesn't seem to be correcting the problem... what is it? What can I do? (I can't even breathe from my stomach when I'm standing and I relax it because that area is so tense; I have to contract my stomach or breathe using my diaphragm.)Thank you so much if you have any solutions or explanations; this has been ruining my life for years.I hope I haven't made too many mistakes; I'm not English.
>>42206424And here's my stomach contracted, versus my stomach if I empty my lungs, hold my breath, and relax my stomach; only the fatty area drops, and the visceral fat/beer belly area is much less full...
Why do trannies always skinwalk tranny pornstars? They find one that looks like them and copy them and even get surgery to look like them.Is it to attract chasers? Normal men aren't attracted to tranny porn
>>42206398if you reconginse porn stars by their names then you are goonbrained sorry not sorry
>>42206389TRUKEIt's not hair and it's not bangs it's a disgusting third thing. It's a subhuman lemmings follow the leader disgusting trend. I want to grab a tranny by the flap in public and rip it off or hack it off with an electric razor so it can't hide under the flap anymore. I am tired of all these fake trannies around me in public. There are so many hair flaps and trannies everywhere.>>42206408Go back newfag
>>42205600bpdemon, why do you react with such jealousy. I never should of repped because someone told me I look like a rapist on here, you are so disingenuous.
>>42206437>Go back newfaglooks like someones called out. how many porn stars names do you know? i bet its around 10 or maybe even more kek
>>42206465You don't have to watch porn to know who Bailey Jay is retard
i am a cis man on hrt
>>42206100people call me ma'am and stuff and i don't fight itbut i don't think i look like a womanjust like a masc leaning androgynous person
>>42206124if you're getting maam'd you're definitely fem leaning at a minimum, cissoids don't throw that term around easily, and definitely not towards mascs.
>>42205167Pastille from Starry Flowers
>>42206189it's bullshiti don't look like a woman
>>42206397NTA but a bizarre amount of the time I get Maam'd despite being a 6'2" broad shouldered cis male with short hair and a masculine name who dresses like a manI don't have gyno, I'm not on HRT, I don't look feminine in the slightestPeople are just retarded
LOL
>>42206268This kind of stuff has happened with me where they get whiplash at how different I look from my license. I'm not even visibly trans, but the significant weight loss and long hair makes me look nothing like my license. It has to be renewed this year, though, so I guess I'll end up with a new picture. Tbh it'd be kinda funny if I still had that picture though. I'm not a passoid myself, but I think it'd be hilarious to be a hot passoid with an ID that looks like an ugly moid. Anything to make people realize how retarded trying to gatekeep people from updating documents to match their gender is.
>>42206268I hate this bitch
>>42206268i haven't gotten my id changed since pre transition. every time the cashier checks my id i always get weird looks for a few seconds until realize that it's me. not a passiod but i really need to update it it's embarrassing to still use that id
>>42206268eyebrows prove it’s a tranny
Like 2 weeks into hrt cops pulled me over>show ID>"uhm we need yours">explain situation>"are you able to drive under the influence of estrogen?">it was a female cop>tell her what estrogen is and that I hope you're allowed to operate vehicles under the influence of estrogen>get off with a warning
Why are you as a tranny not chasermaxxing right now? I got one on the hook about to pay for BA. My previous one paid for my jaw shave. My next one will pay for my srs. These men have wallets that you should be exploiting.
>>42205071i'm too autistic ugly and moid brained
>>42206135I mean r u calling me or him pathetic cuz if im exploiting someone I'm intending on marrying him but if someone gives 70$ at random and I can't even remember them I feel like they kinda exploited themselves
>>42206200He is pathetic for doing that I mean.You are also a little pathetic but its just because you are a woman and women are naturally like that.
>>42205071teach me how, what do I have to do, are you even hot?
>>42206393I look better after my jaw shave but I wasnt particularly hot before. You just have to put yourself out there and fish for the chasers that actually have jobs. Then you just plant the seeds about what you want them to pay until they think they came up with the idea .
>be trans girl>best friends with cis boy since middle school>best friend and I have been spending a lot more time together and growing closer>he admitted that he had romantic feelings for me>told him that i did too and we even kissed>he told me that he wasn't sure if he wanted to take it to that level yet and to give him a bit of time>was disappointed but said okay>best friend's birthday recently>all his close friends got together to throw him a little party>gave him his present and then gave him a kiss on the cheek>best friend said "that was gay bro" and laughed with his other guy friends>hurt my feelings pretty bad>he apologized after when we were alone and said he's not 'ready to do that in public'>he said he didn't mean it and he just didn't know how to react in front of his friends>mfwComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42206322Tell him that if he's serious about his feelings he needs to be okay with some public affection
>>42206322Make him french kiss you in front of his homies in retribution.
yes he sees you enough as a woman to like you but men will be men (his friends) and won't truly see you as one and he doesn't want to deal with them it seems bc they think men should not be gay also i personally would be fine with being seen as a sissy if i got to be romantic with my best friend even in private
>>42206322How long is he going to make you wait? It's okay if he doesn't want that out there if he decides he doesn't actually want to pursue it despite his feelings. I had something *sort of* like this happen with a guy who admitted feelings for me but decided that we shouldn't be in a relationship despite this. I couldn't understand it, but I had to cut it off because it was destroying me inside. Some of the stuff he did hurt me, but I get that he was ultimately avoiding an actual relationship, so I don't blame him. Basically the point I'm trying to make is that you should forgive it, but you need to find out if "yet" is ever going to happen, and it shouldn't happen again, either because you move on and don't go anywhere, or you actually get together and stop playing pretend.
this is a question for transitioned people only, hrtrepping boymoders and theyfabs need not reply.Now that you have transitioned and move through society as your acquired gender, if you saw your pre transitioned self walking around would you? Personally i would drop to my knees and throat his chaser cock on sight, he’s so muscular and handsome, but what about you?(picrel for passing evidence)
>>42205554i would beat my pre transition self in the head with a mallet
No they where a gay retard
>>42205554no, I'm not even sure I'd fuck myself rn. body is p decent for 2.5years e but moidvoice just changes my perception completely
>>42205554Would I fuck a 13 year old autistic girl?
Absolutely not. I was weak and submissive (and I still am to an even higher degree now), and twinkish looking. And my cavewoman brain wants strong and dominant man
foamer editionq what are your favorite transit vehiclesq2 if you could drive any transit vehicle what would you drive>>42144666
>>42196249I have become comfortably numb
I am pretending to be trans in order to invent a solution to a problem that is unsolvable. if i can believe im trans, then i have a radical, physical fix to that problem. if im not, the problem persists and im trapped for life. and the problem isnt anything to do with gender really.I think im trans for the same reason im a neet. I just cannot grow up. My dysphoria isnt anything to do with gender, its because the features I hate are signs of aging and maturity, that im now too old to be thinking and behaving the way I do and im not ready to be an adult. HRT just simply trades the signs of one adulthood for another. Women tend to look younger for longer so I see it as a way to delay my maturity artificially. I remember when I was 12 years old and I felt the pressure to socialize and talk to girls, I failed at it miserably and embarassed myself in front of my friends who bullied me for being so socially inept, I then began shaving my body and fantasizing about being a cute and feminine boy to escape the pressure of failing to hit the social and sexual milestones of puberty. I looked ahead into the future of having to get a career and a job and felt totally inept, and then my thoughts would immedietly go to feminizing myself, wanting to be protected and loved just for being me instead of face this slow degeneration into becoming an adult man that I felt was going to totally destroy me. Should it be any surprise that I am totally incapable as an adult? Ive been running away from reality since I was 12.
>>42204203ive been on pure AAs for a year and im alright.
Fuck I need to snog a twink keep having dreams where hot muscle twinks grope and facefuck me wish the dreams didnt make me cum in my sleep tho
how many of you have pretended to be women online? is it worth it?
anyone else addicted to dysphoria fuel? i love making myself feel bad for looking at real girls and mentally comparing myself
>>42202821yes, i literally look at pics of jenny Kim all the time on pinterest and it makes me happy because she's adorable to me but it also makes me want to die
>>42204300My phone just has a built in image search which I like to use, mfs be brainlets sometimes (myself including)
>>42202821Am I the only one who looks at women like this and feels both jealous and disgusted? Like for instance HRT has lessened your dysphoria and you feel more comfortable in your body, but you feel disgusted by your those feminine features at the same time? Like hating your thighs.I also know men find this more attractive.
>>42202821welcome to the advent of instagram, the reason depression and anxiety is so common in girls.
>>42203619you totally understand what i mean <3 i will never ever be even close to looking as pretty as any cis women and im just basically addicted to making myself feel bad about it >im a weird faggot who should kmsthats so me
Why is it ok for gay men to be predatory towards straight men like that?https://youtu.be/N1TOow5Hr54
>>42204755Maybe in Muttland?
>>42204765no, many sportsfree vegetables
>>42204755"Skinnyfat" often just means they're not fat but not very muscular. I see a lot of college freshmen and guys in their mid 20s or older like that. Good bodies for cuddling and skin to skin contact
>>42205054you are skinnyfat
Its not illegal to seduce some one, its only illegal to rape them. Straight or not, if you consent you consent. A thousand no's and one yes, legally, is a yes.
What does /lgbt/ think of Heated Rivalry?
>>42205237>One of the main characters is r*zzian, which is a huge turn offExplain why
>>42205801Did she mean you guys seem like enemies sometimes maybe? I assume thats what the show is about
>>42206088idk I was feeling sick and laying up against him like all night so I don't think that's enmy behavior.
>>42206273Maybe they get covid in the show
>>42205825If you've ever dealt with real life russkies, you can never romanticize them again. They are unreliable, retarded, petty, always try to fuck you over, and steal everything that's not nailed down.
Why do women expect from men to be ok with dating mtfs, while them themselves wouldn't date a pooner?
>>42206330because mtfs have hole while ftms have no dick
>>42206330Because FTMs are filthy & the worst of both sexes.
Did anyone here transition for reasons outside of your own understanding? For example feeling like one was ordained to simply do so?There's nothing differentiating me from any other cis man. I have no dysphoria, no agp, no desire to be a woman, and definitely a male sense of self, yet I'm on hrt for the 4th time already, just because I feel like I have to be on it. Estrogen doesn't make me feel any different though, and I'm actually nervous at the changes becoming visible, which is why I'll most likely stop again, but I can't help but feel like I have no agency in this decision.
>>42206288i live in portland, oregon. i see this in my everyday life
>>42206271you are forgetting all the trans women who don't pass.
>>42205965I really relate to this, personally I feel like I transitioned mostly just out of spite towards society. Growing up I would always pick up on all the subtle ways I was treated differently because of my sex, I was raised with egalitarian values (nordic) and I couldn't stand it, I developed a deep bitterness against other people and transitioning I feel was my way of trying to regain control over how I was treated. I've been transitioning for almost a decade now and it hasn't really led to anything, genderwise I feel like nothing. Identity seems so superficial and meaningless, it seems like it's all just associations you form as a child. All my feminine interests or behaviors aren't from having a "female soul" or brain, it's because I had a lot of female friends growing up and I formed positive associations of their hobbies. I hated being treated as male because I had formed negative associations with men. I really don't have any strong sense of self, my sense of self seems to just be based on whatever other people treat me as. There's nothing genuine about me at all. I don't think there's anything genuine about anyone. It all seems so arbitrary and meaningless. I wish the adults in my life would've just taught me the values they had instead of the values they wish they had. I wish they hadn't made me internalize values that made me feel like I was being wronged in every social interaction.
>>42206319there are trans porn stars right now who definitely do not pass whatsoever and they rake in thousands every month anyway
>>42206354name a girl, I want to see if it's true or your standards are warped
What did /lgbt/ get for christmas?
>>42193923>>42194245kill yourself
>>42200140You're quite rude
>>42176501>bnwo gooners get off to spreading their filth like a diseased animalthis
>>42194245I tried once after everyone online told me no one would care, but, they did, the tattoo artist was super wierded out and was like, "Woahhh, I dont do *those* kind of tattoos"I havent gone back since.>>42196924I dont like "tranny" or "troon" either, MWAhon is right here.I much prefer "Faggot" or "Sissy">>42200140Just tell yourself Im actually an Indian bot account to cope>>42203231If you knew how many ytbois Ive converted to BBC slavery you would cry.
