/Big/ - bisexual general : the end of the summer edition>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?Previous Thread: >>40766952Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40954455>>40954540thoughts looping back into the whole "bi guys are better" thing aside I guess I just figured it was some sort of fetish thing they hadnt mentioned, but avoiding an accidental sausage party makes more sense... seeing it on the website when they'd proclaimed themselves as being "for everyone" and more lgbt friendly than other venues felt like a major bummer though, because it's one of the largest events of its kind in the country. All the shows were geared towards couples too, sadly >>40954576I can't promise anything but you and the other anon def has me considering setting up an extra account just to fuck around. guess you'll know it if I do
>>40849413>speedos keep on riding up my ass on the way to practice sometimes i hate how they mandate that we wear this shitanyways >>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?all good, going to the gym regularly, starting to learn french, kind of hate my job but other than that all good>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?going to some halloween party with a few mates also one of those haunted house gimmicks >QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?walking through a park and watching the leaves fall comfy shite like that anways, how are all you anons doing?
>>40954767>speedoshad no idea wearing those were a requirement anywhere. my eurograndpa always wore them to the beach>anways, how are all you anons doing?doing some laundry, thinking about having some limoncello with gin
So, realistically, what's the safest/best way to find a sane, clean guy to discreetly hook up with, if at all, in a major city? I'm paranoid about STDs but really just going through a brief phase where I want to hook up maybe a couple of times.Grindr seems like too much to feel safe with. I can't go to gay bars because I don't feel like dealing with people in my life finding out. It honestly might all just be too much work and I should just find a girl instead.
>>40955626>So, realistically, what's the safest/best way to find a sane, clean guy to discreetly hook up with, if at all, in a major city?Probably a dating app, but which one depends on where you live. I've only barely dabbled in dating apps myself, but where I live Grindr is for degenerate hookups while Tinder (for MSM) is also for hookups but under the pretence that it's not a hookup kinda thing - i.e. less degenerate. Wherever you go though, use a condom so you don't get AIDS.
how comes lots of western transwomen like russia so much? they don't really have any popular cultural products like the japanese and russia is not great on lgbt issues to put it mildly, i dont get it
I figured I wouldn't start my own thread yet but what's LGBT dating like in Russia at the moment? How do I find friends and acquaintances and the such? I feel pretty lost, seems like everyone is huddled in private telegram groups.
>>40953087>what's LGBT dating like in Russia at the momentit isnt.
>>40953105Surely it can't be so. It's a big place and people would have to find a way to find some friends and close ones, albeit still confined to living in a closet.
>>40953060Her twitter is in the screenshot retard
>>40955202I know you're trolling but those two people look entirely different
if there is a difference between sex and gender, why do you say that trans women are women?what is a woman?
>>40952812I'm wondering if they would treat me differently because of that?
>>40952893<3
>>40952912you mean, whether they would treat you authentically, like one of their cisgender girlfriends? i am assuming you are mtf, but i'm not sure that i completely understand; i'm sorry :(i think it depends on a lot of factors, like whether you pass or not, what your personality is, the person to whom you are speaking (whether they view you as a "real" woman, or whether they even care about that; how they treat people in general, or whether their personality meshes well with yours, etc), and probably a bunch of other things that i haven't considered. i am pretty asocial and personally inept so i guess i don't know exactly what being treated "normally" or "differently" would look or seem or feel like. i do know, though, that i have been asked about my period (a thing i do not experience), so presumably that means i am treated as any other woman? but really i think that's just passing...i don't know what women's relationships with each other are like any better than i understand those of men. which is to say, "not very well".plenty of tranners here do talk about having great friendships with women, though. i'm just not sure this is something i could really talk or advise about with my personal experience....hopefully this is at least a little helpful anyways :)
>>40953040Yeah if they would see me as a romantic interest still or just automatically label me as a friend
sex = gendertrans people look like their birth sex and birth gender in three dimensions
Trans women do you live in fear of this happening to you? This could have been any one of you
>>40955678is she okay?why would she relax in that situation?seems like the worst possible place for anyone to sit.
>>40955678No because a) I pass b) I avoid niggers
>>40955707>>40955727Sort of daunting that despite transitioning you'd still racist. This was a randomAttack but here you are generalizing black ppl as if stochastic crime is something that occurs only amongst black ppl. Let's do better and id even challenge you to go out of your way to sit next to a black person on public transport.
I peruse this board once in a while, had something happen to me that’s got me feeling a bit melancholic. Wanted to tell someone abt it but can’t say it to any one irl because I keep my shit in the closet. So you fags can read it instead>be me>in uni>living in dorm >bored out of my mind>room mate is a stoner / loser who is always out with his junkie buddies>dorm next to mine has a normal dude and a shorter skinny Peruvian boy>everyone else is ordinary and forgettable>go to a party this one time, full of shitheads and is boring >about to leave>bump into Peruvian boy>he spills a cup of something onto my shirt>cuss him out >he just timidly apologizes while not making eye contact Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
if this is larp please write a worse ending for the boy next timeif its real i hope you find him
>>40954352hell yeahfuck happy endings I WANT THAT TWINK OBLITERATED >>40951004yes they do. especially when those people like it.you feel bad about it and you want to contact him because you're in love with him. be a man and tell him, whenever you next get the chanceor if this is a larp write me an ending where you forcefem him so he can be your wife and nobody ever knows she's someone's son.but for optics reasons im not suggesting you actually do that irl. no matter how much i wish it had happened to me.
I hope you find your cute Peruvian this read was quite sometime
>>40952120Fuck off man >>40952129It doesn’t hurt tf you saying that for. >>40953661I thought of that but I barely spook to the roommate. Don’t even know his name. >>40954352It’s not larp. But at least the ending is bad so there you go. I’ll probably never see him again >>40954808That’s disgusting dude. No, I wouldn’t do that. I don’t even want to do that. I don’t think I’m in love with him. I just can’t stand the idea of him sitting on anyone else’s lap, or him kissing anyone else. It should only be me.
I lean against the contents of this thread being true but regardless it hurts. It hurts a lot. Also, if this boy is into Gundam and is an obvious fag, surely he browses this board. Surely he would know of this thread.
when i look in the mirror right after i wake up im fairly ok with my appearance, almost liking it. but then as they day goes on it gets worse and worse, i keep going back to the mirror and i seem to look progressively worse until i feel like a monster. what the fuck causes this?
>>40955399Being exhausted at the end of the day might make it harder to suppress your subconscious emotions
>>40955399>picrelNever detroon
>>40955399What happened to this Isaac Uncooked guy? I used to see him all over the board. Did he retroon?
>>40955399i have schadenfreude over that image, what an idiot. maybe some childless 55y old terf from britain can adopt him.
>>40955708She just needed chin reduction
>>40954924this was said about a 17 yo btw
>>40955196try taking a pic with the back camera and you will find out quickly hoe deformed you truly are
>>40955391the front camera is way worse, i dont know why they put those things on phones
>>40955196>someniggathat's a bit more than "some"also at least try getting into my dm's first, damn
>>40955156he can't help being bri'ish
We live in a matriarchy, and all oppression of LGBT bodies stems from that basic fact of mammalian life.
>>40955704If this was matriarchy all positions of power would be filled with post menopause women and not senile old men
>>40955715the position of most power is being out of the public eye, not having to work, and getting to make spending decisions nonetheless women simply don't want to paint a target on their own backs - their success is due to ruling from the shadows and getting idiots like you to blame men for everything
Usually I’m neutral and gender doesn’t come up, but sometimes I’m specifically one or the other. Last night I was all three in different dreams, and it got me wondering. Are you faketrans and just a pretender if you’re still male in your dreams, are you trutrans if you always dreamed as a girl long before transitioning? Is it different for AGP and HSTS?A dream is a wish your heart makes, isn't it?
Like I had a dream where it was a rainy day and got into a weird limousine right here.
>>40952700im always just me not, neither a boy or a girl. gender is never relevant in my dreams.
>>40952700Im a hetero cis women and in my dreams I am a man who puts his dick into a beautiful womans pussy. I wake up in orgasm. Has happened multiple times. Am I trans now?
>>40952700I don't really dream anymore. when I do it's from like a floating pov with no body.
>>40952896Everytime i sleep it feels like getting knocked out lol but i used to have dreams of growing old to be a grandma with my little grandkids and that made me really happy and now I really wanna have kids
Spiderverse Edition>QOTT: You are your city's next Spiderman. What are the most common crimes you will be fighting in your area?>QOTT2: Would you keep your superhero identity private?>QOTT3: Would you ever use your powers for evil?Previous: >>40913170
>>40954632and all you do is goon*
>>40951510i already have some ideas.. they would probably be a bit expensive since they're my own drawing rather than something designed by the tattoo artist. i don't really like picking stuff from a catalogue, i'd rather have something by me or something unique. it'd be weird seeing someone with the same tattoo as me.>>40951543it just feels like this was a lesson i should have learned years ago, not in my late 20s. i feel like i've wasted so much time and i know i need to look forward but it feels like the past is just so heavy it keeps me from focusing even on the present. i've been trying EMDR for this and it just makes it worse. maybe i need acceptance therapy
>>40952047I wouldn't consider you a pedo unless you were trying to groom kids or going to family vloggers. Liking drawings can be suspicious but it's not serious.
>>40949467How old was he in the picture on the left
>>40955105The picture on the left is a faceapp genderswap of a post-trans photo
some say that it can prevent breast growth and i have a few questions regarding that
>>409552231. Not really and it made my hairline worse. It raises t alot, I think the longer you are on it.2. Depends3. Yes.
>>40955250depends on what? also if i take a lower dose of e without an AA will i get smaller tits or will the result eventually be the same?
>>40955538Small dose only makes changes happen slower but they still come. Just use a binder if you are so scared of boobs or save money for a top surgery
>>40955580alr thanks
>>40955538youll get boosted dht and upper-end-of-male-spectrum e, morphing you into a gyno italian instead of the roman femboy u wish u were>>40955580this poster is a hon and hates you personally disregard her lies and stop being such a kike you only need 50mg of bica daily unless you have phatt knuts or already weigh as much as a gyno italian get your money up fgt
samsara edition>>40938062>QOTTdo you really think you can escape?
>>40955605lmaooo nobody tell her
i know someone that looks like that!
>>40955611rude :(is the secret that im forever alone now?
>>40955644yes sorry nona :(you prob attract chasers and if youre sufficiently autistic you can hon out and be a transbian but otherwise this is it forever
>>40955605don't listen to that other anon, you can still pull gay guys just fine :)
QOTT: What are your thoughts on the coordinated, widespread attacks against trans rights and acceptance that are happening right now?last thread: >>40920566
I want to transition I don't care if I don't pass I don't care anymorebut the world has gotten too scary, too hateful
>>40955503I don't think most people will bother you just out of the inconvenience it may cause them but yeah, it's an unfortunate time
CHINESE GOVERNMENT ARGUES SECURITY CAMS ARE OFFENSIVE
>>40955393yeah
>>40955427what if i want to be a woman>>40955444i'm too ugly for that but what kind of girls are you into
Stop with all of the FtM posts, you're killing me!
I like the idea of an incel forcefully impregnating a FtM
>>40952825Hey everybody has their absolute wish on a falling star everything I want person in their head, but that doesn't mean anybody expects to be given that. Guys who read your post and are most or some of what you want will feel good, and otherwise it's interesting to see the way different people fantasize about trans men
>>40953379This right here is peak this is what sex should be, except I wouldn't bone someone who thinks of sucking my dick as eating pussy. Ah well y'know>>40952646Hey I'm sick to death of that specific schizo incel too but only a lobotomy will stop him now. Thanks for commiserating though
>>40955415i'll call it whatever you want i am begging you to let me slob on that knob
>>40955267There's nothing special about reproductive organs doing what they always do like wow holy shit it's a vagina and womb!!1! Not special
I notice that I like woman who are masculine and guys who are kinda effeminate? Can someone explain to me why is that?
>>40951739anon is bisexal
>>40951739Androgeny is based in all its forms.
>>40951739Tomboy and femboy are rightly new genders. They are just being forcibly "mapped" into the traditional gender binary to avoid controversy.>Tomboys and femboys are both distinct from traditional male and female gender norms and aesthetics, such that most people can immediately recognize a tomboy or femboy from appearance and mannerisms.>People who are attracted to traditional male gender signifiers are not necessarily attracted to femboys. People who are attracted to traditional female gender signifiers are not necessarily attracted to tomboys.>People who are attracted to traditional female gender signifiers are sometimes attracted to femboys. People who are attracted to traditional male gender signifiers are sometimes attracted to tomboys. In many cases, this is a consistent philia for the person (i.e. they are attracted to femboys/tomboys "as a rule").>Therefore, orientation towards "femboys" and orientation towards "tomboys" is a distinct phenomenon from attraction to male/female genders.You are "bisexual", and the two nexus of your attraction are "tomboys" and "femboys".
>>40953101True for femboys, a chick in men's clothes is in no way subversive
Read "Sex and Character"
