yes i love my boyfriend but sometimes i think about the guy in college who play wrestled with me and manhandled me and pinned me down and said he thought i was pretending when i was trying to get out of his grip, then we made out for an hourrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
>>42208350because we are denied normal lives under most circumstances
>>42208001>the guy in questionYeah its over if you arent chad
>>42208001What is the reason you can't do this with your boyfriend? How does your boyfriend compare to this guy
>>42208396well the college guy was like 6'5 or something and really strong he had to duck to avoid hitting my ceiling fan lol
This evil ass thinking is fembrained so Win? Ig?
sometime i don't even feel like a human; like i'm just an empty husk who can only consume the experiences/stories/memories of real people without being able to give anything back in returnt. cis man on hrt
>>42208384same oomfie hehet. cis man with receding hairline and beard on hrt
>>42208384I used to feel like that. The first step to changing it was to pretend like I don't believe I'm just a cis man on hrt, and act accordingly
>>42208384I've never felt human nor like I had an identity nor like like I am even remotely humant. no clue what I am
autism or severe disassociation can do thist. autist disassociating since 7 yo
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT>How did you welcome the New Year?>What changes did you make in the past year that you are proud of? What do you wish you had done differently?>How do you want your relationship with her to progress this year…?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42154686
>>42208193you have to watch it 8 times kyon-kun
>>42208299I had to Google what u were referring to i hope this doesnt make me a newfag
Thread on reddit about "aita if i divorced my wife for using botox even tho i asked her not to"Tfw i actually think he isn't an asshole for this. Botox is gross. If someone wanted to tatoo a nazi sign to their face youd he allowed to divorce them. Why the double standards.Lets stop pretending looks dont matter. We are biological beings fundamentally. Flesh and bone with gods light. But first comes the desire.
>>42208662youre comparing reducing wrinkles with tattooing a hate symbol on your face? huh?
>>42208662marriage is a scam and we are all being played by divorce lawyers
I feel like LGBT culture has taken such a steep decline in just the last two years. I knew two nonbinary people in 2023 who are now just basic bitch straight cis girls. I remember in 2023 hardcore bands playing gigs would stop to say “happy pride” in June and the whole crowd would cheer approvingly. Even bakeries had “pride month” buns with rainbow icing. Now all that stuff has simply evaporated. What caused this trajectory? Was it oversaturation? Normies co-opting the cause when they weren’t really committed? A gay/tranny bubble? What happened?
>>42206075Is the lack of solidarity really helping
>>42208020>Trans people literally led Stonewall you idiotLmao.They still believe that deboonked shit about some trans woman throwing the first brick
>>42206043replacement of queerness with the ideology that queerness is really just repressed transgenderismalso, trump won
>>42207560die, ziorat
>>42207728
Did anyone here transition for reasons outside of your own understanding? For example feeling like one was ordained to simply do so?There's nothing differentiating me from any other cis man. I have no dysphoria, no agp, no desire to be a woman, and definitely a male sense of self, yet I'm on hrt for the 4th time already, just because I feel like I have to be on it. Estrogen doesn't make me feel any different though, and I'm actually nervous at the changes becoming visible, which is why I'll most likely stop again, but I can't help but feel like I have no agency in this decision.
>>42207044I think you're delusional, and I also think you should troon out if you are really convinced that trannies have it better than cis men
>>42206049>Nuking my penis as a strategy to attain sex with women God's divine Providence keeping incels sexless.
>>42207267i don't care if they have it better than cis men, i don't want to be a tranny lol. if anything that makes me less delusional than people like you who can't see how good they've got it. i can see how good they've got it and still have no desire to transition, i'd rather be a man and earn respect and validation from my own actions and my own worth than get a free easy ticket to life by taking pills.
>>42205868>"man, i could use a hamburger right now" Guess I really am a cis man then
>>42205275Nope. I transitioned to treat my dysphoria. That's it
i feel guilty for being more attracted to the guy i had a crush on before getting with my current bf. honestly i kinda felt like me and him would have been a great fit, and he would even do stuff like gender me female to strangers when i literally can't bring myself to ask other people to do that myself. it also seemed like he just really understood me and would talk about feelings with me and all that faggy stuff. He wasn't ready for a relationship though and pushed me away, so i moved on and am with a new guy who i do like, but i feel bad that i think the first guy was better personality wise and also was hotter. is there a way to make myself obsessed with my current bf so i stop thinking about the other guy? it's not like a have a huge dating pool as a tranny in a fairly rural area and i don't want to lose what i've got
aw damn im not sure what advice to give you. I was in the same situation and ended a pseudo relationship (situationship/dating in everything but name) cus it felt unfair to the guy to think thoughts like that and he deserves someone who only thinks about him. that's how it was for me though but if you're fully happy with your bf and don't feel like you're settling even a bit thats fine
>>42208196>don't feel like you're settling even a bitthis is what i'm worried about, like i don't know if i feel like i'm settling or not. like, things were clearly not okay with the first guy, like it was also something like a pseudo relationship that i was making happen because i really wanted one and he didn't want one quite so much but couldn't bring himself to just flat out cut things off and instead kept things non committal and not really exclusive. it's like i'm trading up some qualities and down some others, and i don't know if i'm being fair or not. the thing is, i don't think i'd be able to find another partner if i ended things here, and i don't want to be the forever alone tranny or only be with guys who will just get sex and leave. like, i feel like he could just go be with a real girl instead of me who keeps thinking about someone else a lot of the time. like if he's gonna be with a tranny he at least deserves one who cares only about him
>>42208329I don't know. I think if you like your current partner you're gonna have to accept that the other guy obviously didn't like you enough to pick you and date you so he's already not the boyfriend you want cus he won't commit to you or reciprocate your energy and space at all. you just have to reality check yourself that the guy you want is in your head. im not gonna say your standards are unreasonable cus they don't seem to be. you're in a rural area which is unfair for anyone in terms of options. whether you still feel something is missing with your bf after you get over the other guy is a separate issue imo. but maybe you plan to move one day, somewhere with more people and support, and then you might feel a lot less like what you're describing. in the right places there's a lot of people who will love you without shame so sorry about your spawn point
i’ve never done any voice training except accent training (to sort of sound american because i hated my accent)where can i find resources and stuff to use if there’s anything i need to work on? i never get gendered male over the phone but i figured people here would be really mean and point out stuff i can’t hear myself. thank youhttps://voca.ro/1emsyRhF764k
yep, it passes
>>42208059You sound like a cute little sissy, which is okay
>>42208165thank you>>42208208so that’s a no
where are you from?
what fetishes do top trans ladies (who wanna top guys) have?
>>42205623AGP
>>42208435Wat
>>42208435>AGPWhy would an agp tranner wanna top guys?
>>42208712Because they are Bichads
>>42208728>Because they are BichadsBut i thought all of the agp girls are bottom bitches
Why do 99% of stories of trannies getting SA'd start with "so I downloaded grindr and met up with this guy 10+ years older than me and immediately went to his house" Am I meant to feel sympathetic for these people
the boy I am talking to refuses to stop going to mcdonalds and drinking diet coke even though I informed him that they are an number 1 priority for the BDS list and explained to him that he is helping to supporting isntreal by buying those products. Should I break up with him for being an unrepentant zionist?
>>42207050At the end of the day all food is just some nutrients you chew up and swallow. A basic cheeseburger is a pleasant experience on my tongue. You ever see that video where that dude trolled the food samplers by ordering a fried chicken sandwich at mcdonalds and then cutting it into little squares and letting sophisticated libtards have samples as if they're wine tasters? It's not the flavor for them it's the feeling of being above the poors by chewing and swallowing something exclusive. Most fast food measures up to a gordan ramsey chef meal.
>>42207137i'm not talking about burgers, i'm asking why tf you would try to emulate a mcdonalds burger, which is bottom of the barrel shit
>>42204785We dont care about the same things. If a palestinian baby get raped by a jewish soldier I would sleep as good as if it didnt happen. But there are other eventos I care more. Same shit for everyone else, you care about these dumb sand nigger, good for you, but it doesnt mean we have to care.
>>42205065>listening to reason.There isn't any reason haha
>>42204785Palestine isnt real and the entire concept of it is a UN charity scam, all you faggots are just supporting it because its trendy and you got tricked by tiktok into hating the west, there are way worse humanitarian crisis going on in Sudan and China but you dont give a fuck because that doesnt suit your narrative, and you deserve to be executed for spreading this bullshit.
Post your New Year’s wishes and hopes! What have you been up to? Have you celebrated?
>>42193996Bump
i suffer immensely as a cuck tranny in australia
I spent a really long time deliberating on whether or not I’d post a reply when I saw this and I decided at the very least, it might be nice to get some of the verbal clutter out of my head. I think 2025 was probably the worst year of my life. But I’m alive. It kind of upsets me that the bar is so low. I wish the bar was somewhere a little higher like ‘I finished writing my book this year’ or ‘I finally got to a point of satisfaction with my transition,’ but I didn’t get any of that. And as much as it makes me sad, I think that’s okay, because for the first time in a really long time, I didn’t spend New Year’s in some ward or surrounded by a bunch of people who are only there to make sure I’m not a danger to myself. I spent my New Year’s with a close friend and I had a really good time. I wanna do my best this year, because I know last year I didn’t come anywhere close to that. I’m going to start rock climbing this year, and I’ve put forward a decent amount to visiting a friend of mine overseas. It’s only a couple days in and things are already better. I did have a pretty messy hiccup in November and I’m still suffering a few complications in the aftermath of that, but I’m grateful to be alive right now, which isn’t something I could say a couple months ago. Things are bad sometimes, and then they’re good. Hold your happy thoughts close and take good care of yourselves this 2026! We’ll all make it if we just learn to love ourselves a little more.
>>42205887holy wow welcome back catscratch
Why are you as a tranny not chasermaxxing right now? I got one on the hook about to pay for BA. My previous one paid for my jaw shave. My next one will pay for my srs. These men have wallets that you should be exploiting.
>>42206576No, that's a good thing. That's how it starts. You gotta work your way up to the big stuff. >>42206590For my fist chaser that I got a surgery out of, it was a "ldr". I had to put more effort it. I visited him once (he paid) and blew him once lol. Well worth the price. You can get away with no sex if you're juicing for cheaper things
>>42206622kek I am too afraid to ever meet up I know I look better in pictures than irl.
>>42205369so are you a brokie or what? I haven't started my estrogen injections yet, but they are on the way, maybe seeing me troon out in real time could be appealing to you. I am a twinkhon already btw though, and I had people chase me in my femboy days.
tranny are evil creatures wtf
>>42205995Basedgold digging trannies get nothing
can you guess if im ftm or mtf? what should i improve?what gave it away?
>>42208076trochanter lower hips around the groin is how you measure hips though. For clothes too
>>42207912ftman mtf wouldn't post this
>>42208155mtf trannies hold their phones the exact same way but then you would call it malebrained. You guys are really just contrarians
>>42207912>41cm bicristalDude how the fuck. I'm 5'10" and my bideltoid is 41cm
>>42208163They don't do that and I don't say thatMTFs have big enough hands to not support the bottom with their dainty little pinky fingers
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42207243I have patience; I corrected my kyphosis in two years.What kind of exercises?Thanks! (I've had this since childhood, except for the tense area that gives me a "beer belly.")
>>42207376>I have patience; I corrected my kyphosis in two years.Congratulations, that's respectable.>What kind of exercises?Core exercises (like the vacuum exercises you've been doing) help. Lower body exercises can improve your figure as a whole, and make you less self-conscious about your stomach.But yeah, I think long term stomach vacuum + watching out for foods that make you feel bloated/gassy can get you a long way. From what i can see in the pictures, you look good. You got this <3
>>42207551>Lower body exercisesWhat type of Lower body exercises ? That's my body right now, i want go to 24imc
I just watched a very based video by Dr. K that I find frankly nothing short of eye-opening. I'll quickly write up a summary for y'all and also because I don't want to forget about it!--- How to Actually Process Your Emotions ---Just because you don't feel an emotion doesn't mean that it's not there. Any emotion you don't process basically gets piled up in a sort of "emotional storage", which eventually overflows into an outburst/breakdown/whatever. Just telling someone that you're sad/depressed/whatever will do very little to alleviate that feeling, unless that person can actually help you process your emotion in the following way.When emotion arises, ask yourself: 1. "What is this emotion trying to tell me?"There is a clear message inherent to every emotional response. You need to figure it out. It could be a message about yourself, someone around you, the world in general — whatever! You need to put it into words.2. "What does this emotion want me to /do/?"Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Trying to get my shit together is pretty hard.
is it worth it to troon out and go to surgery to be like the poor cis men who get feminized in these stories?
>>42207737Yes. Also give me link. New feminization content is hard to come by these days
>>42207737This gives me the worst uncanny valley vibes. Extremely unsettling.
>>42208295its nice>>42208095https://forum.allporncomix.com/threads/melissa-n-collection.63/page-67have fun endless amount of coomer shiet
>>42208366It's the art style. It's cursed. It's unsettling.
>>42208380not the best but it's good for lots of panels stories, too hard to do by drawing
