I have a problem... iv been in a relationship for 2 days now, and... i feel like its not as fun as it was back then at day 0 to 1. My dopamine levels arent high at all rn.This isn't fun....What im saying is...im sorry but i need to break up. Please dont flirt with me anymore. You're free to visit my threads but i have to move on. Life goes on. The world keeps turning.
Dopamine isn't real, it has literally nothing to do with what pop media says about it. You're rationalizing your avoidancy issues with pseudoscience and you should know better. Sorry if you're getting harassed though.
>>42352273Wonderfully written........ harlot -_->>42352396I disagree... i think avoidance is the real meme. Its all just dopamine. Im addicted to fun. Okay, i am a bit scared of connection. Okay, a lot. But
>>42352514No, it's not, because dopamine doesn't even translate to fun neuroscientifically speaking. My point isn't some philosophical mentalism it's the fact that media objectively does not understand (and has am impetus to mislead) the role of dopamine and what "fun" is complex both behaviorally and neurologically speaking.But I'm not trying to throw a neuroscience textbook at you. You should try to think about what it is you enjoy doing. If that is harmful to other people (such as love bombing and then discarding them), and especially if it's someone you had a prolonged (longer than 3 months) connection with then you might want to consider that there is a negative emotion, such as bitterness, jealousy, a grudge, guiding your actions. That negative emotion does not need to be rational but you will be much, much happier if you can overcome it and make peace with your own demons rather than project them onto the world.
>>42352628you seem smart can i have advice too? i’m the person she’s responding to
>>42352716She does seem pretty smart tbqh>>42352628Thanks...
post your most beloved glegles because glegle is a truly flawless creature
>>42351566I love the glegle so much i want to put them in the palm of my hand and crush them into fine red pulp in a loving way
Please Get Soft And Fat
>>42352557I look good so far at bmi 20. Doubt I'll look much worse at 19.5. Only thing that bothers me is my hip dips, but they were also there when I was at 22 and j really don't like going over that so whatever
>>42352568that sounds very healthy to me, peanuts are filled with essential nutrients and you need lots of water!
Little secret. The mental profile of an anorexic and the mental profile of a hardcore feedee are basically identical (and so are hardcore fitness junkies). Body issues, disordered eating, and the deep desire for control.Feedee’s are just the most stable end point as it’s working with your subconscious brain’s desire to eat and be lazy rather than against it. A lot of recovering anorexics end up becoming feedees or gainers. You get all the same control except you get to feel full and not die nearly as quickly
>>42352697What if I just think fat women are hot? Not everything needs be complicated social complexes
>>42352697I don't like the feeling I get when I overeat. I'm genuinely comfortable eating in a way that has me very skinny. Not everyone works the same when it comes to eating
The more I read into FTM dysphoria and FTM dysphoria songs the more convinced I am that FTM dysphoria is a product of AFAB hysteria, penis envy, & AAP adjacent paraphiliaTherefore, the only treatment to calm a femrepper down is to...> ...make her her favourite comfort food with her, > help her meal prep so that she doesn't go hungry during the weekends, > If she wants to be a guy for a day lend her your clothes / see what works for her> Take her to the hairdresser for a haircut of her choice> let her vent about being female, > Help her find a partner of her choice (maybe an FTM or a gay guy or a theyFAB)> clean her room with her, > wash her smelly hair, > then tuck her into her bed before reading her a story of her choice, before you turn off the lights and head back to your flatComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42352631Ok fine I will delete this thread and my accountYou cannot expect a repper to think straight they are reppers for a reasonPlus I did say that I didn't wanna date a masculine FTM from the very start
>>42352649You're already over the timelimit for deleting, silly newfag. We could chat regardless, but I'm having a hard time keeping it casual because loneliness
What is done is doneI am not mentally stable enough to text youYou really shouldn't have asked me to text you when I have my own shit to settleLike I don't like to ghost people but when I am not feeling like myself I need some space to calm down and regain my sanity
There were warning signs all over the place and you got to move on
>>42352696Don't worry about it, didn't mean to make you uncomfortable either way. It was just hopeful thinking. Have a good one
If you're a tranny who has skinny AND non-veiny arms you will make it. FFS is realistically all you'll need to pass. The implications of having tiny bitch arms as a man are very far fetching. You're essentially naturally physically half woman already.
>kike telling lies about vascular athletic cuties again
>>42352481It's ok to be gay and it's ok to be non-passing
>>42352508It's not ok to be an inbred schizo with astigmatism.
>>42352583Which is why I support Israel in removing pooslims like yourself. Maybe if you give your cousin Ahmed, the little niggerstinian baby, some glasses he can dodge the YAHVDI MISSILE. Most likely not though
>>42352613Adjust your fire there, shlomo.
I creampied a latwinx three times. Call that shit tres leches cake.
>>42352676I prefer flan
Exercise Editionprevious: >>42162119Goal of the thread: Go out for a walk, or try to get any other form of small exercise (walking stairs for 5 mins for example)Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42350588Did you suffer from any form abuse? Got gaslit? Do you struggle in your daily life? Can't accept yourself? Have memory struggles? Happen to struggle with your identity? Running away form the pain? Do you partake in self harming behaviour? Been trying to fix yourself? Live in your head a lot? Didn't have time to process the loss of a loved one? Battleing addiction? If you have any sense of self-compassion, this is your chance to deal with it.If you find yourself suffering from your own behaviour or the behaviour of others, wether in the moment or in the past, I am here to help! You might have turned your face away from whats based on something actual, and only through facing it, once you are ready, you will be able to free your mind.Self-discovery is not a replacement for therapy, although it may be an important part of it. There are many things that influence mental health, many of them physical. Getting to know yourself is not a process with an definitive end. Everyday you make decisions that can have a variety of consequences, and you may never know your motiviations behind it. It might not be for everyone, but I'd urge anyone with any severity of mental health problems no matter if diagnosed or not, to take a step into facing your own demons instead of nurturing them. You will probably have to reach a breaking point to see that you don't know yourself.Now, /sig/anon. My proposal is for me to establish a common, predictable appearence in your threads. And if you please, I will give you a contact for either Discord or Matrix, so we can maybe talk about things and proposal in more detail (There is more to this proposal), as I am willing to take on one-on-one sessions or maybe even group chats, too. Eitherway I will wait for your permission to squeeze myself into your general. I am not affiliated with any organization, religion, political party and consider myself progressively becoming more open-minded, espescially in my role as familiar.
>>42350588>>42350619What's your motive? I don't trust you.
>>42350612Everybody is the villain in someone else's story.>>42350667I anticipated this, and reflected on it beforehand. I'm aware my way to present this role I seek to perform wouldn't seem trustworthy per default. Actions speak louder than words, as they say. I did mention that I am performative out of choice. My words are not meant to invoke any specific feeling, not on purpose, instead I want to rely on being comprehensible by scaled-up verbosity.>What's your motive?From my personal perspective, /sig/anon is one of the most compassionate humans I had the pleasure to witness, yet. Seeing as he has been going on with helping people help themselves, I felt inspired to provide myself in a (what over time will clearly be) predictable form to pick people up from where his compassion or anybody else's compassion or way of life has brought them to the fork in the road where testing or solidifying one's own identity is detrimental to a put them out of the harming nature of others or themselves.I wish for /sig/anon, who I personally care deeply about, to have an ally in his quest to be good to others.And for personal drive behind all of this, I experienced what it feels like when you're not in control through others taking it away from you in many variations and it broke me, not being able to help myself, running myself to the ground to the point of homelessness. I am not free of shame, guilt or problems. But those things don't matter in performing a role: the one that I always missed, would've needed the most. Someone with a predictable communication, clearly stating intent, especially upon inquiry, and proving consistency through iteration. An open ear, a safe-space for any emotion. A certain kind of kindness, that I now know I missed. I expect to learn from providing it, as well as getting to heal the part in me that expected only the most vile things of other in all situations, by returning all the kindness and love I experienced.
>>42350933I don't ask for much, let me prove myself. I'll answer any question. If I can provide evidence to support my claims, I will.dc: blackcatanon_51488matrix: @blackcatanon:matrix.orgI'm purposely not adhering to the social rules of /tttt/ and 4chan as a whole out of the necessity that a lot of the language used is the anthesis of finding out of your own misery. I'm setting clear boundaries, so you know you get what you expect over time.
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I’m an HRT femboy and I’d love to settle down and get married one day. I know that a lot of men find femboys sexually attractive, but is that the same for romance as well? Are boys like me boywife material or is that just a fantasy? I’d cook and clean, take care of him and the house and maintain my beauty and femininity into old age as long as he marries me and fully commits but I’ve never seen a boy like me in a loving marriage, is that actually possible? Would you guys ever settle down with a femboy or are we just fuckmeat? And are there any real examples of these kinds of marriages?
>>42347533I'm a tranny top and would settle down with an hrt femboy if I fell in love with one before I could find a cis woman to have kids with or doing so became unfeasible for whatever. You'll probably find a bi guy or non-party gay to settle down with, late millennial and Gen z gays are generally less sex addicted than previous generations
>>42352121I’m 5’2 but the balls are staying, best I can do is anti androgen
>>42352196manwhore bastard
>>42352222I’m a virgin, whoring is not an interest but I definitely would be suspicious of you leaving me for a woman because that’s how it always goes
>>42352263that’s just you, I’m not interested in sex outside of relationships at all
The year is 2043. Troonism has finally been solved. It was true what Powers figured: It was all mostly due to genetic and hormonal anomalies. However, Blanchard was of course also in the end accepted as partly correct: Autosexuality is more common amongst trooners and pooners. This is however not what ultimately caused dysphoria. Similar to how siblings who grow up together don't tend to develop sexual feelings for eachother, most cis homosexuals aren't attracted to just being their sex, or the cultural artifacts associated with it. However, the gynephilic trooners and androphilic pooners had something in common with siblings growing up in separate homes, or even countries: The can develop sexual feelings for the similar other. For the separated siblings, the anomalous object of attraction was the other sibling, but for the troonies and poonies, it was instead the nature and culture that they were "supposed" to have had forced upon them all their life, like normal people, but in the end didn't, because of their actual sex. AGP is what happens most often when a person with both a female identity and attraction to females/feminitity grows up without it, and AAP what happens when a person with a male identity and attraction to males/masculinity grows up without it.
>>42351706Serano is about as scientific as Blanchard tbhon. Only one that's really valid to look at is Powers because it's much more empirical rather than ideological.
>>42351706I'm not calling it schizo, just predicting that people are going to come in here and say that. It's an original thought you had and I think it's an interesting idea for sure
>>42351299>>42351210>AGP is what happens most often when a person with both a female identity and attraction to females/feminitity grows up without femininityi've been around for 5-6 years and this is a pretty common take from ex-reppers who transitioned and more or less adjusted to the real world
>>42352211AGPs are in fact punished HSTSs yes.
>>42351820it's not original anon, but yeah, OP made a good post.>>42351706>I believe those people are "queer theorists", which does not sound very attractiveserano's "whipping girl" is pretty good honestly. I can understand being scared off by an unattractive transbian, but pls try to look past that./lgbt/ has this thing where people prefer "hard truths", which usually just means they steer towards self-hating attitudes. Please understand that this bias isn't any different from the hugboxy "everyone is valid!" bullshit>I prefer hard science explanationsi agree with >>42351738 Serano is about as scientific as Blanchard. It's all vibes through and through: "ugly and autistic=bad, pretty and normie=good".plus don't forget that we haven't really figured out gay people yet, and they are a lot simpler than whatever the fuck is going on with dysphoric people, so I wouldn't get my hopes up for an actual "scientific" explanation as to why we are the way we are.
Jason of /cum/ editionPrevious: >>42092689>QotTWhat other boards do you browse besides /lgbt/?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42351499Women don't want bi men, even the progressive ones.If you are openly bi then your only options are homos or the polycule/nb type of woman that are far too gone.Even if you are a true 50/50 equal attraction bi man then it's better to stay closeted to avoid being labeled as a part of the lgbt
>>42351627>Women don't want bi men, even the progressive ones.>t.bitter gay man spurned by a bisexualAs a married man, who has dated a ton of women, I can tell you this is not factual. Every woman I have told about my bisexuality was fine with it. I never dated guys cuz I wasnt into them like that. No feels. Men are just stunt cocks. living dildos.
>>42350713What is it about the culture that necessitates this?
>>42351499>Boomer ellipses
>>42352609>zoomer argument
i have 7 credit cards. i have an entire wardrobe full of girl clothes that i never wear because i dont look good enough in them. i just got a mail offer that im preapproved for another card. theres no annual fee so im probably gonna do it. what the hell is creditone bank. i dont know, but im gonna use their money to buy cute dresses to hang in my closet
>>42352548why are you buying things you aren't wearing?
I am 18yo neet tranny and I feel like I’m at best twinkhon.I cannot find employment and and Im trying to pass but I’m kind of just doing the same things because I can’t afford to get new things and I’m seeing no difference, am I coping or is passing hard for people with 0 money I’m not like an ugly hon but I just want to be happy.What should I try.If there’s something that like I need to money farm on but is really worth to not be a fucking visiblehon please help I don’t want to go browse r/MTF for tips I would rather DIE.
Makeup
>>42351669how long on HRT? it sometimes takes a few years for it to make a noticeable difference honestly, even in your teens, if you malefail even sometimes as is you're probably moving in the right direction. as for passing i think just generally looking put together makes a huge difference. haircare is a big one. pretty much every cis woman takes good care of her hair, if yours is flat or frizzy or just generally bad it could be a subtle cue that clocks you. bangs can be good if you have the right face for them but get a stylist to cut them, also short hair cut in a feminine way (like a bob or even a pixie) can often actually be better than long hair if you find it easier to make it look presentable. makeup helps too, less is more a lot of the time, avoid overly dramatic looks like thick black eyeliner etc at first until you've figured out the basics.
no one in my life wants me to die which ends up feeling more like a curseevery day is either painful or null, and the next is the same, and the next and the next times a millioni just want it all to stop but they keep saying I should liveisn't that great that I have people who love me. isn't that great I have to cling to this existence. I just want to dream
>>42351912such a mood
I will now post accounts of life on Terf Island
>>42352284Yes, normal progressive people are waking up to how widespread the damage “trans” “gender” ideology caused to all of society including finance, healthcare and general everyday food and fuel costs.
>>42352500More important than food or war. You would kill every child on earth to harm one trans person for a few mintues.We need world war 3 to stop trans people. No earth, no trannys. You are very smart
>>42352476if they have no food, why are they so fat over there?
>>42348120>>42348134>>42348145>>42348150>>42348164>>42348342>>42348369trannies don't want you to know, they violently jerk off to stories like these because they'd hope that they could feel this abuse in their life
>>42352588They eat sausage rolls. 500 calories in a small one. They run into shops and steal them by the handful
pros:>no more browbone (prettier and more passing)cons:>surgery risks (shock hairloss, infection, long-term skin effects(?), uneven shape, possibly more?)>money 6000-9000 eur (i need to jobmax or find a chaser with money, both are hard)>become more ugly due to surgery complications lolmy browbone is not great and not horrible. it is my worst feature, but it is not that prominent. I used to cope that fat will go more into forehead and it diminishes the brow ridge and making it something that is androgynous but not clocking
6 months hrt btwso idk if i should wait with ffs
>>42352577shock hairloss isnt real if ur under 30, infection isnt real if you go to a good surgeon, uneven shape also isnt real if you dont go to facial teamand ur ugly now right? im agp so i only think you should do it if its better than the other options
>>42352589idk if ugly or noti find myself to be mid and cute (i know it isn't true for others they prob wouldn't find me cute)
>>42352585Give it 2 years at least my facial fat is still changing a lot and I've been on e for 5 years (admittedly hundosed to begin with)
>>42352633i have noticed that if fat went away from brow. it wouldn't be noticable at all. did your brow ridge change? also, when did you see most of the changes? sorry i am just curious
