how do you choose between the two? i'm a neverpassing hon, and by that i mean no hope of passing whatsoever at any point in the future. i have a very masculine and uncanny face and FFS is extremely unlikely to tip me into passing territory even if i do afford it someday. i can't convincingly manmode because of other aspects of my appearance. i honmode socially, that means using a female name and dressing in women's clothing primarily. this has been the case for coming up on five years now and i've never actually faced violence or anything for being trans, even verbal harassment is something that just hasn't happened to me in three or four years by now. people in public just quietly disapprove but don't really tend to get involved. at the same time it does sort of hurt a lot to feel rejected, i'm super sensitive to it and it hasn't really started to hurt less with the years (if anything it hurts more).i have something resembling a community or group of friends irl who treat me generally well. we just don't talk about the trans thing and never have, they don't seem to have a problem referring to me with a female name and pronouns. i think it helps that my voice is very feminine even if the rest of my appearance leans male. it helps a bit to hang out with them, but my other daily interactions tend to drain me. i have given serious thought to detransition but it feels a bit awkward to broach the subject with people i know irl as i've never talked about being trans with them in the first place. i'm about to start a new job too where i already stupidly gave my female name. should i just make steps towards detransitioning and drop everything and move somewhere else?
>>42164807get srsbecome vagbrohang out with dickbros
>>42164876wish i could afford it. i do have genital dysphoria, i feel like a vagina would look really weird on me because of how unpassing i am though.
>>42164807nice pic
Become addicted to drugs
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42163835>do you have a strong preference for topping/bottoming that might add to it?I'd say I'm primarily a top but if I met a great guy who ticked all the boxes but said he topped exclusively, I'd have no problem bottoming.>Where do you look for people?I go to gay bars with friends sometimes but other than mainly your standard dating apps like hinge, bumble etc. Tried Grindr once and found it was an absolute waste of time
>>42162119>>42133552>How are you holding up, Anon?alright. finally got home from the hospital after a gallbladder surgery. i was very afraid but things are mostly fine. a little upset cause i didn’t eat for nearly 2 days and it’s frustrating to feel like i’m losing progress in gaining weight
Is doomposting allowed here
Lowk wanna troon out but also i'm a low value male never had a gf have no friends am short and no good at anything so it feels a bit like a cope/nietzschean death drive/chemical castration desu.>>42166785>What usually lead to your performance issues? Same lack of focus and such?Nah. I dont really get that tired at home bc i can pace around and gst stimulated and stuff but i always give up super easily on things. Tried coding, drawing, writing, jogging, ttrpgs and classic literature but i've never had immediate talent and i just fizzle out within a week or two.I've never once been good at anything. Barely scraped tbrough HS and i dont think i studied once in the entirety of my tenure kek.
bump>>42168118i think so
no male fucking a tranny is straight as trannies are males as well
>>42168534But someone on 4chan said they shouldnt, so I think that means youre wrong.
>>42168526>On 4chanNo you moron, there are hand eye testimonies from when the first srs surgeries were coming out. Turns out having a vagina (even a mid one) helps a lot when looking for normal men. Because they tend to like those (even the mid ones) a lot more than dicks lol. But keep coping faggot.>>42168534Nah, you repressors can just keep crying in your closets while you continue to Norwood because even hugboxers know it's too late for you.
>>42168601Helps a lot os different from sharing a dating pool. Notice how my logic remains strong while simultaneously patching up the holes in yours. Again, I really think you should keep bias and emotion out of your thinking. I really think you would benefit from this.
>>42168648No it isn't repper fag, the reason it helps is because most men (shocking to you, I know) actually like pussy quite a bit & having one opens the door to men who do, aka the dating pool of most typical cis women. We see through your pitiful concern trolling and begging, dickpig, the srs rates will continue to increase regardless.
>>42169539Your incomplete logic broke down at "like pussy", which is where I stopped reading. You are missing the word "real", which would change your argument from biased to logical. I think its pretty obvious that your logic consistently breaks down as a result of either willful ignorance or selective attention, probably a combination of both. Either way, suppressed evidence is the catalyst for your logical errors.Ill help you bridge the gap in your logic:Logical completeness for the specific attribute you mentioned (pussy) can be achieved with the following: "Normal men" like normal pussy, not man made pussy.Completeness of the broader argument can help be achieved my acknowledging the following: Pussy (specifically real pussy) is one of many components of what normal guys look for in a women. Other attributes of note include (but not limited to) a woman's ability to conceive, real female features (eg hips, natural breasts, feminine face etc), and ability to proceed through life without unneeded baggage.Hope this helps. Feel free to try taking this approach in your next response and I can help you out with/understand any potential errors.
prev - >>42099900human-made boymoder editionqott: have you ever drawn your own boymoder?
>>42166125tell us more about her
>>42166065for real I feel so cringe
>>42161654no, never drew one. thought about it a couple times though.is it still boymoding if you're openly socially transitioning while waiting for the hormones to do anything at work but everywhere else you just don't mention it to anyone?
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>>42161654had to stay three days at the hospital and malefailed to three nurses despite not being able to shave (i’ve had 9 sessions of laser thoughbeit). they didn’t change when they heard my voice and one of them continued to she/her me even after my mum he/him’d me. i might be so back>>42169562yeah. it’s not very common (normally you come out to close friends first) but it’s definitely still boymoding. how long on hrt are you?
Trannies have lower standards than faggots. If you just have non negative charisma you can fuck one within hours of chatting with one.Chasers who can't get laid cannot be helped
You don't have to hurt those who are less fortunate than you, we suffer enough
>>42167713this is true
I need help, someone help me
what to do when you have boymoders in your walls and under your floorboards?
>>42166990>sleepy gorl
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Can we organize a boymoder protest of scary things please?Outside is too scary!
>>42169131do you need to hide in your box?
>>42154604Id persobally prefer those over the shartyfag ones rn
Ftms are insanely chill for the amount of vitriol they get on here I'm ngl
>>42167548ur soo handsome :3
>>42168541oh god i feel so seen
>>42166599waitaminute this is nothing like the pooner mspaints, this guy looks like he got bitchesmirin jawline and face in general btw>t. cishetfag
Not the one I knew but maybe she (she went by she/her) was just an outlier
>>42168879theyfab tucute not a true ftm
Will Great Britain finally be rid of the tranny menace in 2026?
>>42168776>it's taken ovaries of steellmfaoooooooooThe state of britain, gott strafe england lmfao
>>42169936>ovaries of steelmakes sense, terfs do not produce gametes and are therefore sexless, neither male nor female
>>42168776remember that orwell's terms like 'groupthink' and 'doublethink' are his anti-hegelianism showing through because he finds dialectic incomprehensible. the UK hates hegel because his philosophy offers emancipation instead of worshipping logic like a god (as in the analytic school not funger 2). having a belief that isnt complete and total submission to the state is treated as terrorism, the UKs strain of 'radical' feminism simply affirms patriarchy by treating it as an unimpeachable organism in toto and simply bicker about minor details which is the same strategy all politicians use which means how is it radical the relations that the systems generate are patriarchal per se. and thats why uk 'radfems' are such successful lobbyists
>>42168978Way too soon for that. We have another 10-20 years of this slop before the white majority dies
>>42168828Why to they have 'women' written in pseudo-greek when it is a germanic word?
What is your favorite book written by a trans person? Mine is Darryl by Jackie Ess. It felt like having a panic attack the entire time
>>42160469Bump
>>42160469i loveeee darryl. one of my favorite pieces of trans literature cause it’s not super about being trans. it’s unlike most of the trans auto fiction that’s super popular. Very excited for her next book. I’d also recommend School by Isabel Paban Freed, it’s similar in that way
>>42160469I thought the ending was dumb
Fags can't read
>>42160617i fear you’re neglecting to mention the authors who write literal torture porn
why are non white countries so anti lgbt
>>42169760Most global south are not liberal democracies.
>>42169760in my bias opinion as a black autistic tranny the majority of blacks are hyper religious hypocrites being a tranny/ being with a tranny is so awful but being a shitty person who does drugs or harm others thats more accepted
Why transition when you can just buy a breast plate like this, put it on, fap like crazy and get it over with.
>>42168806I wanna make a gay twink wear this, a wig, and a dress then make him cook me dinner
>>42169262good all trans girls should have a vagina
i bought one and they are hard to put in at take off without using powder and they just look fucking awful, they are closer to looking like something a frat boy would wear as at a party as a joke than the real thing
>>42169291100% agree if you don't have a vagina you're just a man on estrogen
Ngl I would fuck a crossdresser in the ass but if he was wearing one of those it would make me feel like I was having sex with a serial killer. Like I'm not even talking AGP/HSTS those boob vests legit give me the heebie jeebies
This is getting tiring. How hard is it to let shartyfag threads die
we all have to do our part and boost psas >>42122617
Zoomers enjoy being baited because of twitter culture
>>42169918twitter is fucking unusable nowit's just wall to wall bots ragebaiting and trotting out the same ten tired posts over and over and over againthe algorithm literally tries to serve you shit that makes you angryit's worse than this shithole
ftms are the best thing ever
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>>42166859man how do you read this
>>42169869>Is this it? Is this what you do? Do you want to be served by all that surrounds you? This is for me. You always expect that my creations are supposed to make you feel something in particular or else it's a disgrace. You're a disgrace for doing this to someone, you entitled, lazy, and sad piece of- shit.
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better>are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions>how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42166789that prenatal hormones and orientation are related in humans mirrors the same observation as rats, which we can reliably produce homosexuality in, by giving larger doses of prenatal hormones (the adrenal gland, obviously, isn't the body's major source of testosterone)claiming we don't have a good standard of evidence on the causality at this point is cope>Why is homosexuality any more intersex than being unusually short or unusually tall?because androphilia and gynephilia are specifically sex associated characteristics in a way that height isn't, and they're associated with other sexed neurological and physiological changes> If I'm AMAB but I have strong maternal instincts is that an intersex trait? if you are a feminized homosexual male you should also be a bit more maternal>Do I go ahead and put an intersex flag up in my lawn on that basis alone?depends what you want to do with that flag, doesn't it?homosexuality, transness and intersexness are all interlinked, and from a philosophical and apologetic point of view, i like showing they can be seen as variations between masculinity and femininity on an intersex spectrum
>>42166896So the fact that if you give a pregnant rat megadoses of testosterone it turns her daughters gay (does it, or does it just prevent the lordosis reflex from developing?) doesn't mean every human lesbian developed under the influence of megadoses of prenatal testosterone. Obviously. So, absent evidence a particular lesbian developed that way, why would we call her intersex?Do you think all lesbians are even butch? Do you think all gay men are the stereotypical flamers?Nearly every "sex associated characteristic" exists as two overlapping but distinct distributions, which means you inevitably get individuals who are outliers on one or more traits. Does that mean the entire human population is intersex?
>>42167153this is a silly argument you're makingyou can induce intersex development with exogenous hormone-mimicking chemicals, but not all cases of intersex development are caused by exogenous chemicalswhat that points to is that homosexuality represents a neurological intersex state as an opposite sex development pathway we have gone down to become gay or lesbian>Do you think all lesbians are even butch? Do you think all gay men are the stereotypical flamers?statistically, yes, actuallylesbians and gay men have quite a strong childhood GNC effect, and even as adults they're substantially less gender conforming in other ways, they're even closer to the other sex in physical build and facial features>Nearly every "sex associated characteristic" exists as two overlapping but distinct distributions, which means you inevitably get individuals who are outliers on one or more traits. Does that mean the entire human population is intersex?no, because considering all traits at once, there's a pretty clean separationpeople who make this kind of argument are wordcels who don't get how multivariate traits work
>>42167366>no, because considering all traits at once, there's a pretty clean separationOK I'll bite. Which traits specifically both clearly separate heterosexual males from heterosexual females but that also reliably separate homosexuals from heterosexuals? Is there a published multivariate model?Also what about bisexuals? Are they all faking or is even sexuality a spectrum?
>>42166767I can imagine! No snow here but it's been pretty cold and windy and I'm not a fan of being outside right now.Hope you had a good day off!
>make sure you vote girliesGet out and vote for /ourgirly/
>>42169306This woman's performative style of dress and act makes it very clear she is a psychopathic karen
>>42169306>those evil christians will make us cover up!>immediately dawns the hijab, a symbol of islam's subjugation of womenthis is why women were beaten and not given rights. they want it anyways.
>>42169306>flanaganThe Hibernian conspiracy strikes again!
>>42169306I will never vote for any politician who wears a hijab, burqa, etc. Even if it is just for a one-time photoshoot. They are actually instruments of oppression—unlike 99% of the things that woke retards claim to be.
>>42169337trans adults can protect themselves by buying a gunyou buy one too and then stick it in your mouth
