big fat guy editionqott: how big a belly is too big a belly?
>>40958234someone have styro advice
>>40959516this thread is dead because people just try and drive people away by posting gross stuff
>>40959489Good girls goon their clitty to sissy hypnos!
>>40959529That's sad. I hope it gets revived soon. this board has been sooo slow lately.>>40959532Ok???
>>40959549Don't lie! You goon your clitty too! Every good girl loves her sissy hypnos! Every good girls loves her porn!
...fuck.previous: >>40836388Goal of the thread: I will not be fucked with that today.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Don't worry everyone, I'm not dead, I just needed a bit of a break. Will be back in full force on Sunday I believe.
>>40957610heck yeah!rest well!
>>40917560>what led you to detranstwo major reasons. lots of other smaller reasons but these two are really why I decided to detransition. Number one, was that it didn't feel like me becoming my true self, and felt like me trying to run away and become someone else. And I wanted to just try and be myself and accept myself. Number two is because I thought long and hard about what I truly wanted in life, and me meeting someone, who also led to heartbreak (but that's a different story), made me realize that what I truly wanted in life was to fit be in a cishet relationship and to have a family. I feel this one more strongly now.>>40921811>Have you checked your hormone levelsI have not. Checked them while on hrt but didn't care to when off it, but I this is probably a good idea ty anon
>>40957610Blessed anon
How do I make positive changes in my life when I have debilitating social anxiety, debilitating fear of negative evaluation, and have been isolated with my family my entire life (partially due to being homeschooled)? Therapy is my only conduit to the outside world, and even at home I don't do anything productive. The internet should be my pathway to social interaction, but I have avoided it there too.
Is it true that your sex life improves after transition, or is that just a cope?
>access to female holes is what makes you a good personand people wonder why our society is failing
>>40959032short answer, yesi have never came this hard in my lifelonger answer is i feel more comfortable being intimate in this body and i feel sexier and more confidant and my partner picks up on that and tries to match my energy
>>40959059>Are you getting SRS or not? No>Are you MtF or FtM? MtF>How are you having sex? PiV, topping (obviously). I feel a strong desire to bottom but I can barely fit a few fingers in there and the idea of being that vulnerable scares me (specially bottoming for a man)>Or do you mean do you get more sex after transition? Yes>It's such a vague question it's uselessYes, that's the point. I find vague questions get the most attention here and are the most interesting, at least until the thread devolves into a long discussion between two anons about optics, or bone structure, or whatever.
>>40959059what's ur height and weight anon?
>>40959059>Are you getting SRS or not?Yes >Are you MtF or FtM? MTF>How are you having sex?Boyfriend puts it in my butt >do you get more sex after transition?About the same
Why do crossdressers pass better than trans women do?
>>40959469I keep getting reels about lesbianism on my reels and im not sure how to feel i don’t even like them but they keep popping up are they trying to psyop me
>>40959517psyop you into what?
>>40959526Into liking women idk
>>40959517Tbf all social media wants to psyop you, one way or the other. You think the algorithm is personally tailored for you, but in reality they (the algorithms themselves) choose one of many tailored rabbit holes to kick you down into.
They understand that passing can come down to fashion and makeup and stuff. Some trannies I think are too concerned about being a "real woman" that they miss all the things you can do to bullshit your way into passing.
Prev: >>40876908QOTT: favorite fantasy creature?
>>40959436WAGMI
>>40959438yeah trutru
>>40959041i did tho. and i still do i always preferred mens clothes
>>40959041I didn't do it because my dysphoria is fake
>>40957504>do you know where you areHA HA HA anyway i love larping>>40959033>Seeing trans men talk about how they insisted they were boys since they were young is the ultimate repfuel for me because if my dysphoria was actually real I would have done that.god same anon, i cant stress this enough, it doesnt help that i was going through some stuff when i "realized" i had gender dysphoria. i couldve been a normal traumatized cis woman instead of a woman whose trauma badly translated into whatever this is>>40959041my mom never wanted me to cut my hair short for some strange reason lol she only allowed me to get shoulder length and never past it, i remember the first time i got it cut slightly shorter she got really mad at me even though it was still like kind of a bob cut.i actually only ever had really short hair one time in my life and it was from ripping it out during quarantine like i was somehow able to cut my hair with my own hands by ripping it apart but it also made it full of split ends and looked like dog shit honestly. i havent wanted to have hair that short ever since
The Thread editionQOTT: any of yous know how to sew?prev >>40940749
>>40959498it was so easy to start and ive spent every moment since regretting it
starting estrogen was easy and i never once regretted it
>>40959525this!!! So much this
i don’t know what i want so the solution is to kill myself
>>40959525same if I'm ever forced to stop taking it, I'm offing myself in a heartbeat.
If you are unhappy that women control the world and want to opt out of their sadistic game then you are an evil rapist killer woman hater.
You can opt out of women's sadistic game without becoming a tranny and trying to make children into trannies too
>>40959464apparently not
To opt out of the great game you need only not play it. Focus on art, creation, etc. starve the beast do not focus on killing it.
>>40958629I am actually smarter than you >>40958655tldr you still get no pussy
>>40959494>opt out of the social orderlosing
I peruse this board once in a while, had something happen to me that’s got me feeling a bit melancholic. Wanted to tell someone abt it but can’t say it to any one irl because I keep my shit in the closet. So you fags can read it instead>be me>in uni>living in dorm >bored out of my mind>room mate is a stoner / loser who is always out with his junkie buddies>dorm next to mine has a normal dude and a shorter skinny Peruvian boy>everyone else is ordinary and forgettable>go to a party this one time, full of shitheads and is boring >about to leave>bump into Peruvian boy>he spills a cup of something onto my shirt>cuss him out >he just timidly apologizes while not making eye contact Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40957229you mentioned (s)he was soft all around it might be (s)he is already on hormones lmao. based off your description (s)he isn't gonna end up being an "ugly tranny"
>>40955617You don't deserve him. You're so cowardly and irresponsible, man the fuck up. You flee your feelings to the point it causes external damage. You actually suck so hard it's beyond gay
>>40958480For fucking real. Although I think it’s likely this is a no life larper who just wanted to make a legendary greentext, hence why he won’t let the thread die.But if it is real then fuck him. I was on his side at first but throughout the thread it’s become glaringly obvious that he is either a sadistic narcissist or very emotionally repressed and is not ready for a relationship. This dynamic can seem fun for a short while or a booty call but the extreme possessiveness and objectification becomes dangerous long term. I’ll admit it’s hot as a bottom but it gets old and dangerous real fastZ
>>40957526i never asked him about that. he doesnt sound super girly, but he didnt sound like a guy either, but maybe that was cuz he had a spanish accent when he spoke. >>40958480cowardly? the nigga is in another country. ive done all i can to try to get in touch with him. i didnt run away from anything, it was the circumstances that made it hard to make a decision. nothing else.>>40958585i gain nothing from lying. i got better things to do than to make up shit on the internet, i just dont have any place else to talk about what's going on.
>>40957229>things would be smoother with my family and friendsthis is what it would changesince that seems to be the only reason you won't date this boy>ugly trannies pretending to be girly and its just a huge turn off. is he ugly? you said he's cute im just trusting you>i just dont know if i like him or not.i do. and the answer is yesnobody goes to this much trouble without caring>>40959049>he doesnt sound super girly,hormones don't change your voice. that takes a lot of time and practice
Previous /pg/: >>40942196Post your face and provide critiques for other tranners
>>40959276no she doesn't
>>40959261>>40959064How many guys do you let hit at the same time?Or are you a transbian?
>>40959296yes she does
>>40959323she's a transbian
>>40958893would not>>40958929absolutely would>>40959064probably would
Time to play 4chans gameIs it tits or is it gyno?
>>40957557kekd
>>40957557I dont get it. I think I have a very standard cis male body desu.T. Op.
>>409565264trannies are so fucked up now. I remember when they just used to be normal people trying to find dates online. Now they’re seething incel serial killers that shoot children in the head.
>>40956526hrtitties>>40957557gyno
>>40959493Thankfully, I'm too dumb to do even basic calculus.
what do you call it when you're mtf but spiritually ftm.
>>40959362Standard pooner denial mtf
>>40959362Transmisandry
>>40959362delusions of grandeur
>>40959362on all levels except physical i am a poon*duud!*
>>40959362i think they call that internalized
That's my only goal in life.But I'll never achieve it.I'll never be happy.
>>40955919I just want to hold a trans girl while she feels bad and tell her it's all going to be ok
>>40955919as someone with experience, the part you're struggling with is NOT the hard part. literally all you need to do is be kind and friendly to practically any trans woman and she will fall in love with you. especially kinky ones, ones that are chronically online, or lack friends and dating options that don't suck. so all of them pretty much. give yourself a week and some basic strategy like knowing where to look, and you will find them.the HARD part is finding one who is mentally stable and can survive without talking to you for five minutes once she latches on. BPD is very common especially in single trans women (google "survivorship bias," the BPD ones get dumped fast even by the most patient people.)if you just wanna cuddle, don't mind breaking hearts, and have a car + maybe 200 bucks for gas, you can get what you want, honestly no matter how ugly you are.>>40959196MUCH harder, good luck girl. unless you dont mind splitting attention with 10+ other losers in some kind of ""polycule"", or dont mind diapers i guess lol, you're fucked.
>>40955919do you like boymoders
>>40959310>girlYou don't know how bad it actually is
>>40959393my condolances big dawg i did not realize i was talking to captain ngmireal talk tho you know how unlikely it is for you to actually find a trans woman owner or even dom as a dude. become a woman somehow or yngmi (UnU")
prev. >>40955040qott. Do your chain hang low? Do they wobble to and fro?
finally finished me Grok projectnow back to me goldI shall look upon itknowingno one else can have itbecause its minemine mine mine mine mine mine mine mine mine
>>40959344i have the same build type as jason islandnigger minus the hollywood secret reserve steroids and personal chef/nutritionisthes off his trt cycle and im natty with a dad bod
>>40959313i'm thinking of buying one of their lore/artbook things for art reference cause it looks cool, but i dunno how much fantasy dribble i can stomach, cause i gotta read the whole thing if i buy it
zamn just stubbed my pinky toe on corner of the bed
why do the gods punish me with devastatingly good looks and high rizz, there isn't enough of me to go around
Trans women are fully real women because they, just like cis women, never think about whether their actions will negatively affect others. They only think about themselves.
>>40958788>I love about tgirls is their innate ability to make everything about themselvesNot just that, but what they do seems to need to be at a detrimental to others.Take the shitty red/green posts for example>Red: Positive to transGreen: Detrimental to cis
>>40958838>im passinguh huh
>>40958641too much!
>>40957759This is true, my parents are depressed that I’m trans and I still haven’t thrown away my meds, cut my hair, and begun wearing manly man clothesI truly am despicable
>>40957759It's like I'm listening to my parents. This is exactly what they say about me when they're mad at me. Gee, thanks for the validation I really am a real woman, OP.
TL;DR, what are the signs of someone who has been working on bettering her BPD symptoms?I'm a bi trans woman (i know), and all my partners in the past have been either extremely distant, extremely EXTREMELY clingy, or in a polycule (and waited to tell me until after we started dating LMAO).I honestly don't mind a BPD woman, i'm self aware enough to admit i like the attention and feeling like im not going to be left behind (i have some BPD tendencies myself but i'm very actively handling it). I just can't handle the 24/7 communication, the hypersensitivity to totally innocent things, and the lack of personality outside of "PLEASE DOMESTICATE ME I DONT WANNA THINK ANYMORE BARK BARK BARK" which is admittedly very hot as a kink, but good god it is tiring to handle 24/7.I know im basically asking for tips on unicorn hunting, but i intend to be with this hypothetical person for a long time, so i dont mind the extra effort. If it helps, I fit all of my own criteria, am set up for a good job in the future (like, pay for all my own surgeries and still make it home in time for christmas, good, if i manage to make it into a union), am absolutely willing to put in the effort required to make someone feel comfortable, am a 6.5/10 on a good day, and have pretty much gotten over my major mental issues (brainworms etc) aside from being lonely sometimes.i have a bit of a more in depth idea of what i would want in a girlfriend, but i don't think it's necesarry to add rn.
>>40959480do you already have a person in mind or are looking for someone?
>>40959518looking, but honestly as long as she's kinda pathetic, and not bigoted (im white, it's just a turn off imo. sign of immaturity im not looking for in a potential wife), then i don't mind even if she's kind of a hon. I have preferences for personality and opionions and the like, but i like to keep an open mind on those things.
>>40959553opinions, not opinonions LOL
