when is it a good time/at the point it makes sense to give up on someone with BPD? The girl I've been talking to seems really lukewarm. so I'm getting the impression more she's not interested and not that she's pushing me away or needs me to stick around even.So I kinda wanna make a clean cut so that I don't feel mixed up but I'm sorta worried it'd be a mistake if im miss judging how she's acting. Is it normal for BPD people to just vanish a few times a week and then apologize or am I just fooling myself with their interest
>>40941184never leave themtheyll miss you forever
>>40941184if shes BPD why are you even botheringher showing interest in you is a bad thing
>>40941210does not feel like that right now>>40941219is she though? showing interest
>>40941184sorry im just retardedi swear ill talk to you tomorrow im just nervous
People were really putting their pronouns in their email signature. That shit was wild.
>>40940809>>40940365It's just the end goal of Puritanism and virtue signalismThat's why we should have killed all protestants in the 17th century
>>40940883you're acting like the pendulum isn't going to swing back after trump getting outted as a ped
>>40940862the pronoun stuff came pretty suddenly too. It went from niche tumblr stuff to mainstream overnight in 2020
>>40940442no. if you are recognizable as a specific crazy person who has been posting the same retarded shit on here for years and never backing it up, i'm not going to pretend you're not a lunatic just because the words you posted are technically something a non-schizophrenic could in theory believe.
>>40940915I'll be real with you.Frazzledrip could come out and reveal that Trump is standing behind Hillary with a salt shaker in one hand while rubbing his tummy with the other and singing a song about wanting to eat babies, and nothing would change.Trump die-hards will say its AI, or wait for Trump's excuse.Centrists who claim they're "Just democrats from 10 years ago" will bury their head in the sand every time you try to show it to them and call it fake news, and that the real video would only have Hillary and Huma anyway cause the internet said so.The Earth would continue turning and at most some Dems might protest and then it'd die down a few weeks later.I used to believe there was a straw that could break the camels back but when I talk to my RW friends, they STILL twist themselves into a Gordian knot trying to explain how Trump couldn't have possibly gone to the Island but he's probably trying to protect a friend who did go there and that's why he's putting on this charade.I don't think the spell Trump has on this nation can dispel until "nothing ever happens" switches from 'True' to 'False' and I didn't program this garbage reality so I don't know if we can do that.
are the right-wing trans girls still happy they voted for trump?
That's literally it. This is the question. I'm a transgender man and I don't know if gay dudes would actually like me in the same way I like them.Though honestly I kind of doubt it, being a transgender man sucks sometimes because most time whilst trying to find a relationship it's always just a guy wanting to fetishize you. I've been getting desperate at this point, all I want is an actual relationship.
>>40939525get off this board bro this place is not for you. you need thicker skin.
>>40939224I'm bi and I am attracted to the same sort of poonies as I am cis boys.
>>40941117So, women ?
>>40939338Motte and bailey
>>40941142Yes but the irony of pooners is that the most malebrained thing an effeminate small dicked manlet can do is develop a MEF fetish and become a femboy, so the real valid FtMs are those ones.
talk about your virginian woes in this thread
Here's what Virginia looks like.
I have sadly never seen a Virginia in my life
>>40940145it's been so long since i've had sex i am so fucking horny
>>40940176come to virginia
last one hit bump limit and did pretty well>Those who are prehrt or early in transition post pics so others can assess their future passability.remember to rate one or two posts above you when you post to keep the thread alive
>>40940973A little untranny but I think it works works well enough
>>40940973you look much better in makeup and at that angle. i think the first pic made your chin weird bc of the angle of the camera and your pose. here you look gorgeous. idk if you pass 100% but i wouldn't clock you on the street unless you were really bricky or tall
>>40940973I think you can make it. The makeup is a bit heavy handed right now, but good facial structure. Only thing is midface length and philtrum but I believe in u>>40940129Terrible photo, difficult to tell anything.>>40940039idk about that fit lol. And the chin isn't great... Side profile would make or break my verdict. 9 months hormones but still an ugly manmoder. Is there any chance?
>>40940973>are all you bitches 2000 babies?nope imma 20th century gal>i thought id ask if i pass with makeupi think either work great. In fact I almost think no-makeup looked better but it might just be my personal preferences. either way ez YGMI verdict>>40941156legit you already pass imo, like i expect people would just assume you're a woman and gender you female.>idk about that fit lol.>And the chin isn't great... Side profile would make or break my verdict. i kinda need to get busy with some irl stuff so i'll give u a choice, less experimental outfit or side pic, which would u prefer?
>>40941190well no one fucking genders me female so. only mailfailed once all summer.hmm well this is could I pass gen, and clothes are easier to fix than chins, so side pic.
I keep having intense fits of wanting to be held and babied. I dont know what to do about it. I so desperately crave regression but its difficult for me to do it on my own. I want to be made to feel small and beautiful and to not have to think about anything. I want to be cared for like a parent cares for a child.I wish i could find some way to cope with these feelings and or get rid of them. I find them generally embarassing and make me feel even more gross and undatable then i already feel.How do i deal with this?
>>40940860yup. its hard to know when adults are bein werid about it. lots of them hurt me lots... cant help feelin scared. i just dont know how to find an adult whose safe. i think im going to get colouring book and crayons... thank you annon.
>>40940653daddy bf said he feels "recharged" and like it "gives him purpose"
Yaknow...Ive been hanging around littles a lot. Explicitly dubbed myself "not little" because it kinda creeps me out to think about. But I have some alcohol in me, brain is half functioning, and the way nona is talking? I... kinda really like seeing those words right now... yea.Ugh
>>40941138Following up on this thought, I dont even know what a "good childhood" looks like. I was extensively abused and tortured from before I could even remember. I cant even envision parental care without the swing of a chain being swung into my back.So Im not sure what it is my stupid half cognizant brain is attaching to right now...
>>40941188keep this page open when you sober up to reflect.
The political climate and my body in general don't allow me to ever transition (stealth pass), mostly because I'm 6'2, but I was wondering if you can manmode forever? Like what I get FFS and just get a masculine haircut?
>>40938454No, why would I bother?
weak will
>>40937545It's possible if you're gay. People's first assumption will be "oh, he's just gay, that's why..." followed by a bunch of excuses they came up with.t. 5.5y manmoder
>>40937545Yup. I'm 6ft2, and live a cool life where I command respect in a seriously cool job you could never possibly guess or understand. I love who I wanna love, many options are open. I can travel to places where my trans sisters would be arrested or attacked. I befriend women, men, and queers alike. I like myself in my skin.
>>40937578>I'm happy for those who want to honmode but I could never do it, I think it's better to be a feminine man than a masculine tranny (hon)i'm very much in the same boat. i'm comfortable enough to just keep presenting as a queer looking male indefinitely
Does it make men uncomfortable when you look into their eyes while you lovingly suck their cock?
>>40941009Not going to post that in this thread, I'll add you on discord though
>>40941018oki drop ur dc :3
>>40941020compost6969
>>40940984I am a straight man. Do you think i would enjoy getting a blowjob from you?
>>40940605it makes me want to palm the back of your head and push your lips to the hilt
No more guns for trans people
>>40935749omg im so shocked they would use this latest mass shooting as an attempt to try to ban guns from only trans people but conveniently forget all the mass shooting involving white men
>>40940148Well of course they don't care: the guys in charge share the same ideology as the Nazi cult this school shooter retard was into.
>>40936480Shame. It would have been hilarious. Especially if the yiffers were armed.
so many pol monkies here today
>>40937625no firearms no problem, get an Any Other Weaponwe are in the era of drone warfare anyways>>40935749>>40937625my main concern is its a prereq to democide.im wondering how pervasive the democidal sentiment is. im confidently vibechecking that a large amount of americans (including my family) and politicians want all trans people killed fullsend, but dont have the balls to say it publicly.ive not even transitioned yet and just being mildly fem in public makes about 1/20 men look at me like im not human>israelretards in thread, but the gaza situation is relevant, it shows current tolerance for genocide
I’m ok just being a non-hairy, non-balding man.>T.manmoder
>>40941082Non-binary is thing you know. You don't have to be a woman if you don't want to (no-gender). And you can part-time if you want to(genderfluid). And you can just not really know (genderqueer). It's all okay. It's about making you comfortable with yourself.
>>40941082How's your arse then lad
Prev: >>40876908QOTT: favorite fantasy creature?
>>40941094Do you not have these where you are?
>>40941126no
>>40941104thats okay because im not trying to be cool or esoteric. i already know im this weird
>>40941132Shipping you one right now. Inshallah it gets through customs and arrives safely.
>>40941095>I hope everyone is eventually able to leave the limbo of femrepping.Does it ever truly end
Do you believe in female souls in male bodies?
I'm lucky I got a female soul.
>>40936135I do yes.
>>40936135No. I believe that there are masculine and feminine energies and that some males clearly have a feminine animus and I call those males women.
>>40936135I am oneBut I'm not a womanMy soul is a woman but my biology is a man. Therefore I'm a man
>>40936135idk really. personally doubt it.sure i've had people make observations about my feminine personality traits/habits/etc. since before i even considered transitioning but deep down i still feel like i have a male soul but i'm just like damaged in a weird way. like something didn't click right when i was created.at the very most i would only consider my soul to be some weird in between thing, not quite one or the other.
He's cutting off his boobies this weekend. I usually prefer FtM twinks to have flat chests but idk his tits are so perfect he actually looks hot asf with them
>>40938699>>40938736This capitialization is so obnoxious I have to assume a woman typed it. I hope you're not ftm
>>40938249>>40938249H O L YOLYP L A PLAP
>>40938771Sadly, it's a turbo autist AFaB.Gigafujo
>>40937682TAlso fuck ass mod this stays >>40938249 but my censored silicone gets a ban?
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General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning, and friends.QOTT: What is your favorite biome?QOTT2: What cultural cuisine do you enjoy the most?
>>40940578You'll find whatever block there is and exorcise it. The behaviours that come naturally to you and bring you joy. They no longer have connotations one way or another. You will find a way of being that frees you not from the burden of labels, for people must refer to you as best they can. But from the expectations of those labels. Your future, your present, shall no longer be dictated by the shame and discomfort or even pride you might feel from adhering to the tenants of these labels. If shine is what you are to do, then that you will, but you do not need to shine if that is not your inclination. If it's your desire to do so then overcome all that prevents you from doing so. Be that physical, mental, interpersonal, situational. You must expand into whatever space you might fill. Fill no more space than you can, and take on the shape that you must take in order to abscond from your duties. Shoulder whatever burdens you must shoulder and you must not shoulder any more. If you choose not to shoulder them, you could instead hip them, or forearm them, or knee them. Never again lament your adherence or lack there of to any category, least of all the appendix that contains all which lies between.
>>40940722thank u anon. deeply. im saving this and will read it back to myself at points in the future. this is not an easy path.
much new music this blessed Friday.....i am listening to the Slipknot anniversary album now but there is also a new shame album, new La Dispute, Big Thief, Fleshwater, Cut Copy, Tchotchke, and many others INCLUDING new Town Portal single which is SO good and heralds finally a new Town Portal ALBUM after six years. i cannot overstate my excitementi hope everyone has the loveliest new-music Friday and that something you have been excited for came out today
>>40940578based blame
>>40941062Good luck anon! Let me give you an even more actionable piece of wisdom for when you've spent time untangling what you find you might wish to untangle. "Don't worry about it."Never repeat this is an accusatory or defensive tone. It is a reassurance for all not least yourself