went to a few queer events in my local music/house party scene and holy shit the combined amount of reddit karma in the room was insane. not to mention all the tgirls being in the same copy paste polyester amazon basics gooner garbage. now no disrespect to the girls who are figuring this all out but it's a crime that this is the "norm" that girls are striving for. i get that it's what the online (and by extension of these events, offline) transfem community is saying you should embody, but that entire identity is based around porno stereotypes and the male gaze. and holy shit is it everywhere. i've found several boomerhons on youtube trying to dress like egirls, assumably because its what the internet told them to do. these queer spaces feel like they have this self-imposed weakness layered in irony and reddit humor. like there's no edge to anything and it's not actually transgressive no matter how much your local tgirl says "this dog bites back" or how much your local tboy posts photos of possums with lens flare eyes and the caption "what is gender". this is the state of queer community, at least in my city, where you don't have to be tough to be a tranny or a queer or a flamboyant fag. everywhere feels like it's just steven universe and semantics, and with everything being organized online the bar to entry is literally on the ground. is it like this in other cities too? is this just "the way things are"?
looks like you're stuck with us nona
>>42384317you're not under any obligation to engage with mainstream queers if you don't want to ykmost ppl find their clique and settle after a while, you'll find those who you don't cringe at eventually
>>42384351nooo :(>>42384356yeah you're right, it's just hard to find queer people not like this in my city. i've lived here for 3ish years and i only know two
seriously where did you guys go its been like 3 days since the last threadQOTT: did you ever come out before repping? was it irl or only online?
>>42371575I have with a friend I grew up with we decided to just lose it to each other. I got jizzed in three times total on three separate occasions. It only stopped when he went to college all the way in Maine and I completely lost contact with him. It is an incredibly warm feeling for five minutes and it will leak out of you slowly for the rest of the day if you don't try to clean any of it out, I learned that the hard way when I sat on the bleachers at a game and stood up leaving a glaze of his jism where I was sitting. I don't think anyone noticed it but me but I clearly saw it reflect in the light. I remember walking away and hearing someone ask if someone spilled some sauce which made me laugh.
>>42374924that would be cool in the moment but as soon as you reconnect with your body you'd be in some serious pain for days.
Reminder that pooners do not contribute to society and are leechesThere are only 2 notable pooners in biology fields (and nowhere else in human history), each born a century from each otherFrom 2000 onwards pooners have only shamelessly cared about their optics and the gainzIs this the dysfunctional, narcissistic cabal of leeches you intend to join?
BRUTAL MOG. How do femreppers cope?
>>42383794men are like the flood combat form of humans women are the flood carrier form of humans.
How do you buy women's underwear and clothes without feeling like a degenerate freak?
>>42382158can I see on a different site?
>>42382464sorry unnoticed gem im sorry no one saw this peak
>>42381133I just steal them from my mom or sisters lol
>>42381133>How do you buy women's underwear and clothes without feeling like a degenerate freak?It's easy, just pass first; or order online.>>42381535>>42382883Also these. Why would I wear underwear for males? It'd look weird to have all that extra fabric in front for the penis and balls that I don't have...
>how do i wear a piece of cloth without feeling bad?>just have a lot of money for surgery or believe you’re a woman harderdon’t get me wrong i’d humble brag about having srs all the time if i had it but come on people
Im a 30 yo straight man that wants to be a tranny, and date trannies, whats the best way of going about becoming a tranny in Australia?
>>42384315Build a time machine, travel back at least 10 years (ideally 20) and convince your younger self to start DIY immediately. You should bring some vials with you in case your younger you is too retarded to go on the internet and order some by herself.
The picture that made me suicidal as a 5'4 ftm
>>42384138they're objectively undesirable on "men"
>>42384213The minority of trannies who look like women know they look like women and just pretend they don't to seek attention.And the majority who don't look like women are a lot further off than just looking like slightly busted versions of their moms.
>>42383812advice on what, how to get pregnant? why would i take relationship advice from a polish khhv? doubt you know much about detransitioning either, you're just gonna end up with "hairy mutilated women", as you call them.
>>42384273>be man>have those traits>men and women attracted, irresistible Someone lied to you
>>42384301>be woman>have traits of conventionally attractive woman>men and women are attracted to you
last thread died lolhttp://lena.kiev.ua/voice/https://sys.4chan.org/derefer?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2Falyssavt%2Fno-explanations-instructions-feminizinghttps://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/voice-examples/>pasta:•Tool for visualizing pitch and resonancehttps://acousticgender.space/▶ Resources MTF:--- Full MTF Course ---•L's GuideComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42377897Idk I just wish I had a higher pitch and better resonance is all I’m 19 and started voice training at 17
>imagine you are a little doghey wait a sec! what is going on here
>>42380367actually training from 17-19 or "sometimes i raise my larynx" from 17-19, because time in that second stage does not count
>>42382930Like maybe a week and a half max of actual active training on my resonance when I was 17 and the rest was just me using the voice 24/7 and it kinda just rounded out from that and the occasional tips from a vocal therapist I had for a little bit (I dropped her because she told me that I already reached my goal and she couldn’t really help on much)
https://voca.ro/16J0w0jXA4jS>>42371295i can hear you perfectly actually lmao i cant even hear the machines. sorry for missing your invitation to chat. you sound really good though! >>42375960i agree with the other to that your pitch is perfect pretty much, just needs a little better resonance>>42376399good so far especially with just passive training pretty much! i think a little higher pitch and a lot lighter resonance is needed to be perfect. you sound cute tthough>>42376861you have pretty okay resonance, but the pitch is too low and i agree that its worse on the vowels and like 2/3 perfect for resonance on consonants. definitely i have some issues with giving advice for non-american accents though, since i dont have a great gauge of what a passing voice sounds like in those accents you sound kinda like oliver lugg lmao
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT>Are you or your gf good at making others laugh? What never fails to make you laugh?>Are you a vengeful person? Favorite incident in which you’ve gotten revenge on someone? Are you forgiving?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42335213
The family foundation building for better futures probably deserves better
>>42383135there are strapons that stimulate the clit while topping maybe look into those
>>42375916I need a 4'10" cis chinese gf
>>42383548Sure but it's not the same.
I need a 6ft Norwegian gf (cis)
I invited a pooner over and had sex with him, but I'm already dating someone else and now I'm scared he'll find out.I thoroughly cleaned my house, my windows have been open for 2 days, I sprayed cologne all over the house, but the tuna smell still won't go away. My bf is coming back tomorrow. How do I fix my house? I don't want him to find out
>>42384081>actual sex
>>42384112You knowtheir inescapable features that define them and not just the gyno addons and butt fat trannies get?
>>42384159tourist has no ideas that pooners pass much better than mtfs on average
>>42384159so being a woman is just a stereotype like it's just a couple of features
>>42384188
Exercise Editionprevious: >>42162119Goal of the thread: Go out for a walk, or try to get any other form of small exercise (walking stairs for 5 mins for example)Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42356916What is your starting off point, NEETdom wise? Like living circumstances and such, and what have you tried to get out so far?>>42354791I tend to agree with Panty, your main focus gotta be finding grounding techniques that work for you as a first aid, although the fact that you are quick to anger by frustrations is actually something you might wanna seriously explore. It might be something as simple as you being very stressed. Is it a constant thing? Or does it happen reliably every time, no matter your prior mood?>>42353065>>42358784Welcome back once again, Anon! I took the time to re-read our old conversations trawling through the archive links you provided each time, I appreciate it. My last response back then was actually cross-thread since the old one died https://archived.moe/lgbt/thread/38422948/#q38424094, unless I messed up the reply chain.There's a lot to talk about (I had to split the post in two even) in all this and I try to be brief for now, I can expand on anything you want, but in short, I would put depooning considerations on hold and talk long term relationship goals first.>i agree to depoonThat's.. one hell of a thing to offer, Anon. Of course he feels guilts, depooning might seriously fuck you up. If he is from a red state and his family are turbonormies then I am afraid he would need to radically depart from his current social climate for the chance to have this relationship work. I mean the fact he wants to make it work for you should mean even he should have issues with his own family, right? Let me be frank, he needs to seriously consider if he wants to die cuffed to his family for life. Family is an intricate subject for many but, as awful as it is, sometimes you gotta cut ties if you want to live.Does he have friends you would vibe with? This matters for something else I'm saying below.(1/2)
Enough for the night.>>42353065>>42358784(2/2)>i think i stress way too easily, i cant take small things and think of suicide daily.What you lack is grounding, which makes sense if you are isolated and the only relationship you currently have is both romantic and under difficult circumstances. Your bf is a loner from what I gather and I assume that by living the car life you mean the plan was that the two of you were to live out of your car with no stable surroundings or a permanent address? There are a couple sore spots even if you weren't to detrans, the most pressing is that if you had no friends and 100% of your social life was your partner, your relationship would be doomed in the long run anyway. It is not a healthy set of circumstances.>and i need to get some cavities filled and am scared of the drill too.We can talk about that too if you wanna. Remember, we've got your back.>>42357348You're very welcome, wishing you all the best!
>>42382385I'll take a look at the butt shaping exercises then. Also, any idea how to reduce loose skin? I have a massive apron of it since I gain rapid weight gain as a teenager due to being prescribed SSRIs instead of estrogen.
>>42382700I’m glad you agree with my reply here >>42355683 and I wanted to agree that our emotional responses can be situational or environmental, and that identifying and managing specific triggers is another important step to take. Semi-related, I recently watched a video about the long-term mental health effects of prolonged doomscrolling. It cited a National Geographic article (it’s paywalled on the site proper but it was posted publicly on Scribd here: https://www.scribd.com/document/952794856/The-Surprising-Way-Doomscrolling-Rewires-Your-Brain-National-GeographicBasically, reading news that you perceive as threatening puts your mind in fight-or-flight mode, we’re drawn to that sort of information because of an instinctual drive to learn about potential danger, and reading a lot of news stories about things you perceive as threatening can put you into a sustained state of distress where you’re primed to keep looking for more of the like and you get yourself more and more upset. That was happening to me pretty regularly a year or two ago, and I’m glad I’ve got that issue under better control, but it was kind of a relief to know that it could happen to anybody.
>>42341787Trying to change is really hard.
>you have a 19 year old boymoding daughter>one day she runs away from home>you're obviously hurt, maybe you weren't a good parent. maybe she's having an episode. maybe she found someone>several weeks of no sign of her >you then receive an email from an unknown address, a link to a porn video>it was uploaded just a few days back>it's your daughter, girlmoding, having sex with multiple men>you realize that this is the first time she's ever girlmoded, and you weren't there for it>this is how she went about girlmoding for the first time, and in front of all to seewhat is your honest to god reaction?
>>42382354itd be hotter if she were still in the closet desu
>>42382354Who emailed me her video?If it was her, why would she do that? She sounds spiteful.If it was someone else, that's...weird for many different reasons.
>>42382354Honour killing with a tire iron.
>>42382354I call her a b*d girl
>>42382354Did you have a good relationship with her? Were you accepting of her transness? Why did she boymode at your house?
Why'd you let the previous thread die?QOTT: What are you looking forward to in life?QOTT2: You don't deserve a second one. Make it up yourselves.Ignore trollsIgnore spamPrevious: >>42352403
>>42382315>Is this the dysfunctional demographic you joined?ofc and im proud. We already go through enough. We are leeches and you accept it, you have no other choice
I'm really frustrated over dumb trannys on bluesky so now I'm here
>>42383734what happened this time
I don't use social media besides 4chan
>>42383998Having a FB, Instagram, or Xitter is directly correlated with having a female mind
why was i born underserving of love?
>>42382026https://voca.ro/1kAzLfugEu9V
>>42382054its not like i have much else outside of here
>>42382086https://voca.ro/118Ykf0TfwJO
>>42382026Just because you are low on trust in others does not mean you are incapable of loving yourself. Always love yourself first.
>>42382026>deserveNo such thing.
*student counts as a jobi work as a cafe barista and i'm a uni student
>>42380900at-home technician (I repair stuff in people's homes)unrelated: nice numbers, OP
>>42380900Project Engineer
>>42380900student does not count as a job stop coping
I am a firmware developer and quantum computing student part time
I sell modded Nintendo DS to nerds online
BRUTAL mog. I feel so bad for lil ftm bois, they're so small, weak, feminine etc they need love and impregnation
>>42383821It is too late. If there was help I would've been helped years ago. I can't be helped
>>42383759testosterone is a teratogen dawg
>>42383498hes just a particularly grim casebro is heightmogged by most cis women
>>42383498>why do ftms try?Try what
>>42383498The irony of this thread is that you do not behave or sound like a male.
man, learned that lesson alright
>>42380884im white as snow as it were
>>42379431Why did you tell her you were doing it?
>>42383912because it's just the kind of relationship we had, we both didnt keep secrets and over shared often. she also thought the idea was pretty hot. but reality struck, and Im realizing she needed masculine energy to lead her. i was on trt when i met her but im much happier on estrogen. there's other thing too but i think that me losing my masculine je ne sais quoi played a big part. i couldve stayed on testosterone and started physically abusing her and she wouldve stayed with me for ever. i just didnt care for any of that
>>42379431>a weekdid anything even happen in that timeframe or did she find out
>>42384015she knew before i started. but estrogen takes away your masculine edge pretty quickly, and i think that was the last straw
