...fuck.previous: >>40836388Goal of the thread: I will not be fucked with that today.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40893991I might be able to help here.which moisturiser are you getting anon? cerave?>exfoliatorfor your body physical exfoliation isn't half bad.for your face a general recommendation would be getting a milder acid, like glycolic acid, that wont be as likely to leave your skin burning. The Ordinary has one that performs alright>antibacterial washyou'll want to look for something labelled surgical soap or antiseptic cleanser. nizoral is another option, primarily for dandruff, psoriasis, and fungal related skin issues
>>40895887Alright anon, walk me through what it is that needs doing.>>40896303I wish you nothing but the very best, Anon!>>40897889It's my pleasure. I hope it will be of use to you!>>40898605>So my plan to eat out less last month hit a snag where I needed to buy more groceries. I’m going to take an inventory of all the groceries I bought last month to make a grocery budget and meal plan for this month.Sounds like a plan, I'm a fan of envelop budgeting (which is pretty much what you describe, having an expectation how much you intend on spending in a time frame) for this stuff which is why I like paying groceries in cash.>I guess you could say that until now, I felt like Panty knew something I didn’t about being yourself and living life to the fullest, and the way she’s being written now gives me the opposite impression. It’s not bad, just unexpected.It also seems like she has just generally become more interested in other things, in a way. I haven't caught up on the most recent eps but in general it seems like she engages with the world and people more.>>40900882I'm proud of you, Angel. I hope you know.
The best way for troooooncels to self improoove is to detransition and go to the therapy clinic.
Alright, I think I need to take a break for today. Managed more posts than I thought I would.>>40902581I don't know if it helps to hear but remember that you are permitted to lean on people.>>40902007Do you have someone you could contact for a bit of body doubling?>>40902104This is still such a glow-up! Really impressive work, Anon. I'm happy for you.>>40906926What is it about your circumstances that is so nightmarish?>>40897848>>40908691Assuming you are the same anon.. what led you to detrans? I understand you refuse to transition but I am trying to better understand your circumstances.
>>40917489ok bottom
>"men shouldnt be in womens sports">AHHHHHH FAR RIGHT TROLLLWe showed that black bitch, never fuck with liberals or trans
>>40916717Freedom of speech doesn’t mean freedom from consequences.
>>40916468Both right and left are fake and don't have any particular ideology they're based on. They only make sure to say the opposite the other says at a given time, to ensure you will at least vote either of them.
>>40916724yeah exactly
>>40916468>why is the right-wing pretending to care about black women?They don't.They care about people that provide value to society.If that woman is making a living, doing whatever it is she wants to do, and isn't a welfare queen, more power to her.
>>40917205Welfare meme after 1995. God, you're insufferable.Black women are one of the most educated demos in the US, and usually hustlers because black men walk out on their kids like it's sport. I was at a bar just the other day when an old drunk called out another for being a 70 year old 'non-breeder' because, "No female even took you to court for breeding her." It is amazing to me that most interracial relationships are BM/WW, when they should be the other way around.You and I both know why black people, who are usually quite conservative, refuse to vote for the right wing parties in their countries; they don't care for their interests at all.
I don't understand the obsession with race. The more I think about it, the dumber it is. I bring this up here because the lgbt in general loves bringing up race constantly, and I think it's getting really fucking tiring.Everyone is just a human to me. Maybe it's the autism, but hearing about "white erasure", BBC, black fatigue, white fatigue, immigrants, and all this other garbage is like medieval talk to me.2025 was supposed to be the future, yet here we are in the 1980s STILL talking about caveman neanderthal bullshit. We are intellectually worse off than we were in the 80s and it's pissing me off immensely. I cannot STAND how everything is about race now.
>>40916942what a blessing that would be for your parents if you off'd yourself gincel
>>40911979it's all part of the show we live in this fucked up giant reality TV show and everyone or most people are retarded now because they've been trained groomed brainwashed to be so
>>40911979People who are obsessed with race are just barely conscious enough to recognize that the world has issues, but they are too retarded to understand why. You can't fix them unfortunately.
it would be nice to not care about race but when everyone else cares about race you don't have much choiceit's tragedy of the commons. Of course it would be better if everyone worked together, but it's just not worth being the only one acting ethically
>>40911979I get it. I'm brown and even I don't gaf this much about race... what are 4channers even smoking to worry this much about it??? Do you guys not feel exhausted bringing up the same thing over and over again?
QOTT: when did you give up your hopes for transition?last thread: >>40862423
>>40917475me too
>>40917251It's just the truth, most anons here would tell you the same.
>>40917327feels like suicide pact is another option
life is genuinely unbearable, i cant believe most normal people are happy to be alive.
>>40917633Everyone else can fit into their neat little heteronormative mold
>>40915162Qott: why are you fat?
>>40917381raep
why do trannies deny the obvious sociological reasons that cause people to troon out?such as>marketing that implies women are beautiful and cherished objects that have inherent worth>social failure leading to a disidentification with maleness after being rejected by boys and ignored by girls >desire for community, having something in common with otherslike is it just me but the whole female brain from childhood thing sounds like a fantasy explanation whereas the truth is most of it is just trauma to the point of identity death most likely
>>40915728Why? Because they would lose the social capital they need to abuse children and animals.
>>40917384porn addiction would cause a straight cis man to want to self-castrate?why?if he wants attention why not just do steroids or something?
>>40917289but not all gay people are gender dysphoric, which is also not a choice
>>40915728>why do trannies deny [random bullshit I find plausible with no evidence]
>>40917394i never said anything about straight cis men, but if they are agp it could happen.steroids is just another side of the same coin, some people go that route. but steroids just dont have the same addictive pull that taking on a whole new identity and community does.
Why do transbians have tendency to be a poly? What's the reason of that? Dont polycules never work as intended? It's hard to maintain a relationship between two persons, imagine if they were three or more
>>40916471incel to trans pipeline, starved for attention, not actually in love with any of the other prisongays in their polycule
>>40917222>prisongaysKill yourself, nigger. I still remember you from the last transbian thread.
>>40916471>Splitting rent because they're broke>No family support>Usually doing drugs>The only dating options are other transbians or t4t poonjoshisIt's more of a circumstance than a preference.
>>40916471something something wanting to be squished between two people + online discord dramathere's a funny bus website called transportthing.uk which is a fork of bustimes.org that was run by a transbian polycule and it imploded recently after a 3-way breakup lmao
>>40916471been there, done that, didn't get aidsstrict monogamy from now on (or being single)
has anyone tried girlmoding in lucid dreams?
>>40916066same, but sometimes other people’s perception of me in the dream suggests my appearance. i notice my dream appearance tends to map over pretty well from irl
>>40916018i don’t do anything as a woman
>>40916126how are you not just by default a female in your dreams though? i dont think i've ever been a man in mine
>>40915997fack. one of firstfew things i did in lucid dream was trying sex as a girl. didnt think mich about it then heh. first lucid dream was i was wearing some blie iniform and was drinking vodka with some guys, lucided extended arms and ended in false awakening where i was wearing some weird orange whore costume with feargers or something... been years since i tried lucids and oobe thingies...
>>40917187i don’t see myself as a woman
>>40915162
General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning, and friends.QOTT: What is your favorite arcade game?QOTT2: Have you ever won a competition or raffle?
>>40898588...what would you even be looking for, if you're chasing... lmaooo
>>40917174Honest to God, buy cheap makeup and cheap fem clothes before you dump a bunch of money into presenting feminine.Start off in a safe space with safe people who want to see you blossom :-)
>>40917203that's why i askeddo people who chase nbs exist, and if so, why?
>>40917265i got chased down a dark alleyway once
>>40917212thx I did a little bit in another state years ago in an alternative scene but it's been quite a whilemaybe I'll hit up the thrift store or tj maxx or something
How come it‘s so hard to find someone who‘s ftm and into fakeboy/forced „detrans“/feminization stuff? Sometimes I find people like that, but they‘re usually already in a relationship or not interested in fellow trans men. This is possibly the worst sexual interest to have.t. ftm who has a thing for all of the aforementioned, t4t chaser
>>40912853a) Youre fucking Disgusting.b) thats Every Single fucking Theyfab there is No Way youre having Trouble Here.c) Just depoon & Terf Grift since you Get Off on It anyway.
>>40912853I need to fight you and rape you bro. Like straight in the ass no lube so you fucking bleed.> ftm stealthoid who's repulsed by what the fuck you're saying
>>40912853I actually almost never met trans men into detrans stuff... Where do you tend to meet other trans men, OP?
>>40915425>>40912853Bidenbf anon here! Fujoing out rn!!!! I hope that op submits to the real alpha ftmchad. Imagine if op finally met his match and BECAME exactly what he initially sought. This is quite exhilarating. now back to the show!!
I tried to make a burner discord to offer up to anyone in this chat but it will not work.
>>40911995Do you have friends?
>>40917341nno
i would let dev patel or zohran mamdani hit desu. but both are pretty westernized. desu gujaratis look pretty fair-skinned anyway, charli xcx is one and she's basically white looking. saar
cisgaygen is alive and well, glad to see it
>>40917380>>40917385>>40917386You unbelievable autists.
>>40917322youre so adorable very rapeable id love to hear you moan and whimper as your holes get destroyed by a big manly man
Should I buy testosterone first or a binder? Starting testosterone as soon as possible is beneficial for obvious reasons (I turned 18 recently), and a supply that would last me for months is similar in price to a binder until I can find a job.
>>40915458Well as I said . . I don't have a job yet lol
>>40915475People usually wash second hand stuff but if it's stinky you can throw it in the washer with the rest of your clothes.
>>40915442get testosterone, binding doesnt matter at all because youll just look like some pedobait womanjfc women are retarded
>>40915968secondedAs long as you don‘t pass, binder isn‘t that important
Start testosterone now. You're young. You will regret not having done this.Chest dysphoria can be managed with other forms of dressing.The difference between test at 18 and at an older age cannot be frauded.
Not an excuse. You'll use the approriate pronouns
>>40916845I'm an effeminate gay man and I care about butches - transgenderism oppresses all of us.
>>40916849Look in the mirror>you're the faggot because you're gay>you're stupid because you made heavy implications about my intentions for this post
>>40916611omggg are people not gendering him correctly ??Hefabs are NB men too!!
reminder that terfs are anti-feminist
>>40917153reminder that wearing a dress and calling yourself a lesbian making your dick hard doesn't make you a woman. and it is quite anti-feminist to believe so.
>lesbian 4tranners wish there more transbian tops in the dating pool>ostracize any trans girl who likes topping because she's hecking faketrans>wah wah, why doesn't anyone wanna top me? wah wahWhy are bottom and switch faggots so retarded?t. transbian top
>>40917114as a theymab i can tell you a lot of "lesbians", cis or trans, just want a quirky guy who actually washes his ass
>>40917143Is your gf a lesbian?
>>40917143Are you a cute theymab or are you a fat blob?
