Is anyone good with women here?Bit of a blog post but the tldr>met a girl at a conference in my career>drank with her at an event, teased and laughed with her playing games, made fun of each other, light bullying>offer to walk her home to her hotel and she says no thanks>ok, just say to shoot me a msg when she’s home>she does and i give her my number from LinkedIn…>see her again next day and she’s kinda cold to me but says hi>then texts me to grab a drink with her before another event>flirt decently hard at event later>talk about our lives and i’m leaving tomorrow and she begs for me to reschedule my flight>say goodbye next day and again the mood is a bit colderComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33880189>drank with her at an event, she was drunk and then she wasn't. There, mystery solved
that's the kind of girl you can fuck after making her drink, but would be difficult to fuck otherwiseunluckyly for you on the first night she had a stroke of lucidity and went back to her room alone. maybe a couple more drinks would have done the trick, but who knows. you most probably did everything right but she had some kind of personal limit set up(I wont fuck a guy on the first date / at a work event / as a one-night-stand/etc.)the 'colder-on-the-next-day' attitude is just her being sober, maybe even regretting some stuff she saw herself doing with you while drunk
>>33880189>Is anyone good with women here?No. lolIf someone says "yes", they're lying. Don't trust their words.
>>33880189As >>33880196 said.Alcohol be making bitches act differently. Either that or hormones, or even both at the same time.Ultimately it is what it is. You either linger on it or move on.
Any anons here who tasted real, unconditional love from a girl once and never again?I feel like I am way worse after having experienced it and knowing I will never have it again.I was massive introvert who didn't really want a relationship until I met this girl who actually cared about me. She broke up with me (not due to my fault) and I have been chasing that high again for more than a year now. And I am getting older, soon to be 30, which means dating suicide.I wish I never met her so I could still be just a wandering loner thinking "love is not a big deal" huffing copium.Now I just want to cry knowing the comfort and happiness that normies experience everyday I only got to taste it for a few months.
>unconditional love from a girl once and never again?how do you know she gave you unconditional love?
>>33880007You're not wrong.
>>33879792>t. bitch ass faggot ass punk ass bitch ass whiny retard
>>33879755All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>33879792If you are choosing to a wife a ran through woman that is your problem, not mine. Most regular women have had a few boyfriends and did a few hook ups inbetween. Nothing extravagant, nothing awful, nothing extreme or shameful. People who have healthy lives tend to acquire those kind of experiences as part of the journey.You should have been living life, like I was. Nobody is settling for me. Nor am I settling for anyone. People settle for happiness and someone who makes them feel whole? Weird fucking sentence. Healthy people don't frame everything through this weird inferior-trying-to-superior lens.>>33880122Most highschool / early 20s relationships end up being looked back on as a waste of a decade and end in divorce. People are constantly coming out of long term "i thought this was forever" relationships so there is always good, new stock on the market. There are also plenty of opportunities, you just have to create them for yourself. You get what you are due. Nothing else. If you ain't getting what you think you are due. It's a you problem for you to solve my friend. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Would you betray western civilization and join the CCP if they offered you a qt renamon gf?
When you send in your application for a job, do they find it annoying if you call them about your application?Or are you supposed to wait for them to contact you?
>>33872781>Archaeological Field Technician Damn, it must be good to be white and educated.
>>33873119Unfortunately it’s all temporary work and pretty labor intensive. I’ve had to bail on a few projects before starting too because companies sometimes lie about compensation.
>>33873277At least it's good work. All my black ass can get is serving burgers at McDonald's.
>>33878030Half my coworkers are black and beaners just go to night school tbf
>>33861433>>33863919>>33867235If you look at what blue team is demanding before they vote to end the shutdown, you'll see it's almost identical to the list of allocations cancelled when orange man shut down USAID.What's happening is senior bureaucrats and politicians are having a temper tantrum because their money laundry was shut down and they haven't been able to siphon off as much taxpayer money. Are red team the Good Guys? Certainly not, but they aren't the ones holding the country to ransom over spending they refuse to pass in a democratic manner (introducing a bill to Congress, like you're supposed to do)>>33867504Yeah this is also true>>33870954In my gap year I applied for over 400 jobs, online and in person, and got one response and one interview, but I didn't get that job because they decided they needed a customer service guy instead of a developer.This was what finally made my parents realise the world has changed since they were my age. They actually believed I could just walk into a store, shake the manager's hand, and be hired immediately>>33869173>t.BugChow CEO
I mean not literally. I just mean that I keep noticing that the women I find attractive are very, very similar to my mother. I was wanking it while generating AI pics of a fictional character and as I was done I was like "wait a minute, that looks exactly like my mother". Like down to the finest details like her bright blue eyes and her disappointed expression.Is this more normal than it might seem, cause I heard about parents creating this image of what the ideal man/womam should be like, or is it horror movie Norman Bates level mommy issues shit?
Post pics so we can tell if your mom is just attractive or if you're weird
>>33880150I won't post pics but my mother is a very beautiful woman. She was literally a fitness model, still is one even. She was also a terrible mother
Why are women obsessed with validation?Some women are insecure and feel good about being with an ugly guy because they know a lot of girls wont go after him. And he will worship her
>>33873235logic is the last thing driving women. trying to make sense out of anything they do will only drive you mad.
Did you want advice on something?
>>33873235>Some women [...] feel good about being with an ugly guylook, they probably exist somewhere but the vast majority (like most males) feel better with an attractive partner. I wouldn't count too much on that
>>33873235why are women?you ask that as if this entire forum isnt built as a validation system for incel manbabies to avoid seeing their souls accurately in the mirror
>>33873235A woman is a literal slave to her own emotions. She must zombie from episode to episode pulled by an invisible heartstring.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How to get a women, by a complete nerd who actually got one, and a really hot one too (a hot, beautiful, popular Latina):1- Know yourself. Women wont be impressed or interested if you are not sure of your own values. For example, are you vegan? Then be unapologetically vegan, don't be all uncertain or shy about it. They'll melt for the strength of your heartfelt convictions. (obviously this works much better if your conviction is a selfless thing, compared to a selfish or a very basic "guy" thing like gun ownership or videogames.)2- Put at least some effort into your appearance. Don't dress like your mom would dress you, stay clean, stay fit, maybe go to the gym to get some hints of muscles of change diet to lose some weight.3- Know what you want, and look for the right girl for you. Don't just invest a lot of time and effort on the first girl that accepts to go out with you. Once you get to know her, if you don't feel it, just end it and keep looking. Trust me, if its the one, you'll know, but if its not, your just wasting your life on someone that will make your life miserable on the long run.4- Go online, use dating sites, go through and avoid hundreds of weirdos and crazies, go on a few dates with the ones you have actual connection in values, interest, humor, etc., then find the one with whom it clicks for her just as much as it clicks for you. It takes a bit of time, but these steps are important, and if you follow them you'll find her ;)I married my hot Latina, and we've been living happily together for 10 years. Her sex drives never goes down man! Why? Because she ACTUALLY loves me. And, again, I'm a 100% nerd. I cant speak to girls, I'm trecky, I loves videogames, science, etc... But I went to the gym a bit until I wasn't so lanky and thin, then went online and was unapologetically ME in who I am. And I was exactly what SHE was looking for.
>>33879165I have pictures of>me in a white suit and hat at a wedding. Taken by a professional >me with a man dressed as a gecko >me with abs>a few cosplays I didWhat am I missing then?Most of these were either taken by someone else or taken professionally.
>>33880075Id kill myself before I married a beaner
>>33879957Yeah, I know. I just want to go out for once though.
>>33880082in addition to pictures where you look good, you need the following>funny pics (pets, etc.)>pics where you are having fun with friends>(even better) pics where you are entertaining an audience>expensive pics (ski holidays, nice home/car, etc.)
I need help. I went to see an escort to lose my virginity and now my libido is totally gone because I couldn't maintain an erection with her and didn't do anything except kissing and oral. I'm 29.I just got too nervous and couldn't have sex. This is despite me not watching any porn for a week or so, so I was quite horny. She was very nice, I admitted my situation to her and we talked for a while. Did a bit of oral, she said I had beautiful eyes. She seemed surprised when I said I was a virgin but maybe that was just an act. We seemed to have a good rapport and talked about interesting things but again, don't know if she was just acting. She did seem quite engaged when she was talking to me and we kissed a lot which I liked. The more we talked the more I relaxed but I felt bad. I'm so pathetic. I genuinely feel worse in a way now. I wandered around afterwards feeling completely alone in this world and wanted to cry. 29 years on this planet and aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin. I deserve to be a Wizard.Maybe it's a mental thing? I just don't think I can meet a woman and within 5 minutes be having sex with her.I feel completely drained and I want to vomit. How can I get over this? I feel like I've ripped my soul out and I feel like a husk.If I keep abstaining from porn, will my libido reboot? Should I try to see her again in a few weeks?
>>33877997just make sure you're the first customer of the day KEK
>>33878068I'm a virgin at 29, not like I have much power
>>33877671Take viagra and try again.
>>33877671How did you arrange the escort? And cost? 31 and wanna do this
>>33879339I have considered viagra. Does it work?>>33879340I just found her online on a website and messaged. Cost equivalent to about $250 for 1.5 hours.
Hello, i have been single basically my entire life, whether i wanted to or not is another question but this is both because i have traits that are extremely negative to women while also having traits i feel will also be further negative in dating. I can see myself becoming very abusive and distant randomly and in general using a woman and specifically her body as a object that allows me to relieve stress and sadness. I cant empathize with them either mainly because i feel i have dealt with far more bullshit than they have and i really dont care what they cry about, they arent disposable like me. Physical touch is a need and if they are denying it i will treat it as if they are denying me food or water, it is a death threat and will be treated accordingly. In general though, i would love to never speak to them again. I would love to never be around that gender again unless its for work. I could go on ranting about myself, society, and women for a paragraph or more but it doesnt matter, i think ive said my peace enough on it. Its in everyones best interests if i stay single.
>>33878472Unfortunately my brain seems to not agree with that, at all, and i get aggressive misery cycles and major suicidal idealization. I have tried to kill myself 3 times over the last decade. When i see an escort and i have a woman in my arms i feel human again, i feel like a normal person, i feel like someone who has a future and is worth a shit. I can literally feel like electricity moving under my skin, coming through my arms and across my entire body. I feel the weight of the entire world off my shoulders. This is with a stranger, who i know i paid, so i cant even fathom how extremely powerful it must be with someone you know the name of and share an emotional connection. This has created a lot of stress though, and costed a lot of money. I would love to find an alternative. One that doesnt use another persons body. I hate how i have to use another person to feel good and i would love for that to no longer be a thing. I dont want to go and bother another person for what is basically exclusively a me problem and a problem only i am dealing with.
>>33878472bump
I've been single nearly my whole life. Now obviously, single does not mean sexless. I'm just not the type who wants to be attached in a relationship.
>>33879390I havent been lucky enough to make that choice, i am apparently subhuman and considered the worst fucking thing ever to women so i basically have to use escorts tell recently where even that is failing. I dont want a girlfriend or anyone in my life for a massive list of reasons i also though just dont want to be miserable all the time too. I dont want to deal with this gender ever again. I just have zero motivation to live with the reality that i will never be with anyone and will never sleep with anyone unless i take a legal risk and spend $500. I hate it, and it causes nothing but pain
The freeze on foodstamps isn't what gets me. Because they'll probably resume benefits eventually. What gets me is the ABAWD rule that's about to go into effect. Basically everybody without kids is getting cut off from Nov 1st on.Is there a way for me to get around this?
>>33878495>Is there a way for me to get around this?Support Democrat candidates
>>33879398The biggest expense is actually the interest payments we make on our national debt. We're about to hit one trillion a year for the interest alone, and with the massive increase in federal spending we've seen this year despite all the cuts. Well. We're cooked.You could take all the assets from every billionaire in the nation and it wouldn't get us close to being out of debt.
>>33880044there's no debt when we have tomahawk missiles loaded with nuclear warhead pointed at every capitol city and every head of state at all times
>>33879853Awesome, I'll keep voting Republican so this keeps happening
50lb bag of rice25lb bag of beans39 bucks total or 13% of one month of snap funds How many cases of hot pockets and soda did you waste yours on, dipshit?The people that are having trouble with this are fucking brainless retards
I've been thinking about a 1-2 month Thailand trip for sex as an incel but I'm worried about going and pussy not living up to the hype. Should I first try pussy locally before traveling for it?
if you go, post photos of the cute ladyboys :3
>>33879966so, I have been with 2 women - one was a schizo freak who wanted to fuck multiple times a day, and the other was a washed up romanian prostitute. Not the most experience, but enough to know that it's overrated. Pussy feels good, but so does your hand. If you just want an excuse to travel then go for it, but if it is just for the pussy then it will likely be a disappointment.Try it locally, get a sugar baby or something.
>>33879966You need to go into a room with no screens or distractions or phones or computers and sit down in a chair and think about what you just said.Ask yourself, is it really a normal thing to do to pay for a plane to a foreign country to go and have sex with random strangers?And then ask yourself, is it a good idea to base my decision to do so on the opinions of virgins on an anime website known for social harassment and child porn?
>>33879966I WANNA TOUCH GRASS I WANNA TOUCH GRASS AAAAAAAAAAAA
>get super like>second like since profile creation>like back>instant unmatchI hate western white women so fucking much, what are some good dating apps that dont cater to these fuckwadsInb4>ITS MUH PERSONALITY>DEFINITELY NOT SEEING THAT YOUR HEIGHT IS 175 IN A NORTH WESTERN COUNTRY-some retarded whore
>>33879835>>33879838You're one to talk you little bitchLike I said, it has nothing to do with region or height, it has everything to do with you being a little bitch. And you know what, being brown doesn't help either.
>>33879847Im still not brown, stop projecting mutt nigger.And yes, region and height does matter.What wprks in the us or central europe wont work in a introverted culture like northern europe or japan. Height is the universal thing all western women are shallow whores about
Bump
>>33879816No, I just don’t respect your culture of retards at all. Bring your amicability and harshly criticize those who will not conform to it as less than you.
>>33879951What? What are you talking about???
>be 30 years old How do I approach 18 year old girls without coming across as a creep?
>M 36>Have 17 F friend>feels really weird towards herWe met 1 year ago when she was 16 at first I treated her normally like i would my other friends, she felt really comfortable around me so she started age regressing due to her childhood trauma. I think its really cute but god whenever I look at her sitting comfortably in my bed and acting like i child i imidietly get hard. I dont wanna feel that way what the fuck is wrong with me. Her parents doesnt really care about her so im kinda like father figure but how tf im supposted to stop my dick from getting hard? I want her to feel more comfortable around me im not a predator and never wanted to be. What should I do
>>33879672Wait til 18 then have sex with her is she trusts you
>>33879764>dick gets hard seeing 17y + 364d old individual>predator!>dick gets hard seeing 18yo>finedo you understand how stupid this line of reasoning is? dick doesn't read ID
>>33879672Is it even age regressing? I mean 17 year olds are basically already retarded children.This sounds like a situation that's unsustainable btw. Get yourself out of there. Either nothing will happen or something will happen and you'll feel like shit in both cases. Stop torturing yourself with these feelings, and stop something very wrong from happening. Just keep away from her. Don't ghost her but just don't invite her and don't hang out with her. Make excuses if you have to. If you have no other option then just say that you think it is a bit inappropriate for you to be hanging out with a minor and leave it at that.
How do I last longer in bed?As soon as I put it in her, I cum within 3 minutes.
cardio and find a girl who knows how to revive you. Went 5 rounds in a night. They're rare where I am
>>33858782im cut, i take like 10-15 minutes of vaginal pounding to cum. but, the "he will not lie again for 7 days" does resonate with me, when i complete i really dont feel like going again, or even masturbating, for a long while
>>33880024ROUND TWO... FIGHT!!!
>>33880038Jesus fuck, how old are you? 90?I'm 39, cut, take hours of pounding to cum, and when I do cum, I can go again almost immediately. All day, all night long.
>>33849758Kratom. It's not as bad as ssris, but I can't cum but still I'm able to get a boner. Not sure if anyone ever uses that, but I noticed it when I can't fap anymore after taking it. Stays like for 3 hours
