How do I take care of my skin as a guy without being gay? I'm almost 30 and have bags under my eyes, uneven skin tone, light forehead wrinkles, and some acne scarring. I don't smoke, do drugs, and rarely drink.
>>34048180Okay? Stay manly and ugly then yall are fragile
Being gay because you take care of yourself? That's the dumbest thing I've heard all week. That's like saying you don't shower because showering is gay. You guys need to stop being so sensitive about whether you look gay or not, that's what real lack of masculinity is
>>34047903Just exfoliate and moisturize.
>>34048253Literally
>>34048256That wont work:D exfoliate isn’t for everyday use
How do I save female sexual assault victims and have them fall in love with me?
>>34048149Can you describe to me how a situation like this would work in your head ?
>>34048195Hm i didn’t say that:D but ok
>>34048179Well making sweet love to me wouldn’t work in my favour i view sex weirdly,thats one have the things you have to deal with when dealing with a victim of SA
>>34048196Hm idk what i said wrong.But he asked “where do i find women like you if he only goes to the gym,work and grocery store?” And im trying to say that a woman in the gym could be a victim and you wouldn’t know same as at work or in a grocery store:> i hope ya understand
>>34048236I'd fuck my love into you gently anonette, and then we could raise a family together
>>34047531I'm going to guess you have issues probably similar to >>34047117. A post with much honesty about it is so rare, you'll usually get shouted down by other avoidants or groomers like Mike who prefer it because they're easier to isolate.
>>34047577I’m just afraid he was right.
Now you got that funny feelingWill it ever go away?It might take another minute, but it's okayBaby, it's your blue hourYou gotta hold on and wait for that dawn to breakBaby, there'll be new flowersYou gotta keep going, wait for that sky to changeBaby, it's your blue-Baby, it's your blue-Blue, blue hour
>looking at a grad student's final project>they mixed up "there" and "their"
I don't understand how some people can get so defensive when others point out a minor mistake, and be delusional enough to think it's to sabotage them.
my gfs ex is coming to town and my gf asked me permission to get lunch with himi feel like no matter what i choose, i lose>dont let her golook like an insecure controlling assholeshe probably fights me that i dont trust her>let her goshe looks in his eyes and remembers all the times he thrusted his cock into herwwyd?
>>34047654>look like an insecure controlling assholeHave some self respect. The fact your mind went to how you’d come across by saying no to such a question speaks volumes about your self worth.
>>34047654You should definitely go with her. If she objects, you should dump her. Any reason she may have is not worth your respect and love for her. Matter of fact you should have been questioning her why is she talking with her ex not even about her wanting to meet him.Put yourself in her shoes, reason why to go meet the ex other than either get back something that belongs to you, or fucking their brains out.The best outcome out of this is your gf blocking him and staying by your side, else you will become a cuck.
>>34047654>>dont let her go>look like an insecure controlling assholeYou won't merely look like a controlling asshole in that scenario, you'll actually be one. In fact, you're being one right now. Only an insecure asshole would have a thought like this in his head: >she looks in his eyes and remembers all the times he thrusted his cock into herA lesson you need to learn very early on about relationships is that it's impossible to prevent someone from cheating on you. The best you can ever do is to make sure they don't *want* to cheat on you. If they do want to, they will, and you can't stop them. This goes both ways: if you wanted to cheat on your girlfriend (with a hooker, say) she couldn't stop you. No matter how carefully she watches you, eventually you'll find the time. Her only option is to trust that you won't do it, and try and make sure you don't want to. Same applies to you: either you can trust her, or you can't; and if you can't then no amount of banning her from seeing people or keeping her under surveillance will stop her. And, unfortunately, acting like a jealous, insecure, controlling asshole is a really good way to make a person *want* to cheat on you.So, honestly, your best bet is probably to be really casual about it. "Yeah, sure. Why would I have a problem with that? I know I can trust you." She will quite likely respond to you trusting her by wanting to be worthy of your trust; women do that.Now, if you ask me, can I definitively promise that she won't do this: Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34047854>reason why to go meet the ex other than either get back something that belongs to you, or fucking their brains out.That is a genuinely chilling insight into the workings of your mind, anon. People other than you have loads of other reasons.
>>34048126Not OP, but how do you get the mindset to think like this intuitively?Didn't even have a relationship, but I did a bunch of sneaky, cringy shit on an old crush to see if she was seeing anyone. I fear if I actually get in a relationship I'm gonna be doing the same type of shit out of paranoia.
What do I do now that I'm bored by video games? Social interaction doesn't entice me so it would need to be something to do alone
>>34045725Movies and showsBooks, articles and learning Political activism (join your local white nationalist group) Gym and physical activity Looksmaxxing Meditation and astral projection
>>34045762Nobody is too dumb to read books, you just need to find something that interests you.
>>34045725Pick up a hobby that makes something. Baking, painting minis, writing songs; something tangible.
>>34045725Hit the gym and get fit
>>34045725Complete detox No screens , no music , no books Only bread and water (food before 300 years ago)No connections No talking Don't say a word Nothing Do not think Do this program for a few days Set your mind and focus on the real things that matters 3 days may not seem like a lot of time but with this program you will be able to figure out everything
I got my first job, albeit just being a minijob with minimum wage while studying at uni, and it's decently fun. I don't really know how to use the money I make from it tho. By the end of the contract I'll have 14-18 thousand dollars on my bank account, and probably twice as much by the time I have my master's if I continue with the job. I still live with my parents and I do want to buy a car and move out once I meet a cute girl. What exactly do I do now? Invest it into something? Just continue saving up? Move out and actively look for a partner rather than sitting back and solely comfortably studying and working? Any advice would be appreciated.
>>34047510my argument is that I am right and (You) are wrongkys
>>34047513That's an opinion, not an argument, but nice try
>>34047515it’s a statement of factso tell me niggerwhat should OP do with his money instead? likesnp guarantees 8 to 10% annually without any thinking involved.considered he asked here it is safe to assume he is NOT financially educated and he won’t beat the market on his own like some chinese quant who spends 16 hours a day in front of his 4 monitors that track every single tick of all his open positions.likeit will not make OP a millionaire but having enough for a downpayment by the time he graduates already gives him a HUGE EDGE compared to all his zoomer peers who will have barely enough to afford rent with 3 roommates
>>34046121WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED TO THIS WEBSITE?! wasn't 4chan the pandemonium of hell ?!"I m going to college and I have a part time job uWu I'm silly" DUDE WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!WHAT ARE NORMAL PEOPLE DOING HERE?! I want to see the worst .. isn't this the worst ?! Am I insane , I m definitely right ... No I gotta be
>>34048240economy and socioeconomic landscape is so bad nowadays that even normies struggle as much as sub3 truecels used to just 15 years ago brutal.
You know porn channels like Hood Hoez or HabibiShow on Xvideos? How do they even find women willing to get fucked like that? What does it take to be able to get women like that? Basically, how can I start or grow a porn channel similar to theirs?
>>34045870Who did those ghetto dudes traffic? The bug booty ghetto chicks?
>>34045918nigger she takes 3 dicks for a bag of fent who cares
>>34045930There just helping her scratch an itch(in her bootyhole)
BK Brick and Amari Gold is still the greatest anal video I ever seen.
>>34045784So let me get this straight .. You want to create a site like the various porn sites you just mentioned ...for money? Or why ?Dude why aren't you making a YouTube channel
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
just be a millionaire
>>34046701Just keep going with the chinese girl obviously. The samoan I would stop trying too much, if she wants it, let her show it. See if she keeps up the "trying to talk or associate with you thing" that will give you the answer on wether she's just reserved or you're not what she expected after the date.
the dating apps are starting to blackpill me. Women have to put 0 effort into it and still get to enjoy a buffet of dudes while men have to meticulously engineer their profile and every text because a woman will get turned off at the slightest mishap. There was this chinese girl I went out with and we had a good time and she said she also liked it, but then when asking for a second date she said she was too busy which is just a polite rejection I think. So ever since, whenever alone, I have been talking out loud to myself in the most racist chinese accent there. It has almost become like a tick. >Ooohhh, me so solly! Me have a rot of deadrine for work, no have time!Thing is, she speaks perfect english.
The women I'm attracted to seem to think ahead way too much and only date for marriage. Problem is it doesn't work with my lifestyle (military). What do?
>>34047661Yeah we got to meticulously engineer a shit ton of things as men. Then when women see it they put it in the trash.
Hey guys,is there a way for someone to have a painless death?
>>34047642>is there a way for someone to have a painless death?Absolutely none, no. The closest you can get is probably injecting a large overdose of Fentanyl directly into a vein.
>>34047642Technically, yes. You take a dose of antiemetic, then half an hour later take 15g of pentobarbital dissolved in water. However, pentobarbital is very, very tightly controlled for precisely that reason. You can't buy it on the dark web, and it isn't prescribed for anything. It's only other medical use is as a general anaesthetic.
>>34047642Why would you choose suicide ?You know it's dumb and not worth it
Guillotine and a shot to the head. Both are so fast the brain doesn't have time to process the pain
>>34048233I doubt that. Brain would stay conscious for several seconds after being beheaded. More than enough time to be in agony.
Trying to keep this one shortI kinda wasted my teenage years. No memories, no parties, no anything. Never had a teenage rebel phase because of abusive stepfather,No friend group either, probably the main reason why I missed out on all of this. All my friends have better friends who they rather spend time with.Always the weird kid. Probably undiagnosed autism, or maybe I'm just weird.Kinda also fucked over by circumstances. Pretty much always the wrong man, at the wrong place. So what now? I have no memories to look back on. Never got to be a "semi-adult" without worries.I never got to be a teenager and it kinda kills me. People always say the 20s will be it but I have no time for it. I want to leave my stepfathers household and in order to this I've got to work, sustain myself. No time for socializing. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34043918>always take up opportunities when people invite you outNobody ever invites me out.
>>34039147Unless you're a chad, 20s are the lamest period of life after middle school. You'll be an undersocialized loser for the most part of your 20s, that's just how it is. Your 30s will be better. If they won't be, then you can end it at 40.
>>34044541thanks anon, so another 10 years of purgatory
>>34039147>abusive stepfatherfirst problem>Probably undiagnosed autismprobably not>I've got to work, sustain myself. No time for socializing. Work 8 hours, sleep 8 hours, 8 hours for socializing.
>>34046794Nah, I've got pretty autistic interests too (trains) and being the weird kid has been a constant in my life.
All I do is roam from suburb to suburb, stopping at random convenience stores and seven elevens to buy slurpees and chocolate, catching trains to random places with no goal in mind, walking through random neighborhoods and stopping at random parks to drink water. It has been like this my whole life, I need some adventure or purpose but there is none, I just aimlessly drift like a vagabond. I have had psychosis where I walked on the side of the highway with a walking stick and a luggage. I am in a psych ward and I dunno what to do with my life, am almost 23. I'm ok at coding which I've done for a little while but nothing is exciting or motivation, neither is a job really. Advice?
>>34046971>I am in a psych wardWhat did the docs say?
>>34046971>it has been my whole life>I'm 23Can you just get gibs since your in a psyche ward?
>>34046971It must be nice having rich and generous parents
>>34046971Find an old man with one eye . You will find him drunk as fuck He will ask you for some cash for booze Kick his ass and leave at his idea of becoming a boxer When night comes and you re sleeping outside like you do , he will find you again and eventually convince you to become a boxer under his guidance Eventually you will get used to that place and become friends with 5 young kids You will meet various boxers , kick their ass , some will die , some will end up worse Eventually after a few years you will face the world champion and leave behind the greatest legacy on earth Wait a minute this sounds familiar ...
It's nearly Christmas. I'm paranoid schizophrenic, and I just bought rat poison instead of cocaine. One of my former friends, a voice in my head, is telling me to cut my cock off, and I have so many attempts at it or whatever.I need Valium.
>>34048222I'd say you need rather more than Valium.
I'm attempting to figure out what I'm doing that's causing a repeated pattern the last 3 years for me where the only women who have shown me any interest whatsoever are married, most of them older than me. For some reason I keep attracting bored housewives or women who are terrified of the decision they made and seek me out as some emotional freedom. I am not doing anything to give them the hint of romance, I'm being friendly and supportive because they've been people who are part of a big mutual friend group I'm in and they either initiate a closer friendship with me, or confide emotional stresses in their life, usually about their family. Next thing I know, they're confessing feelings for me, outright making lewd and inappropriate advances or offers to me, or accusing me of inappropriate behavior when they were the ones taking things too far.I can only assume the friend group I'm in is very toxic but I don't want to think it's them or something. It's not just this friend group that I've had this issue with, it's something persistent over the last few years. I know I must be doing something that's attracting this pattern/type of female or some mental loop of mine brings this energy in. Maybe it's just the hippie/Jesus look I have going right now but I really don't know what to think of it. Pls help?
>>34045269I certainly wouldn't classify myself as low income but I've had women attempt to be sugar mamas by giving me shit all the time and expecting me to reciprocate with dick. I have my own money, tho.I'm more curious why I would be exciting/enticing to married women specifically. Like I said in the OP, they're not all older than me, I've had a few 22 - 25 year old married women do the same. My closest dude friend is older than me and constantly gets hit on by extremely young, single women with horrific daddy issues, like 15 and 16 year olds ogle over him constantly. Which is hilarious because he's gay, just not noticeably gay.
>>34041110This.
>>34045480How does your friend dress and act compared to you?You being a personal trainer might add to the older women's fantasy of scandal and escape
>>34046890He's much more clean cut than I am, we're the same height but he's a lot more lanky than me and kinda has buck teeth but he's blond/blue eyed all American type.I'm white too but darker complexion, I have very long hair that I usually keep up in a bun and a short beard. He has a tendency to just dress in whatever he's wearing at the gym (track pants, sneakers, some lacrosse or hockey shirt), I dress more outdoorsy when I'm not working.He's very structured, tho, went to private school and just has that kind of vibe, so that's the main thing I've guessed is the difference in our 'aura' as far as female attraction goes.
>>34044561>personal trainerThat explains everything you need to know anon.A woman getting a male trainer has a fetish on it and WILL fuck you on the slightest chance.
I just spent 100$ on a vape mod and pods. I'm gonna return it though. It was an in the moment decision. I just have no outlet and no money to let this pain out, getting talked in the same tone as special ed by friends, professors, tutors, friends of my parents, family, etc makes me feel awful, especially since I'm 23. am I really weak for admitting my feelings? Idk what I could use as an outlet that doesn't cost money or destroy my health. It's not about how I sound and look outside, it's about how I'm being psychoanalyzed underneath by invisible expectations because I can even say anything. I feel like I have nothing.
>>34048217*Before I can even say anything
I need a christmas gift for my 11yo niece. Any ideas?
>>34047225My First Vibrator
>>34047225condoms
>>34047225Something related to gaming
>>34047274>Little PonyStop posting about My Little Pony outside of /mlp/
>>34047225Get her a fucking 2$ doll she s 11 what the fuck is this question?Get her a 2$ doll and maximum a chocolate too .
