Has anyone on this board ever been cucked?How did you deal with it?
>>34044087Just try to never come across whoever cucked you and see new ppl who don't know about it
>>34044087Do you mean cheated on? Yes happened twice. I didn’t feel ‘cucked’ because I’m not an insecure faggot. I didn’t make the other man the enemy, because the other man did not know I existed, cheating bitch ex gf pretended to be single when she wasnt. I made her the enemy and what I did was dump her.
>>34044087>Has anyone on this board ever been cucked?Yes, once. I dated someone from this site (different board), turns out she was dating multiple people all at once. It was discovered on Christmas day of all days.>How did you deal with it?I struggled. Felt stupid, worthless, still do a bit. A lot of people used it as their time to shit on me which sucks, some friends felt bad about it though. After a bit, life moves on and people forget which is both good and bad. You dont think about it as much but then people forget what you went through. To this day she was still the only girl that ever took a romantic interest with me. So it feels extra bad knowing I've never had a real meaningful relationship from it.
At what age is it weird/creepy for a man to be banging/fwb with a college girl? Ladies of /adv/, what is your opinion on dating older men?? Men of /adv/, have you had more or less success dating girls in their 20s as you get older?
>>34037024the actual rule is my age x 0 + 18
>>34036520You aren't a man if you care about if sleeping with an adult women is "creepy" or "weird". you sound feminized and domesticated. Here is a domesticated soi male following a redditor rule >>34037024
>>34036520>Ladies of /adv/, what is your opinion on dating older menthere are zero women here except trans women and man-hating femcels who's opinion you would not take seriously IRL
>>34036520Socially, I'd say any more than half age plus 9 is creepy.
>>34036520it depends how rich and/or famous you are
I take medicine to stop being fat and I'm still fat. I'm shaped like a fucking brick. I eat yogurt for lunch and whatever's in the fridge for dinner (like a frozen entree). That's literally all I'm eating in a day and I'm stuck at 200+ wtf do I do. I also walk for an hour every day.
>>34040710Are you actually chronicling how many calories you are consuming in a day / in a week? Are you actually listing every food you eat in a day? And your hour walks, tel me more about them? When i was extremely out of shape, it took me about an hour to do 2.5 miles, which is OK for the bare minimum amount of exercise you need to maintain good cardiovascular health, but not great for weight loss. If I were you, i would aim for atleast 10-20,000 steps a day everyday or atleast 5 miles worth of walking. But then you have to account for the fact that your body will adapt to an exercise regimen after so long of doing it, so you will have to change it up to keep your progress maximally efficient. For that i would suggest the same amount of miles in hiking, or double the amount of miles via cycling. Walking different paths, that preferably have slopes and inclines are best, and eventually, try and do some jogging. Push yourself and your cardio until you’re out of breath. Once you’re able to jog, but you can also do that when fast walking, and it won’t be so bad on your joint health.To me, I question if you are really committing to an all in weight loss plan and lifestyle change, but it’s certainly possible as other anons have said that there’s some underlying medical issue or thyroid problem. Wouldn’t hurt to see a doctor about it, even if you didn’t have a medical reason, a doctor or could prescribe an appetite suppressant to help lose weight.Also keep in mind, if you’re a fat fuck, with a lot of calories to burn off, you don’t have to eat everyday, and you could even shoot for trying to consume more than 800-1000 calories for a week(s)
>>34040710I won't read self-inflicted problem threads. If you're a morbidly obese subhuman monstrosity it is obviously because you choose to be because no-one is force-feeding you.
>>34040710What meds? Also stop telling yourself food lies about what you've eaten, calculate it.
>>34040710>yogurtActual yogourt or yogourt with so much sugar added it's basically a vaguely yogourt-flavoured pudding?>frozen entreeUltra processed poison.
>>34040710cut out carbs (sugar) and sodium (makes you retain water). Focus on eating meat(unprocessed) and eggs and good fats like unsalted butter + seafood if you like that. Cut out sugary yogurt and take a probiotic pill instead.
So my cunt cousin has this cute tomboy friend who i've gotten to know for the past few years and only recently gotten much closer with but i learned that she dated a black guy when she was playing basketball in highschool and now i want to cut all ties with her because i was really starting to like her and god forbid fall for her but the idea of falling head over heels for Jamal's sloppy seconds is too horrifying to me. we like the same stuff and get on really well and i want to experience sex and love and all that but her dating a black guy ruins it for me and im strongly considering cutting ties even though one half is screaming that she's an actually cute girl who likes me and that i'm throwing away an incredibly precious thing but then again she dated a black guy so she's a coalburner and FUCK dealing with that. It feels so cruel by God to have this done to me.what do you guys think?
>>34043636>>34043645Literal creepy weirdo racist incel that wants to take big black cock in all his orifices.
>>34043076dodged a coalburner
>>34043076>Has a once a lifetime chance to fix a woman with his cock>Rejects itWHY? WHHHHHHHHHHHHY?
Would you feel the same if it was a white guy but his dick was 10 inches?
8/10 this is very strong work.
my mom and youngest 10 yo sister and my other sister bullied my cat every day I can remember until she died e.g picking her up when she obviously didn't like it and dragging her around. my mom claimed she cared about the cat but let my sister who had a history of abusing her (trapping her, stepping on her, trying to put things in her food) have free access to her. During the last month of my first job, the youngest eventually managed to feed her some string and she died days//weeks shortly after. I'm still not over it but whatever. Recently, the youngest kicked her slightly older sister in the ribs. A while before that, she punched her in the face. I realize through pattern recognition she's not above murdering her or others. She's tried poisoning my mother's drinks before and putting chemicals What should I do to absolve myself of any potential blame if she ends up doing something horrible?
>>34036546Sounds terrible, i gave advise to someone else who had controlling perents so not the same but similiar:Basically leave the house because its toxic and live with a friend. Try to track when your mom leaves the house so you know when to sneak off as you take your belongings out, one by one without her noticing.Of course this differs from the other anon because they lived in the phillapines and have very controlling perents, even with finances.But with your mother, she might call the police so give a letter to her or voice message saying why you left her and her household. Then email the police this letter so they are aware of it.Then move on because unless you somehow understood psychology 101 overnight, you not gonna change them unless they change you first.This is just my take anon, stay safe.
Get ur sister assessment in therapy anon that's clearly psychopathic behavior
>>34036532>What should I do to absolve myself of any potential blame if she ends up doing something horrible?Send an email with all the details of the behavior that way you have a legitimate digital archive
>>34036532idk how to help you but nice cat photo
bump
How am i supposed to see a person better than me and not instantly have the thoughts of Caligula?
I think my bf has been abusing me for years and I don't know what to do
So little info on you.You were 12 and he was 15.You are 18 now.And now you are not sure if there are better dudes out there.If he is half way decent, provides for you and has a job, he is not too bad of a deal. The dating market tries to tell women that they can have it all. I am not sure about it. The birth rates are going down.Maybe, if you can, get a hold of a freshly newborn, smell it and gently touch his head.Ask your father on your bf.
>>34043281Samefagging...Dude I hate those feminists who say "divorce, leave, etc." nit knowing anything. Just because the immediate solution concludes to feel like good advice.They would have told a woman who was loayal since she was 12 to her then 15 year old boyfriend to leave him, as she is 18, now and is considered an adult.The dating market is a hookup culture for most and it is really difficult to establish trust.What you have there seems like a really good deal to me.But ask your father.
What? We don't even want kids, and this is not about money or anything, I am continuing my studies, which I am paying for with my own money, and I plan to work hard to earn money on my own, this is about my own security and emotional well-being
I don't know if you're referring to me or someone else's comment, but I want to clarify that: 1) I'm not a feminist; I believe in equality, and for me, that should be a basic principle; and 2) my post isn't for people to tell me "just leave it," but rather to seek some advice to feel a bit better, since I assume I'm not the only one in this situation.
>>34042954another heads-up:https://9gag.com/gag/aGyr4Xz
>install game>play for an hour>fuck up horribly or get very bored>feel overwhelming sense to uninstall >do so>repeat this foreverAnyone else?
>play another hour of solitaire classic>10/10
>>34039685Me and hollow knights
I wish I could enjoy animal crossing new horizons so bad, but it's just tedious, soulless japshit. at least New Leaf villagers had personality..But I'm addicted to routine and consistency. so I still play 15-30 min per day for the daily activities. sigh.
>>34039685Yeah... That's why I only play free games so I don't waste money
>>34039685Play Natural Doctrine. It will determine if you are a lost cause or if you just have an allergy for normalfag slop.
Where can I meet alt people who are genuine (inb4 oxymoron)? Everyone in my city's scene is either mentally ill, BPD drama-fueled emotional vampires, or engage in purity testing for social capital. I just wanna connect with people who share similar music taste who arent completely psychotically deranged individuals
>>34039253Nobody’s cool when they grow up.
>>34039253>I just wanna connect with people who share similar music tasteGo to music events
>>34039253Maybe you should reconsider your music taste if the type of people who listen are like that.
I met this guy on /soc/ like 2 years ago (not dating for the whole time obviously) and now i am his extremely clingy and insanely obsessive online gf. Please help how do i not drive him away. are guys ok with this (what are signs guys are ok with this and what are traits indicating they am impartial to this in women) or do i need to relax so he doesnt hate me soon?? I am way overly obsessed i think about him all day 24/7 Please help i know there are women as crazy as me on here, pls can i have some advice from any crazy obsessed and limerent/insane in love women on here or men who know what its like to have a disgustingly obsessed gf or have friends with obsessive gfs?
>>34041865If he's such a loser he had to look for a girlfriend on /soc/ then he probably doesn't mind
>>34041865Don't try to change him. Don't get upset when he wants friend time or game time away from you. If you do want to do something together, let him know. Guys, especially /soc/ just want to feel loved and wanted without feeling bad about liking the other things they like or having their time over-managed for them. Only way you lose him is if you freak out on him if he doesn't want to do something.
U won't stay together eventually he'll get bored and find a new one even if u were the smartest, funniest check on this planet >unless u married or something
>>34041865Compulsive thinking. Very mentally ill but I've also been there. If you met him on /soc/ then just do whatever, just be yourself, easy come easy go. If it's real life and someone you actually want to marry/see a future with then you need to regulate yourself.
i haven't found one single person to talk to on soc
My brother changed when he came home from college. Is that going to happen to me next year?
>>34042572You may not know this, but it's perfectly legal for you to just stay at college and not come back home.
>>34042572im literally exactly the same and im about to come homefuck my shit gay lifedrastically "changing" in uni is for normies
>>34042572>Is that going to happen to me next year?No. Your brother has friends.
>>34042572Yes
>>34042572you brother was raped in college
Family Cristmas present suggestions?Bed and Bodyworks scented hand soap has been my go to due to it being usable and affordable. Would like to know what you guys do.
Twister and olive oil
cold hard cashanything else is just you being a pain in the ass
Box of chocolates, mugs, festive plates, festive dish cloth, candles, assorted teas, festive towels, winter hats and gloves, etc.
Soap works. Get the premade gift basket for for efficiency.
>>34042885shit i have to order some bullshit quicklyi fucking hate christmas and giving gifts (and receiving them)
I’m a digital artist that mainly paints and draws. Over the years I’ve put in a ton of work and built strong knowledge in anatomy, composition, and perspective etc.Right now things are feel really rough for me. AI has gotten scarily good, and it’s hitting my career dream opportunities hard, atleast in my head.Lately I’ve been seriously considering quitting social media altogether, stepping away from the internet, and just drawing for myself and my friends. My problem with sharing my staff is AI training on my work without consent. Anyway i got feeling of giving up on the bigger dream of working in games or films. At the same time, I still wonder if it’s possible to land some real work on projects, make decent money, and actually turn this passion into a sustainable career in the future.What do you think? I’m never going to stop drawing.I love it too much, but I’m full of doubt about whether I ever truly make it in to career or get to work on big stuff. I feel like i was born in the worst period of time for someone like me.
did the art of watchmaking disappear because factory-produced watches became a thing? perhaps you imagine that the need for artists will disappear simply because models can generate it?i work in the industry, helping models utilize their training data better, and these things at their CEILING will be able to replace only low quality work, in all fields. you are only in trouble if you do bullshit work, and if you are very likely not that.
You're a fraudtist if your work is on the same level as ai slop
>>34039856Find the joy in it again.
>>34040255AI can not compose properly. it has no sense for what belongs where and why.
>>34039856If I could change anything about my own past one of the major things would be to study just about anything else other than art. Having an illustration degree has been nothing but a detriment. Ai art has seriously damaged the money making potential of the visual arts which were already a poverty level career. Though there could be people out there looking for human made work I could see it. Still I think you would be better off doing anything than art, like collecting bottles and cans is a higher paying gig.
Isn’t taking time for yourself just the polite version of disappearing?
>>34041335>Isn’t taking time for yourself just the polite version of disappearing?Yeah. But the expectation is you'll come back to everyone after you've had the time to yourself.
It entirely depends if you do a bunch if self improvement
>>34041335When you evolve, you need new friend groups or influences or you will end up alone.
>>34041335DONT BUY THE MENTAL SET-UP OF "Loneliness is necessary to be better" They want you to be alone, they want your emotional state to worsen up so its easier to manipulate you, they want you alone so you dont rely on anyone tearing any possiblity of a community coming up Lonely, paranoid, depressed prey is easier to hunt, to manipulate, to tear apart in the long run or to sell them solutions to the desperate ones.Divide and conquer or some skibidi shit
>>34041335Read Infinite Jest
I'm a 34yo KHHV by choice because I don't find 99.999% of women attractive. Seriously, out of the thousands of women I've seen, I've only found 3 women attractive in my life. Every other woman is about as attractive to me as a chair. I think a major part of it is I'm just not attracted to the human form. I'm super attracted to dragons, and my "standards" for dragons is much lower. I'd say I'm attracted to 50% of dragons I see. I'm not a furry and I don't find anthro furry stuff attractive (not even anthro dragons). I just find feral dragons super attractive. What can I do to lower my standards for human women?
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