I don’t want to leave him but I know he is a fucking cheater. Not even a little bit like a massive serial cheater. But I don’t think I will ever do better. I caught him out on a lie and he talked me down and I believed him, then I turned around and saw him quickly drop a smirk. Talk some fucking sense into me.
>>34197414That's not true at all. Sex always involves feelings. You're right to dump the cheater OP
>>34195332>But I don’t think I will ever do better.Making you believe that is his real crime, worse than cheating.You can and will do better
>>34198400>That's not true at all. Sex always involves feelings.>t. low test
>>34197414I don't want someone I have GIVEN myself to, to prefer to fuck others. I do not care who, how many, what color or what gender. Either I have lost the will to actually care (it shows in the relationship) and have decided to fuck who ever and how ever many people I want (without telling him) or I can just leave his ass? Maybe both. Because that is a garbage ass dude. Don't chase, sweetie.
>>34195332Woman moment lmao
"the vast majority of perpetrators of rape and sexual assault are male."Every times I hear people doing sick and depraved shit (beside rape), it's often coming from men, but why is that? aren't women and men equal? desperation leads so many men into doing twisted shit (rape included), for example, the entire gooner culture on the internet. why are most porn addicts are men and not women?is this biology?I know women who are freaks exist out there, I know few of them myself, but the ratio is not equal. for a single perverted women, there are probably 10 perverted men out there.
Men are on average bigger, stronger and faster than women. This means it's far more opportune for evil men to do violent crimes because of that advantage. Evil women have to make do with manipulating other people into doing the dirty work, using weapons like poison to even the playing field or attacking children.The way we treat sex and dating also feeds into this. We set women up as the gatekeepers to sex and some even say they don't or shouldn't enjoy it - it's a thing men do to women, not that they do together and a woman who has had sex with multiple men is sullied in a way a man who sleeps around is not.We also tie men's worth into their ability to get women.This mixture of being the "chaser" and needing to have "scored" to feel like a man increases the likelihood someone will get coercive or violent to get their dick wet.
>>34202117It's pretty much that men have multiple times more testosterone than women. Women who have injected testosterone tend to become more like men.
>>34202117Women think ahead and don't get caught. Men are chimps especially in the < 25 yr range, their brains don't work. They plug into the homosocial hivemind and do whatever to impress their dumbest male friends. Men sit around and think about ways to out-stupid each other.On the other hand most men never grow up, just look at boomers.Women know how to find satisfaction in loving themselves and having relationships with the people around them. Men only find satisfaction in the crack-like dopamine hits of doing something deadly and stupid and getting hooting validation from other moid chimps.
>>34202117Testosterone gives aggression, estrogen gives depression/mood swings.
>>34202117>is this biology?Yes. It's in women's interest to be interested in successful and effective, if not well adjusted men, whereas men look at her genetics, so it's more physical. That coupled with higher aggression in men and poorer socialization compared to women is bound to create more depraved individuals. Men are also more likely to be victims of physical violence in their youth, and on some level, might makes right is a lesson men are forced to contemplate or accept. Men also have a higher sex drive but less ability to get sex, making it more likely they turn to porn, and from there witnessing and partaking in depravity is only a few clicks away
Does anyone else fear forgetting things and lettting them fade into obscurity? Old classmates that you don't talk to or that have dropped out, failed talking stages, one night stands, old friends from college, childhood friends, all the school teachers even assistant teachers you had? Even the grocery clerk from that store around the corner in your childhood. Do you fear forgetting them? Does it feel you with sadness to do so? How many people have I already forgotten...names I can't remember, faces...why does it fill me with such heavy sadness. Almost like I want to open a word document right know and write down everyone I've ever known. What is this feeling? I feel like this is the best place to discuss this.
>>34196558Just do Anki flashcards if you don't want to forget stuff, you can even make flashcards with photos/names so that you don't forget people
>>34196558only important nostalgic memories that I don't want to forget I write down childhood memories whenever I think of themthat and cool dreams
>>34196558You will forget it all but then remember it again at random times but it's so far away it would just feel awkward to reconnect. That's how it is for me. But there's no fear it just is what it is. I forgot all about some important shit and remembered like 15 20 years too late.
>>34196558I forgot the question
>>34196558I'm 99% sure I've been forgotten by the world. Which is a weird feeling, not bad but not good either.
Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch". But if I do that, then I would just be proving her point in rejecting meWhat to do?
>>34201861Do you stop talking to them after that?
>>34201896Hahaha, good one, Zachary. We all know women hate men and love watching them seethe when they reject them. They get off on this shit.
>>34201910i get really tempted to turn around and reconcile but yes, i always respect their decisions even if it bothers me
>>34201944What makes them want to stop talking all together? Usually it’s just making sure someone knows boundaries
>>34202040I fell asleepBut anyways, I couldn't really tell you. Someone once told me it's probably because they feel guilty and don't wanna think about it, but that's quite presumptuous.The first woman who did this to me, which was a few years ago was my first love. She said it was because she was always scared and worried about my well-being due to my DXM habit at the time. I don't have that issue anymore though.If I had to guess, it's probably because they just find me uncomfortable in general and don't want to be around that after they've got what they wanted. I'm particularly unattractive and I'm up front about being a nerd, so I'd imagine the get the infamous "ick" from me.
Thinking about converting from Christianity to Islam. Know anyone who has done this?
>>34202373Why?
>>34202376For personal and moral reasons and to have a closer relationship with God.
>>34202373>Know anyone who has done this?2 boys from the class that were reading clocks in year 10wish i was joking
>>34202394>reading clocks in year 10I don't understand
My love is for all of you, I don't allow outside influences to attempt to say vapid things because we both know the love we have for each other is true love.
>>34201244Pussy.
Dear universe,please send me a slightly toxic man that will emotionally and financially support me, that will encourage my hobbies and goals, that will treat me and love me like family, that will forgive my past and that his past can be forgiven too. Please let me experience happiness, I want to get away from all these people. I'm so tired of being here sorrounded by low class attitude and thinking. I want to read books with you, I want to laugh at shows with you, cuddle you, invent with you, build with you.Please grant me this life, I can't die feeling so lonely.
Actions over words. Add me to move forward
>>34202336It's the right words, I just need the actions m
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34200885Sounds good. Normally I would say dont shit where you eat but shes an intern so not likely to be there long term. Actually maybe you should get her number as a means to invite her to the gym
Need to find more places to meet women irl. It's so hard. I already volunteer and it's a good place, but still I only do it once a week. Do you know of something else? >>34192633I've thought about this, as I drive a 2000 honda civic. I see manlets in their bmw's, and I guess it makes sense for them, but a fancy car matters to a gold digger. That's the type of girl you'll attract. I've gotten pussy once despite driving this car, and I see dudes in shitboxes with qt's all the time. You also see the guys with nice cars with qt's. I personally don't want to get a nice car, and then get a gf, and constantly wonder if she likes me for the external wealth I'm displaying. But that's me, i'm looking to date for marriage and children.If you want to get head from 22 yo bimbos, definitely get a German luxury car or an Evoque.
>>34201385You get about 2 seconds to elicit a positive reaction in a female's brain. Of course funny is better.
>>34177549You smile to not appear like an autist / sociopath / retard. If they smile back, good. Well, almost. Does it seem genuine, or more like"well, he smiled, I'll smile back to not look like an asshole". You can drag this shit out a couple of sessions if you wanna take this really slow. But eventually, you gotta say some shit like "hi" and go from there. Need any more step by step spoonfeeding, or can you figure it out?
>>34193534Why did she get divorced
Give me one number between 1 and 50 OR one bonus number between 1 and 12If I win you get a million
>>34202357>Give me one number between 1 and 5038.
Give me least painful ways to off myself. Thanks. Hope y'all live happy fulfilling lives , i had a great time here. I have no guns , no money.
hi i think you should give urself another chance. whatever is wrong with ur life right now won’t be as present in a few years. or u will learn how to deal with it. maybe u cant talk to someone irl? get urself something nice to eat and get some fresh air. showers make me feel better so maybe u can do that too? im bad at this but i care about you
>>34202226if u have any money at all could u send it to me
>>34202328>There are but governments make them hard to access.Well, yeah, theoretically, if you could get your hands on 15g of Pentobarbital, that'd work. But you can't. Anything you actually can get your hands on is either agonisingly painful, unreliable, or both.
>>34202343This table is self-evidently bullshit. How could anyone possibly know how painful a shotgun to the head feels? Don't believe a word of it.
I don't like my home country due to how getting a job just doesn't work here anymore, and I mean the high increase in the unemployment rate, not just the whole "le boomer doesn't hire little zoomies anymore". And how I should always bother with my family's bullshit even I'm far away from their home.So I decided to move out of this shithole to get a new life. My only options are either Canada or the USA. I wanted to go to UK, but due to recent Starmer's porno it's just not worth taking settlements here. Yeah the other 2 aren't perfect either, but they're the lesser evil in comparison. Any good advice on this? I always wanted a 5-6 hour job that pays decent enough to sustain a roof on my head. And I give rats about which job, since diplomacy are just paper to begin with.
>I always wanted a 5-6 hour job that pays decent enough to sustain a roof on my headSorry we do 8-12 hour shifts and need a roommate or significant other to pull that off around these parts if you somehow do get here with the highly valued skillset of "I give rats about which job"
>>34201999>due to recent Starmer's pornoWut?
>>34202150Keir Starmer made the UK into a communist shithole when it comes to privacy
This post genuinely feels like rage bait :broken_heart:.Either that or anon does not have ANY CLUE about geopolitics and only consumes redpilled media
>>34202340>namefag being retardednews at 11
How come I see all these stories of guys killing their kids and beating up their gf? How are they able to get to that point with women while I can't get a second date? What are they doing right that I'm not?
>>34202046ive never heard of that, maybe in some edge cases but idk what sort of media you are consuming, maybe you mean guys who treat their significant other like shit / cheat on them?
>>34202052I'd say those are separate tiers, but yeah even those guys get more pussy than me. Is treating the women like shit part of the game? Is that why I'm not winning? The media I consume is pretty normal, stuff from Instagram. More underground news outlets that specifically report on violent crimes and stuff.
You need to go outside for a change instead of getting your images of what the world outside is like from the virgin neets of /pol/.
>>34202156It's not pol, it's Instagram which is normie central
>>34202058i feel like still your talking about some very extreme cases, but for the ones i know about guys just general being shitty and not really giving much attention to their girlfriend or whatever, its mor cuz guys like this have been traditionally popular, be in highschool or college, they usually have had better luck with women, so over time theyd get cocky thinking they can get any girl they like, which turns into confidence. Girls see that confidence and think that person knows what their doing / is a good partner for them.Then after they do get into a relationship like that, unless they are very independent or challenging they wont go against the guy treating them like shit or ignoring them.
f20 i have never had a guy being obsessed with me and it is messing with me. it is probably due to me almost never leaving the house except when i have to but i never get into situations where i am around men that could find a liking to me. i have anxiety so this is not something i can do easily but it is messing with my coincidence because i dont relate to other women etc. i think im not ugly but getting no attention from men kind of does make u feel that way. how can i change that? and if i put myself in situations with men, what do i do? nothing? what makes men approach women? or do i have to do something ? but i am awkward and afraid of rejection i also do t know what’s appropriate. also i am a bit alternative (not emo but i like semi quirky stuff that might not appeal to the average guy) so that stresses me out too. i dont like dating apps bc im afraid of anyone i know finding me i know its silly but i cant get over that.
>>34200949You're so mysterious.
>>34200865you don't want people obsessed with youspecially if they are few and low quality peopleI wouldn't say I'm a chad but I have a very attractive personality when I want to so I've had girls obsess over me over the years and it's never what it's painted out to be, i'd rather have 20 girls midly interested in me (like nowadays) than 1 or 2 ugly chicks that post stories crying when I don't reply to them or appear to parties where they don't know anyone just because they found out I was going to be thereI remember walking alone, playing pokemon on a cartridge instead of emulated on computer for the first time in my life on my way to meet my friends when this girl that was obsessed with me for no reason comes with her sister and introduces her to me like I'm a fiancée basicallymost embarrassing moment for both me and the sister when after a couple questions she realizes we're not even too close of acquaintances.
>>34200865as for your question just dress nicely in your style and fashion, look up some ways to style your look to be more attractive, it's called attractive for that reason, to attract people. Whatever style you belong to, there is a "sexy" version of that stylejust dress like that, it means you're open to be looked at at least, start from there, I've went all out of my way if I notice someone attractive alone in a place where she should have gone with people like a bar or an event, ask a couple questions, if she's interested we keep talking, if she's not interested I just leave, no harm done.
>>34200865how big are your boobs? like not an exact number but could you show more of them off? if you do that and wear those little shorts where you can see some under butt i bet you can find someone special
>>34201257idk if my reply is too late but i dont like being seen in a purely sexual way it makes me mad for some reason it feels dehumanising
>34 years old>unemployed for 12 of those yearsWhat do I do?I just want to forget that this happened, as of the last 6 years things began affecting me mentally past the point where I could cope with them.I want to work a job in IT/computers, but I don't know how to start.
>>34198021Yeah, at this point I might as well just kill myself desu
>>34197629So are you in for the job? My budget for the server it’s 100 K. I found it for 78,000. I’ll give you 22,000 if you help me configure and set up the whole thing.
>>34196380at this point, you should be praying for a part-time job as a cashier Walmart.
>>34196544So you have below entry level experience and knowledge across menial computer tasks, no education, no certifications, and you expect someone to hire you with a 12 year gap in your employment in the current job market which has basically destroyed entry level IT jobs due to AI? Honestly, you are fucked my man. You also sound like an arrogant retard. My typical advice would be to try and get in doing some service desk type work, but you seem to lack both the technical aptitude and basic people skills to excel in even that mongoloid-tier job.
>>34199305>Honestly, you are fucked my man.Not really, I can become homeless and make a point to throwing bricks at every home and expensive car in the area and being off the grid nobody can stop me destroying your $70k car or destroying your windows, lmao
Why do all the girls I hook up with want to start a relationship with me? Like, bitch, I'm not that type of guy. Not now, at least.
>>34190948Oh. So even the biggest Casanovas/players have their women wanting to settle down with them?>>34191172>better male/female ratioBut I'm not looking for males, and what makes you think I'm only using dating apps to find chics?
Bumping this unrelatable thread
>>34188507>Not nowLiving midlife, fat and bald... okay... whatever you say
>>34195313What?
Bump
It has been around 10 months since my ex and I broke up. She was my first girlfriend, and we were serious about going long term and actually commit to our relationship.But I fell on an error, that is concerned with my issue, that was porn addiction and a kind of infidelity. I started to get attracted to this hot girl in my school and we started to talk and all (she was also interested). And that was the sole reason my girlfriend and I broke up. She decided to end things with regard to my actions. I also agreed to end things because I was sorta falling out on our relationship and where to steer if there was even hope for us to continue (we tried and tried to resolve these issue but I can’t help and straighten myself out). There was also these influences on my school that was kind of driving me to go to the girl whom I was cheating with. I was aware of these influences and so was my girlfriend, but I really fell short on my choices and still chose to err.Now my main issue is my ex was my first sexual contact and I had put so much value and attachment to that. This was compromised. And I got on a phase of depression when I finally realized the consequences of my actions. That it was not worth it all (the affair I had with the girl didn’t work out). Every now and then I get these intrusive and self destructive thoughts about my ex being fucked by another dude. And I know it’s dehumanizing to think of her only doing just that (I know she also has her self-respect and all). It is me and my thoughts that is the problem. To the point of me wanting to kill myself over such self abusive thoughts. How do I get over this?
>>34202170If you find antoher girl to fill that void, you will forget her.It's also important to be a better person and not make the same mistakes.
>>34202170Fuck ten women more attractive than she was, and she won't seem so important.
