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Should I be concerned that my friend basically used me for an orgasm? I guess context for this kind of matters. We were watching a movie together on the couch, which we do all the time, and we were kind of reclined together, which isn't too unusual. My couch is comfy. Anyway, I noticed she was fidgeting under the blanket at one point. I thought she was scratching her leg or something, but then she kind of changed positions suddenly and and grabbed onto my hoodie and shuddered, and I realized she was cumming while wedged against my leg. Sure enough, I had a big wet spot on the knee of my pajama pants afterward. She apologized and said she was "just having problems" because she can't get a boyfriend due to work/school, and I heehee haha'd it off as yeah its fine, you just had some urges to sort. But now that I think about it, it's pretty awkward, wouldn't you agree? I'm supposed to go to the gym with her tomorrow and act like everything's normal, and I don't see how that's going to work unless I just pretend that night didn't happen. How do you guys think I should proceed? Wrong answers only.

The movie was Dune 2, by the way. It was pretty good.
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>>32626375
Bro got sexually assaulted
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>>32626375
I used to be an adventurer like you.
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>>32626749
>Maybe that'll convey the hint.
more confirmation that women are literally retarded, which I don't need
stop being retarded
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>>32626749
>She's had a boyfriend before though. I know for a fact she's not 100% gay.
I want to tear off my own dick and throw it down the toilet that’s how frustrated I am at this logic OP. I’ll stay calm.

SHE LITERALLY GROOLED ALL OVER YOUR LEG AND USED YOU TO GET HERSELF OFF. What more do you need to know? Not 100% gay my fucking ass. Okay so 50% gay. Doesnt matter if its 1% gay, she still wiped her puss on you on purpose.

>We’ve been friends for three years
Yeah and this is why this needs to shock you more. She doesnt give a fuck about those three years. If she did she wouldn’t openly disrespect you and do sexually creep shit to you.

>Maybe that’ll convey the hint.
Femanon, stop being so fucking dense, please. Your oblivious gullibility is going to be your downfall. Stand up for yourself for fuck sake. God forbid you have a husband one day and another man gets creepy on you and your dumbass just goes in denial and defends her own aggressor. Or if you have kids and a pedo starts getting handsy with your little children and you fail to protect them because your air-filled brain thinks “nahhh. Nothing bad can happen. Bad people dont exist...”

Fuck.
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>>32626749
>Maybe that'll convey the hint.
thw wrong hints maybe. Those are things people do when they don't want to hang out anymore.

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>>32628709
You keep on posting that, what did they do?

>>32628643
Red pill or blue?
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>>32628887
Red. Bitter.
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>>32628891
But there is too much hate in this world ...
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>>32628907
Not that type of red pill. Red pill to the situation I made a choice in, which is choosing the painful liberation. Which was love.
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Imagine dating a girl who actually posts you on her social media even when you're not doing something for her

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I have to get rid of a cat. Where is the most likely location it will survive and have offspring? I’m not taking it to a shelter. I don’t care about anyone’s negative opinion of this matter.
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>>32628737
What details? I’m thinking a senior living community or near the harbor.
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>>32628742
Do you want it to survive and have offspring?
Why are you getting rid of it? Why aren't you taking it to a shelter?
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>>32628761
They auto neuter cats here then euthanize them after 2 months. I feel like giving her a 50/50 shot at having kids in the wild is almost more humane.
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>>32628785
are there no no-kill shelters anywhere around you? Have you done a google search for any of them, if so what came up?
Idk where you live but I live in the southern US and it's below freezing right now. If you give her that "50/50 shot" she will not die peacefully from a vaccine, she will slowly freeze to death behind whatever dumpster she is able to find scraps in. She will die wondering what she did wrong and why you abandoned her, telling herself that she didn't know it could get this cold, and missing her mother's soft fur from when she was a kitten.

Don't be an asshole. Please, don't do that to her. You took on a responsibility as a man to care for this being. Do your duty.
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>>32628814
Southwest coast of the USA. cat will be fine. No-kill shelter doesn’t have any information on giving them pets.

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I've experienced rejection and unrequited love 35 times, I'm going to be 30 and nothing to show for it. Am I destined for isolation?
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lmao 35 times in 20 years? i was triple digits before high school was even over. get back out on that grind, you haven't seen shit yet
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>>32628873
Please for the love of god stop counting the amount of times that is insane self harm. Also, I believe anyone has lived a long enough life to be truly in love with 30 different people

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How do I signal to men that I'm available on the dating marketplace despite being a hijabi
I haven't been muslim for years but still wear hijab due to living with my parents, and obviously I feel like men are too scared to approach me because they think I'm religious
I have about 2.5 years left in my degree and I need to find a husband stat, otherwise I fear I will be single forever and my parents will arrange a marriage for me with some religious nutcase guy from the middle east
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>>32626551
Dumb larp.
If your parents would freak out over not wearing a hijab, they'd also freak out about you dating. I know arabs whose parents are basically irreligious, and they STILL get bent out of shape if their kids--especially daughters--date.
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>>32627656
It's easier to hide the fact that you're dating someone instead of not wearing hijab
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>>32626887
>I live with my religious parents
then take it off when they aren't around????
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>>32626551
Take off the hijab on campus. I had a classmate who did that.
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>>32627510
im also an exmuslim but i just want to tell you you're a dumb whore and i hate women

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Are mentally ill or bpd demons worth dating for the simple fact that they love you deeper, despite the obvious crazy drawback?
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>>32605068
What facial expression is this?
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>>32626916
soulless clout chaser
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>>32605068
Hello. I'm late to this thread but please read me. I have dated a girl with BPD for almost 6 years now. I fell head over heels for her, I had never loved anyone in my life more than when i started dating her.

Don't do it. Do not do it. Look at me, motherfucker. Do. NOT. Fucking. Do. It.

I fell out of love with her 3 years ago. I tried to break up with her. Nothing. She won't let me. I know that sounds stupid, but I'm serious. She just won't let me. Its been 3 years now of me trying to break up with her and her dragging me kicking and screaming back in. I'm scared of her. I know I could physically overpower her, but Im scared of what she would do to my family and myself (if she got a weapon) or even herself if i just blocked her on everything.
I used to dream about having kids. But I would be so sad to see a child raised by this person. She is the most emotionally unstable, rude, belligerant person i've had the misfortune of meeting in my fucking life. If someone offered me a million dollars or the choice to go back and tell myself to ignore this bitch, I would go back in a heartbeat.

She will love you to death. But she will literally love you to death. Don't do it. It's not worth it. No matter how hot she is.
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>>32605068
In my experience, mentally ill chicks are more apt to keep you at arms length and never commit. They don't love bomb at all.

The girls who lovebomb you are just neurotypical dummies who've been raised on romcoms and think that relationships are all important even if they suck.
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>>32625866
You still sound like a codependent. I used to be, too. We mirrored them and they mirrored us. Your defense being "well I was shallow too"...yeah, and? It doesn't matter.

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So my wife just said she loves me but isn’t “in” love with me whatever the fuck that means.

Let’s skip all she shit about why I’ll be happier without her, etc. I don’t want any of that, I just want her.

I’m looking for any advice or tricks to make her stay. She already relies on me financially but that isn’t enough for her to stay I guess. No kids.

I have no issues with putting things in her food or drink so anything you guys recommend? If this is the wrong place I’ll take advice on the right place to ask instead.

Thanks.
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>>32628311
>whatever the fuck that means
It means she likes your wallet but not you. Fortunately for her, she can divorce you and get your wallet and lose you, so it's a win/win.
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>>32628311
> I just want her.
She’s gone bro, sorry
> I have no issues with putting things in her food or drink so anything you guys recommend?
If you do this I promise you will get a restraining order, then a crazy alimony bill
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>>32628311
Simply have her love you more.
If this doesn't raise her happiness, have her be happier from sharing love with you.
The easy solution is the best
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>>32628330
30 American, not saying city
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>>32628311
It means you're a man-child who she has to baby and she's sick of it. Women are NOT attracted to men they feel like they have to take care of. The housework needs to be split 50/50 at the very least and before you say you already do 50/50, no you don't. In a massive survey they polled men and women and while the men thought they were doing 50/50 the women thought they were doing 10/90 or 20/80 at best. There's a lot involved in running a household that men aren't even aware of because the woman just does it, but when they do this long term they lose attraction to their husbands because they see them more like their child than their husband. That's what she means when she says that she loves you but that she isn't IN love with you. How could she be? You're a man-child.

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Is marriage within a year too quick
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>>32628758
After a year i would think moving in together. Absolutely way too fucking soon for me. But I’m not a christcuck that is going to have 6 kids with my ex wife so I see things differently
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>>32628758
usually yes. at the year point you are still in the phase of thinking you two are the best fucking couple thats ever existed. I would never marry someone without seeing how they react to a legitimately stressful situation. Example: losing a job, moving, buying house, a coworker makes a play at your woman, loyalty in general (women have a huge problem with this before marriage, men the opposite)
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marriage is a bad idea regardless of engagement length

Is it worth getting therapy if I know what I need to do with myself, but don't feel like it's even remotely possible to do?
I also tried getting therapy for sexual PTSD that I have and I was basically told I hate myself too much to even consider working through it. So I guess I need to work on myself first.
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>>32628638
Depends.
"I don't know how to overcome the negative parts of me" -> Yes, therapy
"The negative parts of me are correct and I can never change them" -> No, unfixable.
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>>32628638
>Is it worth getting therapy if I know what I need to do
no, because they are going to tell you to do that thing that you already know
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>>32628638
> I was basically told I hate myself too much to even consider working through it.
This means you need to work with a therapist to first work through your selfhatred before you can work through your PTSD. It’s not possible to do much work on yourself if you don’t think you are worth working on. So I ask you, are you worth working on?
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>>32628638
ye its good to have someone else's opinion so you are not just stuck in a loop. You can do it once a month and not every week or something
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>>32628638
yes therapy would help in your case. In my opinion, you shouldn't even start with your PTSD but working through why you dont want to. That would probably be a journey in itself

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Why do artists get angry when I make a profit out of traced artworks?
Like, I mostly just trace the pose and yes sometimes even the body countour, but I do the rest (which is 80% of the work btw) myself.
Like, some people get seriously mad about this.
However, if the customer is happy with their purchase, who fucking cares, right? Who cares about those crying butthurt artists and their "integrity"? Are they just envious? How do I deal with this? I don't even copy everything 1 to 1 lol.
I'm asking here and not on /ic/ because the people there are seemingly irrational and toxic.
Thank you.
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>>32628628
You cant recognize the difference between imitation and inspiration. You are cooked.
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>>32628755
Inspiration is in fact imitation to an extent
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>>32628743
>what percentage of their work would you have stolen?
Depends what's written in it, what's your point? That the cover isn't enough? You'd be surprised what people will buy just because it looks shiny
Besides, who says I won't increase my skills over time?
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>>32628780
And yet they are different words because they are different things with different implications
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>>32628811
And great things were based off previous ideas, glad we came to a conclusion

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Real answers only.
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>>32627058
??? Look at her face man, she looks like Nick Cage fucked Megamind
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>>32627041
>Women like funny men.
To add depth to my initial anecdotal evidence. I won't say I'm a fuckin Jim Carrey, but throughout my life, every girl I've ever met I've always managed to make her laugh the same way as the girl I talked about earlier at least once. I have countless of stories of me making up some funny bullshit on the spot and somehow make every girl around me laugh. I don't know how I did it it just happened. Yet, the only girl that ever approached me with sexual intent, was a girl that didn't find me funny in any way except maybe in a "laugh at me, not with me" kind of way. She used to tease me because I couldn't make her laugh. Yet that's the girl I ended up having sex an insurmountable amount of times. The main difference between her and the many girls I've ever made laugh is that she was slightly less attractive than the other ones.

You can believe whatever bullshit you want hard to be reality to prevent your bubble from bursting, but my own personal experience and knowledge beats anything you make up about it, from my perspective.
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>>32626102
>I am an incel with no social skills
FTFY
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>>32620878
I met my fiancee in my late 20s through mutual friends at a Renaissance fair, tho. Something you guys tell these anons not to do
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>>32622104
vinyl is more popular than ever rn

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Why is this board so relaxing
Why can't I meet my social needs irl
What went wrong
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>>32627718
>Why is this board so relaxing
You are autistic.
>Why can't I meet my social needs irl
You are autistic.
>What went wrong
Your parents had sex and created you, someone with autism.
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>>32627747
more like awesomtism
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>>32627753
>awesomtism
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>>32627718
outside is scary
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>>32627753
Hop in some discords, i think that’s a good start for you. You’ll be alright lil bud

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I'm 24 soon.
This isn't right.
I don't believe you people are serious when you say you're permavirgins like me.

Everyone I know is able to get pussy with ease, i'm the only exception.

I don't believe any of you are real. I need real help.
I can't take this suffering anymore. I just want a girlfriend to do stuff with.
Why can't I?
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>>32622321
I think there have been eras of my life when it's easy and eras when it is hard, and it's mostly dumb luck and knowing a lot of people.
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>>32622321
>Everyone I know is able to get pussy with ease, i'm the only exception.
>I'm 24

The average 24 year old male is struggling with getting pussy and getting a gf right now bc zoomers in general are having less sex and aren't dating. You need to realize a lot of men LIE about their sex life or virgin status to avoid stigma or seem cool.

In my friend group of 6 guys, only 2 of us aren't virgins and only one of us (me) has a gf and is having sex consistently. We're old zoomers (27-28 years old) and my friends struggle with sex and relationships gets worse the older we get.

>tldr: you're not alone, there's plenty of men in your situation right now
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>>32627162
I have accused random subhumans of being virgins before. They all took out their phones and proved me wrong.

I legit don't see this "le male loneliness epidemic" IRL, only on autism image boards like this.
In real life everywhere I look I see a happy couple usually where the man is average or even a slob. I'm convinced i'm the only incel.
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>>32622422
>I'M 24 SOON.
>TWENTY.
>FUCKING.
>FOUR.
>This is so inhumane.
Why do you care? I've never understood why someone would want a girlfriend. Women are annoying and mean. I don't want anything to do with them. 33yo virgin here. The difference is I've never tried to get a girlfriend because I don't want one. I've actually had a few girls interested in me over the years, which is astounding considering how infrequently I go out and interact with other people. I'd say I'm a Chad but I know that's not true because I'm fat as fuck.

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What’s your experience with Facebook dating like? Is it cooked like tinder or do normgroids like me stand a chance?

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>attracted to short girls with big tits and soft faces
>don't want my possibly male children to be short so feel the need to procreate with someone similar to my height instead
I hate this, I don't know what to do
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>>32627179
Just have sex with them and not commit? Also make sure you give shortstacks a good dicking so they don't bite your ass years later.
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>>32627796
Good point, but I do want to end up in a marriage where I can look at my wife and consider her the most attractive woman on the planet. If I can't do that, I'd want to be able to fuck the woman I consider the woman I consider more attractive in the meantime, but I don't want to ruin my family by cheating and I doubt I'll be lucky enough to find a gorgeous tall wife that'll additionally have no issues with me fucking other women on the side.
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>>32627179
I used to think like this. Now, I just don't give a shit. Think about it like this: yes, your sons may be at a disadvantage if they're short, but your girls would be at an advantage with big boobies and short, so it evens off. Also, short mom doesn't guarantee short kids. I know a lady who is 4'11 and her husband is 5'6, and all the sons are 5'8 or taller.
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>>32627897
>girls would have an advantage
Girls don't need an advantage, they're the selectors of the mating process either way. In no way does a tall woman have the same disadvantages as a short man, do not even try making weird gaslighting arguments on that note.
>short mom doesn't guarantee short kids
It increases the likelihood tho you moron, which is why incest is illegal for example.
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>>32627752
where is this "future"? you flaming homo


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