>>40958856Im maybe considering it. I just wish i could get a straight bf >>40958885>>40959037Oh yeah no doubt she’s coping a little bit, she had to clarify that hes “bisexual” and “no man would like an icky tranny like they like me because im a real wombyn”>>40958933Maybe
>>40959441why would straight men date gay men?
>>40959445Not taking the bait
>>40959486do you really think taking estrogen makes you not a gay man anymore?
>>40956413Hole cope
General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning, and friends.QOTT: What is your favorite biome?QOTT2: What cultural cuisine do you enjoy the most?
>>40957090>.i have a lot of complicated feelings about this and it makes me feel like a fake enby even if i know that a fake enby isn't even a real thinggod that's exactly it, it sucks so much> pretty sure there's something out there people take to suppress itYeah, raloxifene, I know about it but I'm not sure it would be safe to take long-term. I've read pretty much all there is to know about this and there's no perfect solution, so I'm just gonna do straight E for a while and hope for little to no boobs
>>40956799i used to be terrified too, especially in early med transition. but honestly booba isnt too bad. they evened out my chest and made womens clothes fit a lot better. plus the expanded erogenous zones are really nice for sexual expression. theyre also small enough that on days when im feeling more masc i can just drape a t shirt over and theyre largely not too noticable. as other anon said though hrtgen def has methods to stall chest growth if its a 100% dealbreaker. >>40957090>when i was little my parents handmade me an entire Link costumeoh my gosh thats so adorable t.t i used to make my own halloween costumes all the time as a kid. ive been meaning to dig out the sewing machine from the laundry room because good quality clothes are so fucking expensive nowadays and i would rather just make them myself from random scraps.
>cant be overweight and androgynous at the same timei hate my stupid amab enby lifei need to lose weight and gain it back so my hrt can put it in the right places
How do I stop thinking about the bad shit that happened to me 24/7
the maid dress is ON
>body hair is kind of a turn-off (sometimes hot but depends on situation)>fantasize about being fucked in the ass but never put anything inside myselfi see a lot of people say bisexual people arent real gays am i a fake queer
>>40958930depends on mood and state of arousal. Also, this isnt talked about enough, but sometimes some ppl just dont enjoy it up the ass. you could be one of those few ppl
>>40958930I’m 100% straight and love a rock hard girl cock up my ass
no youre just bi (the bad kind), because most mature hetero and homosexuals of both genders love body hair
>>40959422>I’m 100% straight and love a rock hard girl cock up my assi regularly fantasize about things like this but again have never tried to stick anything inside of myselfi dont even know how id start even just the feeling of my fingers against my ass makes me uneasy :/>>40959423>no youre just bi (the bad kind), because most mature hetero and homosexuals of both genders love body hairidk whats wrong with me
>>40959564when did u first start having these thoughts? did u watch gay porn, femboy porn ,etc? and is ur body hairless
How do we fix the absolute disaster nightmare that is FTM optics? At least a handful of people see trans women as women, I don't think anyone on earth sees trans men as men.>inb4 PLAP PREGNANCY BREED retardsMake your own thread.
>>40958113I've been visibly ftm for 10 years and I haven't been surprised yet
>>40959237Because you call those "surprises" incels
>>40957266das a cute kitty
>>40957266>inb4 PLAP PREGNANCY BREED retardsAnon it's one guy. Literally just one incredibly autistic polish man.
>>40957266i think the reason people don't see trans men as men is bc most go stealth asap. people do see the stealthers as man since they don't know they're trannies. the only ones they notice are trans are the pooners so they assume all ftms are pooners.
i feel like im too ugly and will never be able to look prettyim too lazy and incompetent to learn how to do things like makeup and take care of my hair properly and dress properlyim rly autistic and socially avoidant so i always just make others uncomfortable and creeped out whenever i need to interact with peoplei feel like im always going to be some kind of social pariah and looked at with only pity or disgusti dont think i can relate to the normal trans experience, they seem to be going about being trans in a more 'real' way which seems inaccessible to me
>>40958482Anon. You gotta decouple these ideas of self care and gender and seriously just focus on looking after your health and mental wellbeing. You're gonna be looked at as a social pariah regardless of gender if you're not looking after yourself and you have such negativity towards yourself. You don't have to fix it all at once, just try and do your best and start with a small step in a positive direction.
yeah same, im just a creepy weirdo, always have been. its like being an incel, theres no "transitioning" out of it. your existence is just social poison. even so i guess we have to try because the alternative is just roping
>>40958482relatable, I just don't go outside, I'm a night creature
>>40958482and yet, here you stand. I don't know your personal beliefs anon, but being trans is a spiritual experience. The fact that there is even an internal incongruence means that you've already earned the title, at least partially. you will ascend your flesh and mold yourself into someone worth loving, it just takes time and patience.
>>40958482I mean you were able to use words to describe your feelings without chatgpt, albeit clumsily... maybe that anon who said education is isnt always best for transgirls had a point..
What gender does my voice soundhttps://voca.ro/18XaVFr8KSkB
>>40959387 Bump
>>40959387you sound twelve and vaguely masculine. if ftm you're on the right track, if not, there's still plenty to work with.
i'm 20 and i don't find men my age attractive. they're immature and effeminate and usually broke. the guys i fall for are normally between 24 and 28. is this normal?`fwiw i'm also not attracted to men over 30 so it's not an old man fetish or anything.i'm mtf trans if that mattersis anyone else like this?
>>40953106what zoomers think is masculinity would of been called metrosexual back in the good old days, that retarded faggot man influncer is a primary example of it same with nick fuentes. zennials are alright though
>>40953038weirddd
>>40953106>In what reality are they effeminate?do you really have to ask
>>40952977depending on the definition, the cutoff for gen z may be as low as 95, which would put the eldest at 30
>>40956907gen z, cringelennial, and boomer are more than generations. they are eternal categories. zoomers are under 25, cringelennials 25-35, everyone else is a boomer. thats how it is and has always been.
autistic trans girl. how are u :3
>>40954866could be better. I'm going to smoke weed right now then go to sleep because I'm lazy :')
>>40958575need one like this
>>40959160hahahaha autistic fucking LOOOSER.
I need a genuine low functioning autist wife that I can take care of
>>40959326hiiim too retarded to have every had a job, i had like 1.5 friends, i live with my parents, i cant do social situations at all, i have meltdowns regularlyumm who wants me :3
big fat guy editionqott: how big a belly is too big a belly?
>>40958234someone have styro advice
>>40959516this thread is dead because people just try and drive people away by posting gross stuff
>>40959489Good girls goon their clitty to sissy hypnos!
>>40959529That's sad. I hope it gets revived soon. this board has been sooo slow lately.>>40959532Ok???
>>40959549Don't lie! You goon your clitty too! Every good girl loves her sissy hypnos! Every good girls loves her porn!
...fuck.previous: >>40836388Goal of the thread: I will not be fucked with that today.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Don't worry everyone, I'm not dead, I just needed a bit of a break. Will be back in full force on Sunday I believe.
>>40957610heck yeah!rest well!
>>40917560>what led you to detranstwo major reasons. lots of other smaller reasons but these two are really why I decided to detransition. Number one, was that it didn't feel like me becoming my true self, and felt like me trying to run away and become someone else. And I wanted to just try and be myself and accept myself. Number two is because I thought long and hard about what I truly wanted in life, and me meeting someone, who also led to heartbreak (but that's a different story), made me realize that what I truly wanted in life was to fit be in a cishet relationship and to have a family. I feel this one more strongly now.>>40921811>Have you checked your hormone levelsI have not. Checked them while on hrt but didn't care to when off it, but I this is probably a good idea ty anon
>>40957610Blessed anon
How do I make positive changes in my life when I have debilitating social anxiety, debilitating fear of negative evaluation, and have been isolated with my family my entire life (partially due to being homeschooled)? Therapy is my only conduit to the outside world, and even at home I don't do anything productive. The internet should be my pathway to social interaction, but I have avoided it there too.
Is it true that your sex life improves after transition, or is that just a cope?
>access to female holes is what makes you a good personand people wonder why our society is failing
>>40959032short answer, yesi have never came this hard in my lifelonger answer is i feel more comfortable being intimate in this body and i feel sexier and more confidant and my partner picks up on that and tries to match my energy
>>40959059>Are you getting SRS or not? No>Are you MtF or FtM? MtF>How are you having sex? PiV, topping (obviously). I feel a strong desire to bottom but I can barely fit a few fingers in there and the idea of being that vulnerable scares me (specially bottoming for a man)>Or do you mean do you get more sex after transition? Yes>It's such a vague question it's uselessYes, that's the point. I find vague questions get the most attention here and are the most interesting, at least until the thread devolves into a long discussion between two anons about optics, or bone structure, or whatever.
>>40959059what's ur height and weight anon?
>>40959059>Are you getting SRS or not?Yes >Are you MtF or FtM? MTF>How are you having sex?Boyfriend puts it in my butt >do you get more sex after transition?About the same
Why do crossdressers pass better than trans women do?
>>40959469I keep getting reels about lesbianism on my reels and im not sure how to feel i don’t even like them but they keep popping up are they trying to psyop me
>>40959517psyop you into what?
>>40959526Into liking women idk
>>40959517Tbf all social media wants to psyop you, one way or the other. You think the algorithm is personally tailored for you, but in reality they (the algorithms themselves) choose one of many tailored rabbit holes to kick you down into.
They understand that passing can come down to fashion and makeup and stuff. Some trannies I think are too concerned about being a "real woman" that they miss all the things you can do to bullshit your way into passing.
Prev: >>40876908QOTT: favorite fantasy creature?
>>40959436WAGMI
>>40959438yeah trutru
>>40959041i did tho. and i still do i always preferred mens clothes
>>40959041I didn't do it because my dysphoria is fake
>>40957504>do you know where you areHA HA HA anyway i love larping>>40959033>Seeing trans men talk about how they insisted they were boys since they were young is the ultimate repfuel for me because if my dysphoria was actually real I would have done that.god same anon, i cant stress this enough, it doesnt help that i was going through some stuff when i "realized" i had gender dysphoria. i couldve been a normal traumatized cis woman instead of a woman whose trauma badly translated into whatever this is>>40959041my mom never wanted me to cut my hair short for some strange reason lol she only allowed me to get shoulder length and never past it, i remember the first time i got it cut slightly shorter she got really mad at me even though it was still like kind of a bob cut.i actually only ever had really short hair one time in my life and it was from ripping it out during quarantine like i was somehow able to cut my hair with my own hands by ripping it apart but it also made it full of split ends and looked like dog shit honestly. i havent wanted to have hair that short ever since
If you are unhappy that women control the world and want to opt out of their sadistic game then you are an evil rapist killer woman hater.
You can opt out of women's sadistic game without becoming a tranny and trying to make children into trannies too
>>40959464apparently not
To opt out of the great game you need only not play it. Focus on art, creation, etc. starve the beast do not focus on killing it.
>>40958629I am actually smarter than you >>40958655tldr you still get no pussy
>>40959494>opt out of the social orderlosing
I peruse this board once in a while, had something happen to me that’s got me feeling a bit melancholic. Wanted to tell someone abt it but can’t say it to any one irl because I keep my shit in the closet. So you fags can read it instead>be me>in uni>living in dorm >bored out of my mind>room mate is a stoner / loser who is always out with his junkie buddies>dorm next to mine has a normal dude and a shorter skinny Peruvian boy>everyone else is ordinary and forgettable>go to a party this one time, full of shitheads and is boring >about to leave>bump into Peruvian boy>he spills a cup of something onto my shirt>cuss him out >he just timidly apologizes while not making eye contact Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40957229you mentioned (s)he was soft all around it might be (s)he is already on hormones lmao. based off your description (s)he isn't gonna end up being an "ugly tranny"
>>40955617You don't deserve him. You're so cowardly and irresponsible, man the fuck up. You flee your feelings to the point it causes external damage. You actually suck so hard it's beyond gay
>>40958480For fucking real. Although I think it’s likely this is a no life larper who just wanted to make a legendary greentext, hence why he won’t let the thread die.But if it is real then fuck him. I was on his side at first but throughout the thread it’s become glaringly obvious that he is either a sadistic narcissist or very emotionally repressed and is not ready for a relationship. This dynamic can seem fun for a short while or a booty call but the extreme possessiveness and objectification becomes dangerous long term. I’ll admit it’s hot as a bottom but it gets old and dangerous real fastZ
>>40957526i never asked him about that. he doesnt sound super girly, but he didnt sound like a guy either, but maybe that was cuz he had a spanish accent when he spoke. >>40958480cowardly? the nigga is in another country. ive done all i can to try to get in touch with him. i didnt run away from anything, it was the circumstances that made it hard to make a decision. nothing else.>>40958585i gain nothing from lying. i got better things to do than to make up shit on the internet, i just dont have any place else to talk about what's going on.
>>40957229>things would be smoother with my family and friendsthis is what it would changesince that seems to be the only reason you won't date this boy>ugly trannies pretending to be girly and its just a huge turn off. is he ugly? you said he's cute im just trusting you>i just dont know if i like him or not.i do. and the answer is yesnobody goes to this much trouble without caring>>40959049>he doesnt sound super girly,hormones don't change your voice. that takes a lot of time and practice
