>babby>focus on playing, a girlfriend will come later>teen>focus on your studies, a girlfriend will come later>adult>focus on your career, a girlfriend will come laterIt seems like normies, especially normie parents are just instinctively evil. If you obey this atrocious advice you WILL end up depressed and single, no question.>y u post disBecause I went through this shit myself and it seriously fucked my life up.
There are countless people who are not yet hard sold on this idea just yet and that's for good reason. It takes a lot of effort to detach someone from their flawed intuition on how the world works and educate them about what's truly observable and "scientific" in a way.
>>83637918>It seems like normies, especially normie parents are just instinctively evil.I have literally never been told this advice, not have I heard from any of my friend who were told this, and nothing from the normieverse at large.Maybe if you're extremely chinese second generation immigrant or something, but even they figure out the epic lifehack of doing two things at once in their life, or even more. It's possible to focus on school AND start dating and get a girlfriend. You can focus on your career AND have crazy sex with sluts at bars and/or settle down with your future wife and start planning out parenthood.Surely when you were like 15 and you saw guys who had girlfriends and a social life and also probably did better than you in school you noticed that the whole "wait for a girlfriend to show up when you're 40" meme wasn't true.
>>83639256You haven't, huh?
OP, I'm also an immigrant (parents are from USSR) and I got this same asian parenting advice. I think westerner boomers never told this to their kids because they were already rich regardless of education so partying and dating were held as a higher priority. Meanwhile our traditional culture also just assumed women will basically be pushed to marry you if you have a good job since that's how it USED TO work for them. In any case, the old world of eastern and western boomers is gone. I'm a university professor and I have never put my penis in a vagina or kissed a woman.
>>83640414Did your parents ever attempt to "scare" you with a story about a family friend (or some other relation) who supposedly dropped out of a prestigious school program to mope around at home after a rejection or breakup?
Youre a crummy slummy gummy bummy dummyThat applies likewise to your daddy and your mommy
>>83638631NO I'M NOT NO I'M NOT NO I'M NOTI HATE YOUI'M TELLING M00T!
nagatoro, ive decided to have sex with you
>>83638631MF DOOM posts here?
>>83639729My face between those feet right now
>>83640146>tripfag is a footfag tooSome people just ain't right.
My co-worker pushed her titties into my arm when she was reaching for a pen. I hope I don't lose this job, I really need it.
>>83640318ppl don't notice me in school and friends irl usually don't message me often
>>83640348Do you want a friend or anonymous people talking to you? There's a big difference there.
>>83640368I like being anonymous more cause it's more fun and I'm bad at keeping friends, especially online
>>83639603>Not Chad, it was an accident.oh nonon anon thinks it was an accident and not premeditated to test youif you think men overthink situations women replay them 300 times in their heads
>>83640406I like being anonymous too. I usually post threads here with something like "share a story from your life" and then talk to anyone who posts. Avoiding giving any personal details about yourself is pretty important if you want to have fun though, otherwise you get people attacking you for whatever.
Is this fishing game any fun
>>83639375and now the cat is making threads -_-
>>83639704well youre not making any>>83639678what is your favorite game?
>>83640250>well youre not making anyare you going to post everyday now?
>>83640314maybe depends on if I feel like
>>83639375>conch shellWOLOLOLOLOLOLO
Beautiful vehicle. My fiance and I have been together for five years and our kids love going for rides. Life is good
>>83640402What program do you use to make these threads?
>tfw no k-swapped odyssey
the mid to late 90s was the aesthetic peak for utilitarian consumer objects. it's impressive how much worse everything keeps progressively getting. I wish every car looked like a 1996 honda.
>>83640428Well, I used Google to find the image and a keyboard to type it. Does that help?>>83640435>>83640440my brotherscan't wait to plap'er in the backseat of my 1996 Honda Odyssey. Nasty chica.
BPD women are a cheat code for incels
>chalked up everything bad that she did to her being female and just put up with it, assuming they're all like that>a few weeks before breaking up with me she told me she had BPDI still got my heart broken really badly but in retrospect that bit is pretty funny.
BPD isn't real and is just an excuse for women to be colossal assholes. How many men with BPD or fibromyalgia do you know?
>>83640141It is reall but people make it into something strange online
>>83640141Would love to introduce this guy to my ex and observe from a safe distance, maybe check in every now and then to see how he's doing. I'd rather have lost a minor body part than have been with her desu. At least a finger... no problem
>>83640141There's a fair number of men that have BPD, the behaviors/symptoms present differently. The lonely doomer sensitive art fag archetype a lot of men fit into points to male BPD.
>Guy does everything and more to keep a foid happy>Gets dumped or cheated on because respecting women gives them the ickThere's something in birth control that makes women super retarded, selfish, and Machiavellian. There has to be.
>>83640028Men just need to understand that there's more to being desirable than "niceness". Why the hell should we want to be with a boring doormat just because he is "nice"? That's disgusting. You moids are dsgusting and its sad that you are opposed to making any real effort
>>83640028that crt is fucking sexy
>>83640105For most here it already ends at>don't put women on a pedestalBut, they come from a place where something like having some healthy self respect just is not a thing.I wish them all the best, but it sure is tiresome.Male btw.
>>83640028Anna, my queen, my goddess ;-;
>>83640028The thing you have to remember is that 99% of human existence has taken place during the paleolithic era when life was nasty, brutish, and short. Guys who were violent, dominant, and aggressive were the ones who led the tribe, killed the stegosaurus, were the first to get food, etc. Women who mated with these men were more likely to have their children survive to adulthood. Women who mated with the "nice" guy were swept under the rug of evolution.
>be me, ftm tranny>mid looking man in his twenties, receding hairline and all that>STILL get to pop barely legal teenage cherries just because I happen to be trans and take advantage of the novelty effect>only date virgins and/or extremely submissive girlsI know you geezers wish you were me
>>83637837>get to pop barely legal teenage cherriesWith what dick?
>>83639966sometimes i wonder about the troons that seek out places like thislike that one who cam whores her tits on this board and /lgbt/ almost every dayis this elaborate self harm?
>>83638119>no one knows I'm transSo you don't shake hands?
>>83640007>is this elaborate self harm?I interacted with that one. Too bad the thread got 404'd when I replied more honestly.I think that one might be a BPDemon tbdesu. She definitely fits the definition of self-harm in the BPD context. Also could be a troll just using another troon's pics.More broadly, as said here >>83639145 too many troons simply do have more mental disorders than just agp.It's why I can't really disagree with anons like >>83639131 because a lot of troons are like that.What's worse is that a lot of them could get away with it. They're really not ugly and legit do pass most of the time but goddamn it they have millions of brainworms. Nothing will convince them about reality.And the "community" doesn't quite help either. Old(er) troons fuck off from the community so there is no mentorship.I usually get a lot of pushback from troons when I dish out actionable advice that actually fucking works rather than feed brainworms. They are their own worst enemy; far worse than "society" most of the time. That's why troons are so easy to attack.Sure, it doesn't work on me. But I know it works on at least 40% of troons.>/lgbt/That place is a creche. I hate it. Brainworms upon brainworms everywhere and active refusal of any actionable advice that is not "affirming" enough.I wish troons were like the chuds say we are: LARPers who wear a woman costume. Because if we were just that, a lot more troons would be stealth by now and more functional and wealthier.Errr... and that's why I don't like queer spaces.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>83640102has been nice yapping with u frentake care
I got a question editionerowid.org for reports bluelight.org for infopsychonautwiki.org for more info
>>83638980Don't torture yourself, either go to a clinic or start tapering, I'm at a similar situation but with another drug and with less time than 2 months but i'm kinda scared.
>>83637374I took 35x300mg pills once after a week long binge. I'm still here and my brain seems to be in working order.
How come if feels like "drugs" are the only thing worth doing?We all grew up on this anti-drug propaganda and being told we have to be sober all the time...But sobriety is feeling everything in full force. Sobriety is ***not rewarded*** Both emotions and physical feelings. Drugs just allow one to feel what you want. Drugs are ***rewarding*** your body and you existence, so it's not just "feel the pain and misery in full force all the time." The older I get, the more I don't give a shit if people are drug addicts -- but I also think that the bad behaviors the addicts show aren't caused by the drugs but rather the underlying personality. That's where things fuck up. The irresponsible users fuck up everything for the responsible users and then the substance gets taken away from everyone...I just think we should be free to do all the drugs and let the ones who can't handle just filter themselves out. I'm rambling about how we're being told not to do drugs, but MY POINT is how drugs are better than anything else! That's why people do them. It's a better experience. I just want more of those experiences and less of the >"go through some completely shitty sober experience for literally no reward whatsoever in the end because hahahaha humans can't reward good behavior!"
>>83639634Nah gummies would put you on you ass and make you want to sleep and make the concert not enjoyable. Best thing is honestly weed or being drunk.
>>83638821If it works for you, that's fine.
>YOU'RE ALONE BECAUSE YOU HATE WIMMINZ.Meanwhile the women are with guys who beat the shit out of them who have 20 domestic violence convictions who "dominate them" and "make her his bitch". Meanwhile we incels want a girl who bosses us around that we can be servants for. But yeah. We're the ones who "hate wimminz". "B-b-b-but an incel said something misogynistic one time on the Internet". Yeah and can you blame him? Also the "mean things" incels say is not even 1% of what's in your average rap song. And those guys are extremely sexually successful.
>>83638970ALL women think they're a 10 and that tthey deserve CHAD.
>>83639207Have you been living under a rock? How did all of these hugely popular amongst normalfag podcasts that crib off of it become successful?
>>83636317It's like this times ten for black (non-stereotypical) men as well.
>>83638539Actually it isn't.There is no good reason to hate other people. Even if they don't like you for whatever reason you should still show them kindness and fairness.Just because someone hates you that doesn't mean you're automatically justified in hating them.
>>83639945>>83640001Cope. Redpill is dead.You hear more about the blackpill these days.Blackpill is just as toxic, but at least they keep quiet.At least they are respectful in public, unlike the dudebro redpillers
Am I wrong for dating women who are lowkey abusive but hot? Normies say personality this, personality that. But personality doesn't give you huge tits and ass with a pretty face. I feel like the notion of the importance of personality is super hypocritical. I'd rather fuck an abusive junkie woman with huge tits and ass and a pretty face than a mid nice girl
>>83640298> datingBrother, where do you think you are right now???
>don't use ebonics >people can still tell I'm black in vc
>>83639482black people have a different shape in their throat that makes their voice sound different.
>>83639482Yeah black people vibrate a lot when they talk, I don't know how to explain it like when they say "vvv" or "bvvv" it vibrates and buzzes a lot. Especially with the labial consonants (b,v,m). I think it's because they usually have bigger lips or something There also more breath in black people's voices. Very hard to hide almost as hard as a mtf having a feminine voice. Might as well own up to your voice man, much easier than trying to hide it.
>>83639482i don't like black people voices
>>83639547How do I change it bro I want e-white privilege
>>83639501it's not deep, it just sounds gay. we know a buck when we hear one, you zesty
Marriage is just two people under a contract to sleep together
>>83636412Not explicitly, but the lack thereof, or doing it with other partners has all kinds of implications regarding the dissolution of marriage.
>>83639154They arent the same in mechanism thougheverbeit. 1 Corinthians 7 is pretty clear imo. Sex inside a marriage is allowed, yet not mandated unless you feel tempted to fuck others willy nilly. It even specifies that it isnt necessary to have it all the time but that you must not prohibit it all the time if your partner wants it.Im all for sex, really, but it isnt mandated at all. >>83639398That's true usually.
>>83639466the modern world is so goon brained that people can't imagine love without lust
>>83636403It's a relationship like any other, but with the added layer that you need a lawyer to escape.
>>83640037That's why you're supposed to get into it with a lawyer in the first place
I lost my nametag againI fucked up big time at work todayI'm a constant screw up (and likely the biggest screw up) at my job because I'm a retard and I'm sure all my coworkers secretly hate me I think I'm gonna get fired soon
>>83640280OP here I just found my nametag at least but still probably gonna get fired soon
Well everyone secretly hating you is probably a thing that happens so I believe you. It happens to everyone.
I convinced her that she is more than a friend to me even though that it's all that she's ever gonna be to me. At least she's talking to me again.
>>83639169>blown out retard is making threads again
>>83639169What are this kind of shorts called?Do they make em for people with dicks?
>I waste other people's time for selfish reasons