How do you respond without sounding upset?
There have been a lot of trans girls basically going "yeah I became the weird shut-in nerd girl but I actually am only attracted to men" in this thread and I just do not believe any of you.
>>43411487so are you a repper, a chaser whose gf left him for a woman, a groomterf, or what? please explain your motivation for reposting xitterholegoyslop
>>43406927Why do you think getting upset is bad?
>>43411544My ex cheated on me with a pedophile transbian she knew for 2 days. She tried to justify it by downplaying my attraction to her and saying I could easily find someone similar but better but literally every woman I have met who shares a good deal of my interests has been a lesbian, transbian, or coping """bi""" girl who uses me to test their own ability to date men.
>>43411575a repping chaser with "traumagenic" bigotry: many such cases. vacuum up your smegma bucko
I'm a 37 yo gay bottom who was brutalized by twink death. I used to be skinny and soft and smooth as fuck and now I just look like a creature. Only thing I've got going for me is that I've still got all my hair. My question is this, can estrogen actually undo twinkdeath or is that pink piller misinfo?
>>43410785Yeah, I know. Nostalgia is a fascist impulse. But when memories of the past are basically all that's been keeping you alive for the past decade, it's hard to find a new coping mechanism. I figure reminiscing is at least better than alcoholism.
>>43410870no, im an entirely different recently divorced 37 yo gay man who likes jax from tadc. /s
>>43410915my gender isn't really something ive ever taken into consideration. im pretty okay as a guy, just not exactly fond of growing old as one lol. probably a vanity thing more than a gender thing. In an ideal world, I'd be a soft, supple little twink forever. i should probably go to therapy tho.
>>43411081You’re gonna be okay Op, you did the big scary part already and took the plunge. Just focus on dealing with all the little steps it’s going to take you to get from where you are now to a life you can be happy with. Try to be open minded about what that might look like- you could miss out on someone who’d be really good for you now if you chase after what you had when you were younger.Therapy is a good idea too. That’ll probably be more helpful than crowdsourcing advice from knuckleheads on /lgbt/ lol
>>43411081yes go! and talk to your gay neighbors. you need irl support
Why do trannied work for defense contractors?
>>43411198He needed to buy a house for his wife
>>43411197yes. it's hot to imagine the despair in the eyes of innocent brown children as a hypersonic bomber jet kills their entire family in a heartbeat
>>43411437No? I would tell him to quit as well, in fact I’d probably be harsher. I like trans people, I just hate Israel. I have cis friends irl who I criticise for having worked in defence contracting. The irl trans people I know are actually more moral with job choices usually.
>>43411084If you were an autistic male, wouldn't you also use your autistic male brain to make death engines and obsess over high complexity aircraft systems and generally enjoy problem-solving?
Before I transitioned I worked for Blackwater. Second best decision of my life. The shit we've done in south America would have brown posters here blow their brains out. It's incredible how powerful we are.
taking estrogen only confirmed to me that I really am a man deep down, and the more I keep injecting it into my body, the more I yearn to be a cool and suave man
>>43410187so why do you still inject it
For me, I think the subtle intention is the same. But I become a huge depressive degenerate when on HRT for a long time. And my upbeat personality completely dies out and I have nothing to say in social situations.
>>43411129Because I hate myself obviously. I could just kill myself to get this over with quicker, but that wouldn't cause me nor other's enough psychological harm
>>43410707I'm sorry people don't take you seriously. Your environment doesn't sound the most kind
>>43411373thanks its not
When did you see a tranny for the first time? Exclude yourself if you're transgender.
>>43411030You had a gay threesome instead of getting laid with a real woman
>>43404244It was a hon who gave me cypro. After that I met a few other hons and a few passoids, then another hon, and after that I avoided hons altogether(Hons also include twinkhons, which are no different)
it's was that GIF thing, where a guy in a thigh highs have a cock hided in between his legs, so it looks like a vagina or smth, and then cock just shoots out of em thighs.i think thats why im so much of a femboy lol
Street prostitutes with quarterback shoulders, bolt ons, tight dresses and high heelst.brazil
I was about 30 and I saw one on the train. She didn't pass and she seemed very self conscious. I didn't realize passoids were a thing nor did I understand what hormones were about until several years later.I think we need to put a stop to this easy transition meme, it's causing a lot of problems and people should be vetted a lot more carefully before being given these drugs.
casing a place out soon, going to squat it.
Better not be my home, or else I will just kill youGood luck
>>43410241Sweet gl!
ya trannies are squatting on my dick all the time in seattle
>>43410241Really don't recommend. Cold weather west coast bums have been psyopped into becoming the most handout-receptive but also the most casually bloodthirsty people out there.
whats wrong Niles you wanted to talk to me about something?>Frasier it’s the strangest thing, ever since Maris and I got home from Europe I keep finding loose estradiol bottles around the house, they can’t be hers, she keeps them locked up in her medication room
Why is every trans girl on dating apps in a poly or open relationship?
>>43410853>the worth of a relationship is measured solely in it's longevityEven more grimly, to follow that line of reasoning...A potent measure of a relationship's worth, is how much it hurts when it ends.Polycules are an interesting "hippie-free-love" type of scenario.I agree, that they can be fun (to be honest, at any age), but mainly in youth at a time of emotional immaturity. Older people tend to want to settle down, unless they feel like they missed out on promiscuity during a misspent youth.What I don't really like, is the kissing/semi romantic elements though; I feel that can lead to complications. If everyone involved is detached enough, then it can just about work.But often, one or two people start getting emotionally involved, and this whole communistic slutparty gets sour.
>>43410853>Most polycules aren't really trying to last forever. It's about having friends you're close with and inevitably it'll pass because people grow out of itCute but that's not what they said originally when they pushed polyamory down everybody's throats 10 years ago.
>>43411180>theyYour /pol/ is showing nona
>>43410853Seems cope to me. poly relationships are popular because they are easy, take no commitment, and are entirely about self satisfaction.they produce people who are competely incapable of compromise and sacrifice for your life partner(s). Poly people practice and develop habits of going "that's toxic" and leaving whenever things get hard or just never caring at all. Real relationships take work, because people are complicated and have sharp edges and will hurt each other when they open up and become close. Being unable to deal with that in a mature fashion, and actually dedicate yourself to another, is something "I'm just experimenting with poly while I'm young" people never develop and genuinely every single one after 5-10 years is doing it is miserable. As an ace person on the outside of all consuming sexual desire, I genuinely just see awful health outcomes from the poly lifestyle over and over. The only poly relationship I know personally that works is a 3 person rationship that do things COMPETELY differently from the stereotypical slut piles in the OP.
>>43411482>against they pronounsyour mechahitler3000 is showing, alice
>QOTTHow do your diaps look like?>Why 2 threads?Answer here: >>43367823"you don’t create generals with a name or a trip on because otherwise if someone has you filtered they’re unable to see the thread, that’s just how it issince a few weeks "umaruchan" started to rush to create the new thread everytime the old one had hit the bump limit (which we never do, we wait for image/post limit but w/e) with their name and trip onwe asked them several times to not do it, they refused each times, samefagging to defend their action like some anons "want" to have the thread this wayWhich is just not true, so today they tried to "trick" people by first making a cringe chasery thread as "anon" when the old one was at the bump limit and when people said "ew no" they immediately made another thread with their name and trip on, againSo that’s why you're posting on this shitty thread, umaruchan's thread but at least everyone can see it, even the people who had them filtered"old>>43363999
>>43407096mmhmmm :)
>>43406158Put the diaper on :3
>>43407096I'm wearing it for Mommy.
>>43407096mommy*diapies should never be mixed with straightery
>>43411098I dunno, MDLB is pretty based.
Do everything you want forever Editionprevious: >>43137409Goal of the thread: Name a personality trait you value in other people, and a way it manifests in their actions. What could you do that would embody the same trait?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>43405163>wouldn't it be "have sex, volcel"?I mean I guess. I'm just kind of a mentalcel honestly >I hate that people pushed sex onto you.Eh, I mean they tried, both IRL and online. Just too broken tho I think
I would like to clean up tomorrow
>>43409487That's a good idea.
>>43376203im the exact same way. i feel u. i dont know what the hell im supposed to do about it, though. i get these moments of clarity, like right now, where i become aware of the delusions, but i cant figure out how to make any change during the periods of lucidity that doesnt get washed away by the next wave of delusion.
I wish I had a life.
I had pretty bad gender dysphoria from about 17 until 23–24.Got a dog (22)Got a girlfriend (23)Got a job (24)Finished uni after switchingI am now 26 and living a pretty good life as a cis male (do not give in to urges). It will get better and probably for the best. Do not troon out; it will fade away (Thank God I didn't). And if you give in to those feelings, you will be left as a castrated "gynecomast" failed male.
>>43410795No. Though I could easily pass as a Finn lol.
>>43410972Nord?
>>43405104honestly regret not doing the same. I probably would have been fine now but nope i transitioned and now im locked into it forever.
>>43410512I am not the transphobic you think I am, I just became really afraid because an ftm friend killed himself
Also me at 24
Years ago I transsed and changed my name and sex markers and all that bs. I never really passed I just look like a retarded hrtwink. However it seems as I've pretty much fucked my chances at getting a career as no interviewer takes me seriously for any positions for advanced than a McJob. I look uncanny and sound uncanny and I guess my name gives it all away.Do I just kill myself when I inevitably go broke from working $20k/year jobs? I can't seem to get anything that pays better.
>>43407538I also did the same in like 2023? still working there. got decent raises. was def a hon when I first started but now apparently I'm a passoid. I don't see it but eh I'll take it
>>43407538>21>not in college at all, fell for le trades meme and didnt even go through with it at all>it's 100% impossible for me to take this bitch's path because you just know they're only looking for younginswhen a life of shame and misery is guaranteed, rebellion is a virtue.
>>43405345>>43405659I'd almost given up on my last semester of college having applied to so many places but I got a random cold message from a recruiter on LinkedIn and it got me a jobMy life went from piss poor to middle class instantlyNever blackpill
>>43407538oh well i guess ill kill myself
>>43408420>I can't commit to anything>this is somehow happening to me and not my fault at all>waaaaabeing good at school is fembrained fwiw
why do i even take hrt if i don't even care of my body otherwisemy teeth are crooked, my hair is a mess, my skin is breaking out and i'm doing absolutely nothing about any of that despite all of this being easily in my control compared to something like ffs or hrt
>>43411282Dysphoria and depression make it difficult for you to value yourself, let alone practice self-care. It gets easier after transitoning.
>>43411310>It gets easier after transitoning.i am on hrt and i still don't really take care of myself.i've been insecure about my teeth forever and i can finally afford braces and i just haven't botheredi haven't gotten a haircut because i know any cut i would actually want would look bad on my male head shape
>>43411282stop caring about these things and they will become 10000000000000000000000000x easierthis is the only answer
>>43411450what does that even mean
How did you break out of the re- and detrans loop? i am a 19 year old male on hrt now who is severely mentally ill although nobody knows since i act normal on the outside. i keep detransing and retransing. i have been dealing with this for 3 years now, and it makes me want to kms. i started hrt a year ago, and i was on it constantly for 9 months, but after that i have been hopping off and on. anyone who has dealed with this? i feel hopeless, and i feel like death is the only way out.
>>43411254im 30 lmk when you figure it out cause i wish i knew
>>43411356fucking bleak bro
I hate being a gay bottom so fucking much. I was raised by conservative Christians in rural texas so yeah, this is gonna be like, 99% internalized homophobia, but I need to scream into the void.It's fucking humiliating to enjoy sex with a man. All I can think while being fucked is how fucking pathetic I am for enjoying it. I shouldn't want this. I should be normal. I should want the normal things a man wants. I should want to be dominant, and strong, and masculine. But I don't. I used to be muscular, and I fucking hated it so I became a twink.I've tried being a top, fucking hated using my dick, so i quit. I tried being with more fem guys and being a powerbottom. None of it compared to being bent over by a bear, put in a headlock, and fucking demolished. I've never felt safer, or more at peace then when being held in the embrace of a strong man. I wish I was a normal straight guy, or failing that, at least a gay top. Being a bottom is the fucking worst, because it doesn't just make you weak, it makes you crave weakness. In every other aspect of my day to day life, I fucking loathe being seen as weak, or pathetic, or unmanly to the very core of my being.But when I'm alone with a guy, all I can think about is him overpowering me and fucking me senseless as I beg for a mercy that will not come. Whenever I have sex, I can fucking feel all my ingrained values and self perceptions crumble to dust as my lizard brain just curb stomps it and replaces all higher thought with a white board that just says "cock" on it. God I wish conversion therapy worked.
>>43410780internalized homophobia is what my therapist says. But knowing why I feel the way I do doesn't undo it. I'd love to just stop being ashamed, but I can't. my brain is too cooked from being raised by psychos that believe in shit like chastity pledges and purity balls and all that weird shit. even after ive been away from them for years, their stupid ass beliefs linger in my brain.
>>43406104Have you considered transition? If you can pass, you can get a straight man
it's okay to be gay anon
>>43411125tell that to my fuckass brain
>>43411013>I can'tStop saying that. Faking it is making it.
Hope everyone is doing well. Make sure to eat, drink plenty of water, and find some time to step outside and get some fresh air. Smile if you haven't! You woke up this morning! That's a gift! It's easy to get distracted by what we think we need. Your lungs, your beating heart are a gift. Your eyes, your mouth that allows you to taste your favorite food is a gift. It's all about perspective.To the people who were hurt by someone they love and never got the closure they wanted. I'm sorry. It's not your fault and no. You did not deserve it. If no one else has told you how important you are. Well..anons. You are important. You DO matter. I AM happy that you're still here with us. Alright! I love you and I want you to have a great day! xxx
>>43411309angelMWAH
>>43411309very pretty art.. so cuteee.. thank u for posting positivity
>>43411328Of course you are! >>43411338You're so very welcome and I will thanks! <3>>43411343Thank you ^-^ <3>>43411355Of course! <33
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>>43411451OMG I LOVE VASHTI BUNYAN! THANK YOU SO MUCH ANONYOU HAVE IMMACULATE TASTE ILYSM <33My favorite track from this album specifically is Rainbow River.
