Do trans women that are submissive to men, abide by traditional gender roles and just generally act, dress and do things however men want have a negative impact on cis women?
>>42863609you can troon out without dysphoria as an incel, normal incel would do school shooting or rope, you are just a trannyand should not bother if you are a man with a fetish or something
>>42863624>You are just a maleYes.>with a fetishNo, unfortunately. I wish I were more fetishistic unironically.>has no genetic need to do what you doYes, and?Do gymgirls who poon out without top surgery have a genetic need to do what they do?Also, there really is no definitive evidence that trooning is a genetic condition. Maybe it is, but we just don't know. And if it were to be the case, why does that need to be a pre-condition?Do you feel the same about people who take Ozempic without having diabetes?
>>42863646>you can troon out without dysphoria as an incelI know. I did exactly that.>normal incel would do school shooting I'm European. We just don't do that here.>or ropeI considered that about 3 seconds before ordering girljuice. I want to live.>you are just a trannychemically and surgically, yes. Psychiatrically (?!) not really. Never had dysphoria.>and should not bother if you are a man with a fetish or somethingIt bothers me that I don't have a fetish, lol.I just find these sub-labels interesting. Of course I generally don't bother. I'm 8yrs in and have srs consult scheduled. But it's shit like this why I also don't socialize with trannies.
>>42863650>Do gymgirls who poon out without top surgery have a genetic need to do what they do?They are not trans>Also, there really is no definitive evidence that trooning is a genetic condition.Yes there is. Gender dysphoria manifests in young transsexual children at very young age>And if it were to be the case, why does that need to be a pre-condition?You cannot co-op other peoples crippling conditions as your own if you do not have it
>>42862341i just want to be a man's loving wife and live happily ever after, why is everyone so mean?
I get irrationally angry, indignant, and self-righteous at people self describing as "fem" when they have visible face and/or body hair. And every time I react this way I feel guilty about it.How do I fix this. I hate to be a gender karen but some things are beyond the pale.
>>42862611but I'd rather men pick me
>>42859934>irrationally angry, indignant, and self-righteousmoid trait
>>42859934Step 1: Breathe in, breathe out, and remember their retardation doesn't change who you are. Step 2: Realize this isn't a trans thing. Nobody likes people who don't put effort into their appearance. Talk to cis women about this, and you'll find everyone who puts time, money and effort into looking their best can't stand the presence of people who expect the same treatment for zero money, time or effort. The fat ugly lumps of society are shit on our boots. That's not talking about the people who have eating disorders or who are mentally ill or who are doing their best by just can't seem to get there, we're talking here about the people who have nothing fucking wrong with them except they refuse to eat properly or book an appointment with a laser clinic. And it is SOOOO easy to tell the difference.
>>42860465I'm glad you can read, thank you for the eloquent first post in which you read the dictionary and then repeated what I already said, but in a more angry, irrational tone. We must be related.
>>42862603Yeah I don't mean visible as in stubble they can't eradicate, I mean they've got a full Andrew Tate beard and bright lipstick and eye makeup
got tied up by a poly transbian tonight and it was pretty good. she made me feel so pretty and desired. she dropped me off and now I don't know how to feel...I hooked up with a tripfag a bit ago and I don't even feel the same level of emotions right now.
To troons who lived as gigahomos before transition: how much did estrogen change your sex drive? Are you still directly aroused by male physical features in an object oriented way, or did your sexuality become more relational and self-focused where the mans presence is more about filling a narrative about your own femininity and desirability?
>>42863181>Are you still directly aroused by male physical features in an object oriented way, or did your sexuality become more relational and self-focused where the mans presence is more about filling a narrative about your own femininity and desirability?A bit of both tbhon. The way to turn me on is more situational/contextual now (especially after srs) than about physical stimulation. But then it's also about his physical features in an object way once we get on to business.I didn't live as gigahomo before transition but as a straight man.
>>42863414That’s not what AGP is, hon
>>42863711its close enough, im not pedantic.
>>42863670>i didnt live as a gigahomo but as a straight mantrying to not be offensive but then why do you answer? im trying to ask a specific demographic here.
>>42863746>why do you answer?Because it ultimately doesn't matter. Male pattern attraction works the same for homos and straggots.Also, this is the mongolian basket weaving forum. Go ahead and be offensive but also don't expect to get everything you want the way you want it. I could've partially lied to you and said I lived as a homo (I did have a gay coping phase after all).
As a transgirl what gets you like this? For me its reading obscure blogposts from women writing about growing up as a girl and being happy
Getting passionately railed on my piano in a certain 90s John galliano gown, after returning home grumpy due to an overstimulating formal social event.
>>42862948very noir
>>42862453men taller than me who actually want me and are nice to menone exist tho sadly :(
>>42862453age gap yaoi and slow burn shota-centric fanfics
>>42862453Ew, this is disgusting and you’re filth for indulging. masturbation is a waste, but if you need to get some other worldly energy, get a glass dildo, fill it with warm distilled water, copper, and quartz now ride it in the circle, prayer position slow breathing, begin the middle pillar exercise; now if you stop mid way (do not get to climax that isn’t the point) hold your breath and reach Theta gamma state you can feel your spine, just NEVER EVER RELEASE, CUT OFF YOUR TESTICLES AND FIND GOD IN YOUR SPINE
>boyfriend told me that he will reveal to his parents that im trans after they've known me for a couple of years because he's convinced that they'll love me so much that they won't get upset about it when they ultimately find outis this a good idea? i feel like its not a good idea...
>>42863651>is this a good idea?Yes.It also buys both of you time.I only revealed to my mother in law about one year into the marriage. My father in law still doesn't know.>>42863658You don't have a gigapassoid (I'm certainly not). You just need to pass as a mid woman. The bar is much lower than this site makes it be (although higher than hugboxxing places claim).
>>42863651iunno... I would be worried what if after a breakup they use it against u...would that be a problem? could u just move away?what it u don't break up but they tell others cos u know how that goes and suddenly random ppl know???
>>42863658idk i feel weird saying that im a passoid but i met his parents a few months ago and have seen them several times since and they think im a cis woman. >>42863691>I only revealed to my mother in law about one year into the marriage. My father in law still doesn't know.wow
I HATE BEING AN UGLY HONI HATE BEING AN UGLY HONI HATE BEING AN UGLY HONI HATE BEING AN UGLY HON
>>42863651His parents are going to shoot you dead, sis.
fem amab (follows gender roles like a good girl) +masc amab (follows gender roles like a good boy)=f u l l yheterosexual
>>42863004>talk like females doYeah just like all those females that will autism dump about Rust programming projectsor bellow,"IT'S MA'AM", very femaleishly
>>42863385t. jealous hon who refuses to voice train
>>42862732Why are zoomers so fixated on gender roles? Feels like y'all have been losing brain cells.
>>42863440gender roles are everything
>>42862732only if she's a srsoid.
How are things going at work/school? Do you get along well with your colleagues? Are there any prejudiced assholes who bother you? Do you feel safe in that environment?
>>42863660how do people figure it out?
>>42863567my job is okay, my coworkers like me and give me rides home sometimes cause I can't drive unless they're guys, all the guys mostly ignore me which im ok with
>>42863663I’m a guy. On paper, could I give you a ride home and then you have diarrhea in my passenger seat and let me keep it?
>>42863677no.
>>42863662Someone from my past, usually. People are mean. Before the mid Obama years, background checks would out me. My ex husband had me outed by a federal investigator during his security clearance renewal one time.But it's usually someone from my past who recognize me. I have a pretty unique last name.
Self Editionprev: >>42721843 (died prematurely) >>42507557Goal of the thread: Get up. Extend your left arm, stretching it, and hold. Curl a first, and then proceed to extend each finger, one at a time. Feel your fingertips.Repeat with your right. Stretch your legs, one at a time. Straighten your back. Breathe; 4s in, 4s hold, 4s out, 4s hold. Repeat. Sit down. How do you feel?>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceGeneric advice won't necessarily help you in particular, but for those it does it is an essential foundation to build future progress on, not a miracle cure. Do not underestimate the effects subtle changes to your lifestyle can have. Try first, keep us posted on your progress, build from there.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42859733I love pineapple curry sauce with herring
>>42859733Looks nice.
>>42837196Tried an equivalent weight that had a somewhat less harsh grip (bigger and softer) and it didn't seem to strain me as much or require as tight a grip; maybe that's the solution
I need to get some aspirin.
>>42863273Headache?
>31 inch underbustHow over is it for me?
my 30.5 in ub is preddddy brootal
>>42863392you can cry when it's over 40 inches
>>42863392mine is 32 and its solidly over for me so take that as you will
>>42863392Depends on height and hips tbhon. if you are pretty tall (5'9+) and you have hips, it's gonna look proportional
I wish I could be a pooner with a penis, so I had an excuse to chase trans women>t.op chaser
if you guys got a future bf would you care if he watched porni dont think id mind, but id still want him to love me as a person but not an object, is this a possible thing?
>>42863557>isnt that a bit misogynistic, theyre not an objectJust for sexual activities
>>42863582there's always a mature put-together srsoid to deliver a truthnuke
i think its gross and pathetic but im asexual so im a weirdo who would never have a bf
>>42863589Thank you. To be fair, this is partially a maturity issue but also partially a socialization issue.Too many young trannies have a lot more in common with their cis peers, which is that they're terminally shut ins and very brainwormed about how the real world functions.The excessive proliferation of extreme ideologies and algorithmic enshitification also doesn't help. It's astonishing how many outright falsehoods people believe these days about mundane non-political things.Le sad, ig.
>>42863535Hot I want the same thingt. Chaser
Does my arm pass as male?
>>42862936Well, obviously I don't wanna be called male lmao. Else I wouldn't be transitioning.
>>42862920you're very sweet. thank you. i hope we both stop one day lol.
>>42857222people only started to call you male when you said that you were actually mtf. That means you DO pass as a girl. Lmao.
>>42857222No, since a man doesn't do performative cutting. A man does it seriously and goes out the most painful way possible. Men are better than woman at everything, including at taking their own life (women are more likely to attempt it, but more men are successful at it).
>>42862883hopelessly desperate for attention
>Be me 21yo(3y hrt) tranny>Have 20yo bf move in with me>Starts cooking for me and going to the store for me and pampering me a bit>start eating bigger meals consistently every day without leaving the house much>up 30ish pounds in 5 months>he seems to not mind since he’s been groping me and we’ve been having sex more often>feel embarrassed and apologize for the weight gain>he reassures me its a little bit of relationship weight and that its helping me “fill out my figure”>still feel a bit self conscious Is this normal? I mean I was a bit underweight when he moved in but i feel like I’m ballooning up in his presence
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I can now grope my boobs to calm myself down whenever I'm dysphoric. Thank you boobs
>>42863507Alright thank you for the advice nona i hope you have good night or morning
>>42863416the best time to start hrt is always going to be yesterday, you need to start it now if its what you want nona
>>42863538I’m a straight guy but you are welcome
>>42863604You're entitled to hit once that repper is a few years in as a pre-order bonus
>>42863612the entire reason I’m an ally ;)))
