every single time i put any effort in trying to build a bond with people, they all flake on me. i'm 25, is it possible for me to still find someone who will like to spend every day with me? i feel like i wasted every day of my life with people who don't care about my well being. i have a job and am fairly well adjusted so i'm not sure if it's because of me.
>>41519230serious question: are you ugly? do you have strangers compliment or approach you?
>>41519519i send people my picture and they say im pretty and people who have seen me on video said that. i met up with someone from here and she said i wasnt ugly
>>41519594Is your personality beautiful?
>>41519594if it's not how you look, do you think you could just be boring? ive been doing the same kinda reflection since i have a similar issue. you have to wonder what the consistent factor is and acknowledge that it could be something about you, in your control or not.also where in va r u?
>>41519608not sure. most recent girl i talked to said i was high energy. >>41519641im not sure im boring im into many things usually the other person is boring. i live in richmond
imagine looking like a woman, it must be so beautiful...
The annoying thing about being AGP is that everyone thinks you're allohet and tries to push you into pursuing romantic relationships with women, and you can't correct them without needed to explain what AGP actually is (it doesn't help that AGP is a politically incorrect term either).
>>41519351Thank, anon. I hope you can be happy too.
>>41519416>The annoying thing about being AGP is that everyone thinks you're allohet and tries to push you into pursuing romantic relationships with womenCan you explain? I don't get it. Everyone who knows you're AGP wants you to pursue women?> it doesn't help that AGP is a politically incorrect term eitherSay thank you to the trans ideology.
>>41519517>Can you explain? I don't get it. Everyone who knows you're AGP wants you to pursue women?No, nobody knows I'm AGP, how could I explain it? So they assume I'm allohet and try to push me to pursue relationships with women, its not their fault, its mine, but I don't think I can bear to explain it, its too risky.>Say thank you to the trans ideology.I know right? Suppression of a sexual minority to protect the self images of a bunch of narcissists. A total betrayal of the purpose of the LGBT movement.
>>41519549>No, nobody knows I'm AGP, how could I explain it?Same...my family is conservative. Nobody knows but my therapist.But someday it will change. I will find the strength > I know right? Suppression of a sexual minority to protect the self images of a bunch of narcissists. A total betrayal of the purpose of the LGBT movementI'm praying they will find the light and move from that hateful ideology
boymoders, would you let me dress you up all nice and pretty?
>>41519238europe...
>>41519235awww we could teach you that darling>>41519256hmm. i think you would be able to be dealt with. we can definitely find something that'll work for you
>>41519093Ya I like it when someone else picks out my clothes for me. Someone else being in control makes me feel safer
Love the idea of putting makeup and cute clothes on my boymoder before some vigorous boyremoval
>>41519093I let my friend do this once and I get very upset because I looked in mirror and made her take my makeup off
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Do trans men not use discord to connect with other trans people, or do they self-segregate to trans masc servers? I never see them there
>>41518005I'd like to find other transsexuals on Discord, but I am unsure where to look. Perchance someone could send a nice server in this thread?
>>41518005what do you intend to do to them?
>>41518005As we get older we stop visiting groups or communities, which become smaller and smaller until you have some close friends, a pet, a partner, or maybe a demanding job. The other option is personality disorders/mental illness, and performative vs authentic masculinity and policing who is allowed to do what breaks groups apart, and often discourages consistent group formation.
>>41519138>I'd like to find other humans on Earth's worldwide web, but I am unsure where to look. Perchance someone could send a gleeby signal to my brain chip?
QOTT: Why did you let the thread die?>Reminder: This gen is for cis homosexual females (lesbians). All trans-related or bisexual posts are considered off-topic and should be directed to other generals or threads. No discussion of male (XY) anatomy.OG Discord: https://pastebin.com/P644WESiclg2 Discord: https://pastebin.com/1ct1Fcagclg3 Discord: https://pastebin.com/emrpgWM8NO SCROTESNO GOOKSNO CONS*RVATIVESPrevious thread:>>41338959
>>41519146...idk...
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>>41519072>Gays and lesbians for example are responsible for fewer than 1% of SA against children according to studies done by the Denver Children’s Hospital.Not that anon, but what about per capita figures and the actual rate for lesbos? I think you're being misleading by ignoring how many more straight couples there are.
>>41513969nobody cares because they are women
Real question. I have a lesbian cousin and once we were having a late night talk and she told me she would never date a bisexual woman, without exceptions. I asked her why, and she replied that she "could never compete with a man." Is this feeling common among lesbians, from your experience? Maybe you yourself don't feel that way, but have encountered other girls who do.
The prefix "inter" implies being between sexes, but intersex individuals are still either male or female, they just have some atypical development thrown in the mix.Intellectual dishonesty is prevalent in the movement, and it's ruining everything.Stop lying and obfuscating to get what you want.
>>41519281>I'd argue it's a bit arbitrary for anyone who can't reproduceAnd you'd be wrong. The function of teeth is to chew food, whether you only eat soup or not. A person with an intersex condition is like someone who got their teeth knocked out.Evolution shaped our bodies to preform reproduction, whether you reproduce or not is arbitrary. We're built for it. A female body is distinct from a male body because the selective pressures on female bodies is very different than the selective pressures on a male bodies.It's simple, no need to tie yourself in knots about it. All sexually reproducing species come in two distinct forms, male and female. You know this.
>>41519307>seethinghmseems like it hit the spot kek>>41519075Well yeah, if you group people based off arbitrary and incomprehensible metrics that are basically "uh i think they should be there" vibes you can group people, shockerIt's the same principle that allows me to group all food as either a sandwich or a soup, doesn't make that grouping functional or correct
>>41519383>secondary sex characteristics are irrelevant>except when I say they areYou're talking in circles.
>>41519535>seethingIt's a little annoying when we're in the middle of a discussion and someone starts telling me my shoe size and what I had for breakfast yesterday, despite not knowing me from Adam.>arbitrary and incomprehensible metricsWhat is arbitrary and incomprehensible about the categories of male and female? These are very distinct and definable categories.
>>41519584You'll have to walk me through your reasoning there. Who's talking about secondary sex characteristics? If a person is female their entire organism is female. Mind, body, all of it. All of it shaped by the life trajectory distinct to being female.
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>>41516904I'm glad you understand.
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god for how long has this shit thread been on here who is the retard that keeps bumping this shit
>>41519556>implying that it is one retardWe are a group of extremely autistic losers waiting for our Adrian mershota werewolf bf
Halloween II.5 Edition: Back from the dead (director's cut)previous: >>41307921 >>41475843 Goal of the thread: TREAT yourself to something nice, be it a meal, a hot bath, or something else you'd enjoy doing.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>41510971>This may sound offensive, but I'm genuinely curious. How do you do it, and how do you feel after?I mean, depends on the day. Just be tolerant of yourself. Like /sig/ anon was saying to me, sometimes you just have to give yourself a pass. You could also trick yourself into doing little tasks that are not mentally cumbersome and you can pipeline/parallelize with being indulgent, e.g. waiting for laundry while reading or listening to something, cleaning your room while you play music, etc. to give yourself a modicum of a sense of accomplishment. I guess outside of the weekend, it's also important to stop and smell the roses. I commute frequently, and some of my happiest ordinary moments are just how beautiful my drive through the mountains are. Some pretty flowers are a sight to behold, a cute dog being walked is a little motivation, and thinking about those people who are important to you gives you the will to see it all through. It feels good to be alive: when the weekend comes and you get to grab a drink with some friends or family; the way the stars shine on a dark night; and the taste of a filling and healthy meal. Relish the little things. Productivity is certainly not everything in life. A friend once said to me at a bar, "When you took a sip of that beer, you looked so relaxed and happy, like that's all there is in life."After I don't always feel the best, I'm very much a person who always has to have some sort of project I'm working on, or some new interest to study.>how do you detect a situation where you need to ground yourselfFor me, it's when I'm angry, judgemental, and sad toward myself or toward others. Are your teeth clenched? Are your shoulders stiff? Breathe. Don't invalidate your feelings entirely, but push yourself to look from a more detached or neutral perspective at the situation that's making you emotional. Pay attention to your body and the environment around you.
>>41516826And what's your problem with this?Venting and blogposting for some is the first step to get better.People usually have no one to talk to.And in a certain Japanese underwater basket weaving forum, they feel held. Go figure.>>41517954Finally got on normal amount of E after legit care was outlawed by jailing the only doctor who did it in my country.Lost 8 kg in 5 months (yes, that's not progress. But still. VASTLY better than gaining weight despite trying to eat less and move more)I'm less depressed, and haven't had any flashbacks in weeks.And I've left unsafe places.While working, and keeping my job.So... Maybe I also had progress in self improvement here, despite the only thing I do is vent and blogpost, and shitpost on disc? Idk.
>>41514856Proud of you, Anon.
>41452134Thank you so much for the techniques you shared with me.These helped me with my traveling so very much.
>>41519601>>41452134
any other nb ppl here who went thru the whole trooning arc then sort of stopped trying to present as fem while still taking hrt and felt a lot happier because of it? Do u consider it cope or no? I feel like I just genuinely might be non binary and that the whole trans thing was me just trying to fit in. I have less people close to me who I can relate to now but it's a lot more comfortable being in my own skin
>>41519496how so?
>>41519495Can i hear it please
>>41519501Just take a look any time anyone here tries to make a thread about it.
>>41518529my only real priority is medically transitioning and looking androgynous to other people. i dont think saying im nb is fully a cope, but i do think if i looked better to start, maybe id feel differently about calling myself a binary trans woman instead of just an nb.
>>41519524Yeah I mean here is different but irl I don't get any backlash, but it also mostly doesn't come up because German doesn't have they/them, just it/its and I'd rather not fw that so I just go by he/him.>>41519515Nö :P
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>>41518963in between, leaning towards sexy milf. she used be very pretty in her youth but is a 6.5/10 now
>>41518963the only thing that really makes her look worse now is that she's overweight. up until her early 30s she was skinny (with moderately big boobs and hourglass figure)
>>41518676I only have 3 female friends and one is my gf.>Gf (t4t)Yes>Friend 1 (theyfab)Yes>Friend 2 (married cis woman)No, she is not attractive to me. I did date her briefly in high school because there weren't many options. She's about five feet tall, built like a twig, and has the face of a Jewish child.
>>41519373>>41519399Are you locked in a tower, by chance?
>>41519470?
Halloween edition>QOTT: What are you doing for Halloween? What costume will you wear?Previous thread: >>41467682
please post my posts on redditthe world needs to know that im a fat ugly retard
Trannyge are comfy I've been playing a lot of them lately. It's comforting to know there are so many people as depressed and lonely as I am.
HOW LONG DO I HAVE TO SUFFER UNTIL I BECOME ANIME GIRL
Why do I even want to be a woman? It makes no sense, and I really shouldn't care to begin with
even reddit is getting in on the eternal "is it hrtrepping or manmoding" debate, good work team>i don't understand how these people can spend every waking moment of their lives at war with themselvesit's not that bad and if it was i would've transitioned
just get a bf already! You will be happy!
>>41519313>there's an oddly high number of people here really opposed to srslol guilty, fair though
>>41519324i think for most women here theyre kinda 50/50 on whether they want srs and ultimately if they met someone whom they actually felt loved with i feel like it wouldnt be as wanted, but its like an instant turn off when you meet a guy and he immediately says what his opinion is on that. i would like to be loved as a person not an asshole and cock LMFAO
>>41519305tried that didnt work
>>41519500You just didn't find the right one
>>41519500Keep trying until it works. Meeting people is extreme RNG, you and the perfect someone could both browse but just not at the same time in the same thread.
I don't understand why you are single.You could have a boyfriend. You could take walks with him. You could go on a date with him. You could wake up beside him. You could hug him and love him and feel safe and warm.But you chose not to have a bf. Why? It's so much better when you aren't lonely.
>>41515889mine broke up with me i want a bf really badly
>>41516013>>41516212>>41516566where are you from?
>>41517935shut up
>>41515889like 99% of people are annoying faggots and being around them is worse than being alone
>>41515889They either can't plan a date, don't hold conversations, can't clean up after themselves, or penis too small for me to enjoy sexo so there's no point
Why do trans women like to ruin men and make them transition? What causes this?
>>41519087agp rapehons are a century old and conservartards think all this is new
>>41519087this reads like stuff DFW's editor made him cut out of Infinite Jest
>>41519176It's gibidi
>>41519176its fiction, you tard
>>41519179Oh wow high praise desu. I wrote this basically imagining what H.L. Mencken would have written if he saw /tttt/
