27 years old and look 50. NEET. Virgin. No friends. My discord friend group all got lives and I've been alone for the past 3 years. Ugly. Fat. 5'8. I log into my discord account everyday reading messages from 2023 reminiscing about when they were all around. I want to cry.
I am female and I would date you if you weren't overweight. I am sorry really don't mean to hurt your feelings by saying that
>>34036898just fuck my shit up family
>>34036898>>34036898you aren't a fundamentlly ugly person, youre posture is probably pretty bad and if you got in shape you could get to a 5'9 or maybe even almost 5'10 with fixed posture (one day)the real issue isn't your physicality though, you have to fix your mind. I'm willing to be you have some childhood trauma or mental disorder (probably both) and that will take some heavy lifting. Luckily, you still have time. 27 is not the peak male years, the 30s are. You could be totally different in 5 years.Your skin can youngen significantly under the care of a good naturopath and adequate diet and sleep.Phase I: fix your mind. Give yourself 1-3 years.. Do therapy, mens mental health groups if you can find them, go outside and do something at least 5 times a week, even if its just going to the library, or running out to grab a coffee somewhere. You need something to anchor yourself to the real world, maybe volunteer somewherephase II: Fix health, find employmentStart maybe after a yearThis is when you kick your bad habits, control screen time with apps that limit them, take on more productive hobbies seriously (musical instruments, art, creative endeavours)Phase III: Health and socialComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34037127LOL do you think Asian women are stupid??? Asian women have high standards stop setting the man up for failure…
>>34036898Okay, as a woman, my advice is you need to sleep more to fix eye bags; also, skincare helps too . You can go to the gym, work on your mental health, and your personality too . Dress well; some women love when a man dresses well . Grow your hair out and then get a haircut that will fit you. Be nice and have respect; it's very important . I've seen men who focus on looks only with a shitty personality-yuck. You have pretty eyes, so just work on yourself slowly, step by step . Don't give up; you got this! Clean up your environment, find new hobbies, and don't be toxic. Good luck , Anon!:D
For a long time, I had a romantic relationship with someone who is now my ex. We broke up because he wanted to, but at the same time he doesn’t want to let me go. I tried to be kind to him, but I always end up getting hurt. I believed and trusted him because we met at church, but he is terribly mean. However, he knows that if his eyes get red or if he cries, my heart softens. The last time he did that, I felt a deep cold running through my body. His tantrums don’t affect me anymore. If he needs help, I help him, but I don’t trust him. I am a woman.
My bladder full of pee
get punched idiot! HIYAH!
Why is it that the straightest/most disciplined guys so often seem the gayest/least ambitious?I have one friend with zero muscles, photography as a hobby and he talks to more women than I do, another one who likes cat memes on instagram and plays video games on steam 24/7 and he has a girlfriend and actually knows how to study, another one who unironically watches anime and he has a management position at a car factory already, another one who gets himself involuntarily cucked on a regular basis and still has had more sex with hot women than me...I'm an underachiever compared to them and even though I also have friends who are regular chads, I'm really more mad at the fact that there are guys who use discord and anime profile pictures who are better at "getting after it" than I am
>>34037524>straightest/most disciplined guys so often seem the gayest/least ambitiousMakes no fucking senseStraightest guys seem the gayest? What?Most disciplined guys seem the least ambitious? Why don't we look at your examples then>zero muscles>photography as a hobby>talks to more women than youSo he does better with women despite being "girlier" than you>likes cat memes on instagramComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34039585I have already gotten more from this thread than I could have asked for but I have to reply to this.Nothing makes me as mad as this idea that I should just have fun.If I'm honest it might be a sunken cost thing.But I don't know how to have fun.If I started trying to have fun today I would>Play vidya>Watch anime>Learn JapaneseDoing these things in the past has gotten me absolutely nowhere.I'm tired of being nowhere.I know I'm depressed but the idea that """fun""" will lift me out of this shit is my ultimate pet peeve.And of course I envy people who have fun.But really I envy them more for having managed to put in the hard work that I avoid.
>>34040585Balance itI'm just saig. That you might as well have fun if the having no fun option is getting you nowhere anyway. But if you think you can get somewegrre ewith something then do it
>>34041085Damn. I was already imagining what your reply might be and getting mad at you. I was about to call you mediocre and accuse you of trying to pull me down with you.But I can't get mad at you for genuinely trying to help me.I have turned 24 years old since I made this screencap. Only now am I realizing that I have this energy.I have to stop putting it into the wrong things.
>>340375241 your persona should be easygoing or you’re going to alienate people, an ambitious person is MORE likely to develop this2 actually being chill internally or emotionally leads to more success than being intense3 people who are winning already have more to be happy about, more earned confidence, and more excess which allows for more relaxation
Women like me, talk to me, even go out with me (even women above my league), but never in a romantic way. I think it's because I'm too nice, safe, and non-threatening.How do I change my vibe so they know I mean business?
>>34040721That doesn't automatically mean he's ugly.
>>34040452At least give yourself a pat on the back for talking to women and going out with them, that’s something that 99% of men here seem to fail at. But somewhere in your interactions you are failing to get to the next level. i don’t think being too nice is the reason, but rather you are not catching their attention/interest in the moment it matters most. Don’t be an asshole, but try being more assertive, lead them along in the date and try pursuing what you want (romance) without being pushy.
>>34040452>How do I stop being a nice guy?You get on your knees and suck my big fat cock.
>>34040452i wish nice moids were real
>>34040712>>34040974I am ugly. No biggie. The question is how to be more direct so that women tell me to fuck off rather than waste my time.
19/FI can't feel anything sexually . I find sexual stuff revolting . I first watched porn at 11 because everyone was talking about it, and I wanted to see what's up. I started with human porn; it was disgusting for me. Then I heard about hentai, and that was also disgusting for me. A couple of years later, at 13, I tried again, and it's just strange for me-just people having sex . I don't like the idea of my mouth touching a man's penis or a man's lips being between my legs . I had my first boyfriend last year; he didn't take my virginity because I was SA at 7. Anyway, we had sex, but he told me that he doesn't see the desire in my eyes . I did feel love for him, of course; I have this happy, comforting feeling around him, and every time I looked at him, it felt like sparkles were all over him. I met him here , and he met my mom because she's strict, but she ended up loving him. I feel bad because I wish I did more; he said I should watch porn. I did, and I felt even more disgusted. I always think about the cuddling part of a relationship, but the sexual part makes me feel off. Kissing is good, but further feels weird to me. My ex did bring me vibrators; I tried, but I gave up, so that was my first time masturbating, if you call it that. I don't like to think about my childhood trauma; I tried to avoid that part of my life.
>>34040773I really appreciate this very much…i was thinking about not posting it here but i still end up doing it,i was scared cause alot of thread here are sexual snd it freak me out.I was thinking if something was wrong with me for not liking sexual stuff,i do have sexual trauma but I never thought of it to be the causes of my disliking for sex..
>>34040192I feel ya,but it is a big deal even if you’re a man,sexual assault happens to both genders..ps hugs
>>34040158I always prefer the cuddling part and holding hands part unfortunately my ex didn’t like holding hands with me..
>>34041962>not liking holding handsHis loss, you dodged a bullet
>>34040773>>34041945Asexuality is a meme. Just because sex makes you feel uncomfortable doesn’t mean that you’re “””asexual”””
Trying to keep this one shortI kinda wasted my teenage years. No memories, no parties, no anything. Never had a teenage rebel phase because of abusive stepfather,No friend group either, probably the main reason why I missed out on all of this. All my friends have better friends who they rather spend time with.Always the weird kid. Probably undiagnosed autism, or maybe I'm just weird.Kinda also fucked over by circumstances. Pretty much always the wrong man, at the wrong place. So what now? I have no memories to look back on. Never got to be a "semi-adult" without worries.I never got to be a teenager and it kinda kills me. People always say the 20s will be it but I have no time for it. I want to leave my stepfathers household and in order to this I've got to work, sustain myself. No time for socializing. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34039147>>I just woke up one day and realized I'm a >>total loser.A sober awareness and assessment of your current condition is important. This is the first step towards correcting the situation. There is a window of opportunity in front of you. It depends on you which choice to make, which way to go. In addition, not all girls are successful, there are girls who lack a husband as a man support.
If you're asking >is it over.It's over. All the meme text you posted or the meme advice you'll get does not matter. The seeds of self-doubt have already poisoned your mind. People can overcome injury, abuse, and many other struggles, but only when they genuinely believe in themselves and their goals.
>>34039147>I've got to work, sustain myself. No time for socializing.Brother you're not working 80 hours a week and even if you were you can still socialize with co-workers.People are always posting the "I can't socialize because I have studies and/or work" cope.
>>34039182>In fact the twenties is arguably the worst decade you will ever experience in your entire life. It's right at the part where your brain hits 25 and it stops growing, stops maturing. All your cards in your deck are revealed to youA 25 year old wrote this.He probably writes in other threads about how he would never date 22 year olds because they're immature children in different life stages.
>>34041549>I thought that was the prerequisite?If I want to avoid daily fights with my stepfather, I rather keep a low profile.
I have adhd and an anxiety disorder, which basically made lesson really fucking hard for me, including studying. But I still managed to study and pass my classes.Nowadays with meds, I barely give a shit enough to study, and the classes that I do pass is because it's online or because the professors are lax on grading. I don't have a drive, nor do I feel any sort of panic, just a dull obligationI did the same in the past, but I still managed to pass, despite studying then walking in circles for 45 minutes. Why am I regressing? The ADHD meds help me act like a normie and the anxiety meds keep me calm. And I don't want to waste more money failing a class just to "test" it and I already saw a psychiatrist who didn't know jack shit so I don't want to waste money on one again.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
note to self: she's probably thinking,>I wish he would talk to me and ask me out and for my number. I wish I could do it first but I'm a girl and too shy to approach... if only he'd say something to me we could be happy...so DO IT ANON, fuck! don't know what you're hoping will happen! you do nothing, you get nothing! say hi, ask for the number, be happy, gogogogogo
>>34039442Fucking woman playing with your emotions anon, don't have advies but stay strong brother
>>34039442There is no way you're considering moving in with your boss lmao.
>>34038419Bump
>>34041436trolling?
Don't help anybody, don't offer any advice to anyone ever. If you see someone struggling, ignore them. The suffering of others is not your business. All advice is dogshit and the very concept of advice should never have been created. You should in no way pass any knowledge or wisdom onto others; be sure to hoard everything your experiences have taught you.
4channers are moralist, crypto-statist, narcissistic, nincompoops, just like most people. However if you find someone you truly believe is a good person (which isn’t here) you should lead them down the path of truth however
>>34033964I know this thread is a joke but if it isn't then you're just a typical kike doing divide-and-conquer.
Good advice! I will follow it: I am going to ignore your advice.
>>34039663>everything I don't like to hear is a dividing kike bot shill rabbi demoralization botwhy normgroids like this
bump
Inb4 don't I try dating men who weren't into it and I hated it, it is just so fun for me watching funny clips with a guy.
>>34041472Im >>34041452and im26
>>34041597What is your discord
>>34041202This is at least the third time you have posted this here, and therefore, you're the spergish lolCOW.
>>34041897I mean in practice lolcow is a mainly video media consumption term and I do not make videos therefore I am not media
>>34041897you dont understand lolcows if you dont see the inherent human nature they represent in all of us
this shall end
>>34041807My bladder is mightily full of poo issues liss piss
>>34041807Counter rage bait? Alternatively greyrock till you're too boring for the effort to bait.
>be a woman and state masturbate to rough BDSM porn while using your dragon dildo, no one bats an eye, matter fact people empower you for it>be a man and state your jerk off to porn sometimes, everyone calls you a gooner
>>34040985>be a woman>be a virgin>want to get eaten out and peg a moid>get called a whore>be a moid>force a woman to do anal and bdsm>give her literal brain damage from choking even if she specifically tells you not to>"wHy Is MALe sExUaLITy demonIzEd?"
I'm 31 years old, haven't been employed in 8 years. I'm ugly, live with my parents, have no college diploma and no way to excel in life. I have severe social anxiety and am a very nervous person. I'm very wary of people. But I'm thinking of my options and realize I don't have anything left. So should I bite the bullet and join the coast guard, or try something different?
>>34040233This is naive. The Coast Guard is in the Middle East and was responsible in the seizing of that Venezuelan oil tanker just recently. The Coast Guard has had increasingly less noble intentions since it switched over to Homeland Security.>>34040157I'm this anon. I had the same ideas thinking the Coast Guard was the most ethical branch since I was doing a lot of SAR. But your missions get increasingly intertwined in other affairs. Plus side is i learned a bit how the world works which caused me to leave. I'll say have an exit plan right when you join in. Or don't join at all. You can do a lot of good but ranking up may require you to do things you don't want to if ethics are your concern.
>>34030074>muh zogbotNigger, anyone that joins fully understands that they are a glorified mercenary doing it for gibs and sport. I got a free college degree, saved up $75k, and got to travel the world. Your stupid ideological bullshit is meaningless to someone who is poor and has little prospects.
Do not become a fucking zogbot
>>34041460Oh so you fully understand your jewish crimes. This will really help you when you're being judged.
guys this is about me teh canadian now.
I haven't slept for two days in a row, and lack of sleep is normal for me, but as I've noticed, it's causing me to become paranoid and hallucinate. And this time it feels like something want to kill me, and considering that I sit in the dark all the time, this feeling becomes stronger. I don't know what to do with this
>>34040224you need to relax and sleep while you are still conscious that you are being paranoid. what the other anon suggested is good. To relax, I like stretching and watching Thomas Heaton videos. good luck.
>>34040224It’s absolutely damaging to your brain, and health. It’s not like some small thing you can overlook, sleep is your bodies first and foremost system of self repair and recovery. If you neglect your sleep, you will suffer. And if you can’t help but stay up, well it might be indicative of some underlying disorder so get it checked out immediately.The obvious and most quick advice I would give is to take something with DIPHENHYDRAMINE because it usually makes people drowsy.
>>34040224Try taking medication, or do breathing exercises.Or just talk about it with someone and they can help you out. I think thats the best option.
>>34040224It will go away when you get very used to whatever type of nonschedule you keeping. You will adapt, Anon!
>>34040224An edible
Where can I meet alt people who are genuine (inb4 oxymoron)? Everyone in my city's scene is either mentally ill, BPD drama-fueled emotional vampires, or engage in purity testing for social capital. I just wanna connect with people who share similar music taste who arent completely psychotically deranged individuals
>>34039253Nobody’s cool when they grow up.
