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this shall end
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>>34041807
My bladder is mightily full of poo issues liss piss
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>>34041807
Counter rage bait? Alternatively greyrock till you're too boring for the effort to bait.
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>>34041807
Move out?

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>>34044113
I got approached by a cute one for a scam. I think back that I could have touched her while asking her more questions about her scam.
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>>34044111
You know what I've realized?
Gypsies and Spanish people look oddly similar.
I don't know a ton of gypsies though, so I can't tell if their mentality is similar too.
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>>34044116
What was the scam? Was she trying to sell you some rosary beads or shit?
If she was desperate, you could have gotten a blowjob out of it for a few bucks.
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>>34044114
I will not be censored.
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>>34044119
She was pretending to be deaf and wanted me to sign up for something.
>If she was desperate, you could have gotten a blowjob out of it for a few bucks.
Have you done that, kek? Not a bad idea but the cute ones probably already have bfs. Maybe I'll try next time and we'll go behind a bush.
>>34044117
I would say gypsies look more brown and have that Roma/half-Indian complexion while Spaniards have more European blood.

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What do I do if I find the majority of girls on online dating sites to be unattractive? I don't mean in superficial ways like "her nose is 0.2mm offcenter!!!" or "she's 10 pounds overweight!!!" I mean like... let's use Hinge as an example:
>"Kacy"
>21-27
>Liberal
>What motivates you?
>"idkkkk snap: kcfuxstick12"
>club photo, decked in tats
>club photo
>club photo
Etc. I'm not trying to be a faggot about this, I just find that the lifestyle of these women is generally very unattractive. Like yeah, she might have a big ass, or be pretty or whatever, but there's no substance underneath, or at least none that she's willing to share.
And before you send me off to Duolicious, been there, done that. Besides the fact that there are NO girls in my area, half of the profiles are of women with genuine mental illnesses (not just rawr xD mental illness) and whose personality literally just consists of doomscrolling twitter and shitty Azumanga Daioh/Miku memes or something. Also they have NO face or body pics, and are in general unpleasant people. And just like Hinge they have
NO
FUCKING
HOBBIES
So yeah, are there any sites that don't suck absolute balls when it comes to the quality of the women? Is it just my area? I live in the South, closest big city is Atlanta, that's all I'm gonna say.
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>>34039964
Online dating is inherently shallow and attracts shallow women. It’s like going to Hooters and being mad you see tits.
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>>34039964
>What do I do if I find the majority of girls on online dating sites to be unattractive?
Accept that you're gay.
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>>34039964
>No hobbies
Women don't really do hobbies, because they're social creatures who are interested in *people*. Men's brains aren't sophisticated enough to manage social interaction, so instead of being interested in people, they get interested in *things*. Women see the world in terms of emotions and relationships between people (I don't mean romantic/sexual relationships, I mean in the more general sense); men see the world in terms of objects, shapes, distances, and velocities. That's why women prefer movies about shifting emotional dynamics between people, and men prefer movies than involve lots of objects whizzing about really fast. So no, women generally aren't interested in *things*; you just have to learn to live with that.

t. guy who is fine with all this
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>>34039964
>>are there any sites that don't suck absolute balls when it comes to the quality of the women?
Not rly, but that doesn't mean you should delete all the apps. I stuck around tinder for like 3 years trying to find someone decent until I met my current partner of 5 years on there.
>not finding anything while panning for gold isn't a symptom of the pan you're using. You go into it knowing you're mostly gonna find boring rocks. You'll find gold, anon.
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>>34039964
>NO
>FUCKING
>HOBBIES
What hobbies do you want these women to have? Maybe do those hobbies irl and find the women who are actively doing the hobby?

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Don't help anybody, don't offer any advice to anyone ever. If you see someone struggling, ignore them. The suffering of others is not your business. All advice is dogshit and the very concept of advice should never have been created. You should in no way pass any knowledge or wisdom onto others; be sure to hoard everything your experiences have taught you.
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>>34033964
I know this thread is a joke but if it isn't then you're just a typical kike doing divide-and-conquer.
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Good advice! I will follow it: I am going to ignore your advice.
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>>34039663
>everything I don't like to hear is a dividing kike bot shill rabbi demoralization bot
why normgroids like this
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bump
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>>34033964
Okay, thanks for your advice.

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Every single characteristic of myself ranges from mediocre to below average, not bad enough to be a concern or to bitch about, but not good enough to be satisfied in it. There is not a single thing that I excel or take pride in that deems respect
How the fuck do I fix this? Am I just destined to be an NPC?
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>>34039628
You are just about the most ordinary person around.
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>>34039628
Identify one small aspect you're not happy with, change that slowly. If you're too reckless to save up, start by saving a portion as soon as you get it in an account that's harder to withdraw from so you can't spend it.
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>>34039628
>How the fuck do I fix this?
Git good. Like take up a hobby and get good a it.
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>>34039628
What sort of question is that. Yes, maybe you are. What do you want me to say?

Is there someone you want to be despite that or that kills your drive?
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>>34043729
I have no desire for anything at a rigorous level, so I guess not. I'm more content with fantasizing about several different things that sounds exciting

19/F
I can't feel anything sexually . I find sexual stuff revolting . I first watched porn at 11 because everyone was talking about it, and I wanted to see what's up. I started with human porn; it was disgusting for me. Then I heard about hentai, and that was also disgusting for me. A couple of years later, at 13, I tried again, and it's just strange for me-just people having sex . I don't like the idea of my mouth touching a man's penis or a man's lips being between my legs . I had my first boyfriend last year; he didn't take my virginity because I was SA at 7. Anyway, we had sex, but he told me that he doesn't see the desire in my eyes . I did feel love for him, of course; I have this happy, comforting feeling around him, and every time I looked at him, it felt like sparkles were all over him. I met him here , and he met my mom because she's strict, but she ended up loving him. I feel bad because I wish I did more; he said I should watch porn. I did, and I felt even more disgusted. I always think about the cuddling part of a relationship, but the sexual part makes me feel off. Kissing is good, but further feels weird to me. My ex did bring me vibrators; I tried, but I gave up, so that was my first time masturbating, if you call it that. I don't like to think about my childhood trauma; I tried to avoid that part of my life.
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>>34040192
I feel ya,but it is a big deal even if you’re a man,sexual assault happens to both genders..ps hugs
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>>34040158
I always prefer the cuddling part and holding hands part unfortunately my ex didn’t like holding hands with me..
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>>34041962
>not liking holding hands
His loss, you dodged a bullet
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>>34040773
>>34041945
Asexuality is a meme. Just because sex makes you feel uncomfortable doesn’t mean that you’re “””asexual”””
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>>34035827
Tell him about the SA. You're likely asexual, he may stay with you, he may not, or maybe you need an open relationship where he gets sex elsewhere

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Am Anfang war ich motiviert, aber jetzt ist alles weg. Die Masterarbeit fühlt sich nur noch wie eine Last an. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass mir jedes Thema inzwischen egal ist. Wie bekommt man wieder Inspiration?
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Manchmal verliert man bei der Dissertation komplett den Überblick. Mir ging es genauso, bis ich auf https://ghostwritern.at/ gestoßen bin. Die Tipps anderer Studierender haben mir geholfen, wieder Struktur zu finden und Schritt für Schritt weiterzumachen. Vielleicht hilft es dir auch.
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<a href="https://ghostwritersoesterreich.at/">Essay</a>
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>>34040833
This is cheap advertisement.
Jannies, please delete it. >>34041197

They portray a problem and then send a solution as to "go ghostwriting right here"
Also they are Germs. Maybe 4chan has a final solution.
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>>34040833
Die Zweihander

Should I try to get an autism diagnostic to get NEETbux? I don't think I have it, but I'm weird enough. Also, they might give it to anyone either because of incompetence or corruption. The only thing that keeps me from trying it is my moral ground.
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Looking into this cuz I could easily fake any mental disorder and play it up. Is it worth?
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If you’re actually mentally ill why would you feel bad

Depending on your country might be a lot of hoops to jump thru to get it tho
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do it and report back on how easy it was
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>>34039509
Can you morally handle the guilt if you do get given the NEETbux?

Has anyone ever dealt with this? I have a thing going on with a neighbor. Ive only ever made small talk with her for the most part and only spent one evening with her in a social setting. A couple of months after that social event she walked straight up to me and told me she was in love with me and asked me to be her bf. I was taken aback by that, it really caught me off guard so I kind of excused myself.

I never heard of limerence before and someone mentioned it to me recently saying it sounds like that. I looked it up and she fits the description to a t. Ever since that interraction it seems to have planted a seed in my head and ive been thibking about her a lot. Whenever i see her in passing she always blushes and waves but doesnt talk much other than saying "hi". I dont know much about her other than that shes from a good family and shes pretty cute.

Has anyone ever had experience with relationships like this? Either being the limerent or the one as the desire of the limerent? I kibd of want to pursue it but my gut instinct tells me ill never be able to live up to whatever shes worked up in her mind as to what I actually am. Theres also a pretty significant age gap which im also apprehensive of.

Anyway just looking for advice from anyone thats experienced it or is knowledgeable about it. Is it doomed to fail if I do pursue it? Is it a bad idea?
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this is constantly being posted. she is probably a waitress or something.
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>>34042329
Shes a college student but works part time at a sporting goods store
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Harassing this girl rn
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I didn't even read, I have no experience with this. It's unfortunate you do and that sucks for you.
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>>34042312
Get to know her but have a get out plan ready in case she is a psycho and wants your body parts,

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You know how when you're on omegle and you match with some chick and you talk for a minute then she says "fuck you this is for skipping me yesterday", and then she skips you?

How do you respond to that?
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you cry into your pillow and write about your feelings in your diary (4chan)
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>>34042359
lol you know your life is pathetic when a thread on 4chan gets you so upset that you had to comment on it
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Anybody?
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>>34042352
Well if she's skipped you what is there to respond to?

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I realize I am/was the narcissist.

I had a girl's interest for years.
My mask slipped and she saw right through me.
I felt FOMO and chased like a retard. I had no idea I was even a narcissist here. I just felt compelled to say "sorry" and restore her image of me.
She lol'd all the way to the bank.

That was the last time I saw her.

How the fuck do I move on from here with my dignity intact?

She gave me the opportunity to talk to her a few times after that but I didn't take it. I'm pretty sure she was just going to rub it in my face more, or something. I don't know. I felt like I had made enough of an ass of myself by that point... All I wanted to do was to get her validation back...
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>>34043163
You dignity is only not inact because you deem it so. Work on yourself until you are no longer the narcissist.
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>>34043163
She sounds like a delusional assuming cunt who is projecting to protect our heart from feeling the truth.

But really matters is how much she polluted herself in attempts to feel better from how long she continue to make mistakes.

If you're a fortunate, she put up a facade and not much was lost If anything at all. But it takes her being honest.

She did it before, she could do it again

Just keep swimming

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Hello, I'm 32 years old and I haven't cried for 17 years now. The last time I cried was because of a heartbreaking story in a book. Since then even when something sad happened I didn't let sad emotions to me. I down played it. Gave sad things a reasoning, saw even the positive in a loved ones death, so I don't have to be sad. It's a defense mechanisme i built up over the years. I got raised by my father and crying was never well seen as kid, so I learnt that in this time. Can anyone relate?
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>>34042549
Try Internal Family Systems Therapy and talk to your inner child or heart or whatever you'll call it.
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>>34042549
I empathize but sometimes I get teary eyed when I heard a particularly powerful song at church during a particular season

Remember . The shortest verse in the Bible
>Jesus wept.
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>>34042549
Reminds me of my non-vomit time.
Until I charged a sigil to vomit.
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>>34042549
I personally love crying
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>>34043771
I bet you like penises too

So I'm a fucking monster. About five years ago I cheated on my girlfriend by sexting an intellectually disabled woman for a couple nights before coming to my senses. I confessed, lost everything, my friends and my family want nothing to do with me (justifiably). Since then I've been kicked out of my BJJ gym (an ex friend talked with the head instructor about what I did), was fired (another friend went to my manager with what I did), and I went from an apartment to a very cheap sublet room. I think it's justified, all of it, but I need to stop wallowing and do something decent with the rest of my life. I'm already volunteering, but still wake up most nights guilty, comparing myself to a rapist or a paedophile. How do I move on?
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>>34041233
You think I don't know that?
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this whole THREAD is larp
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>>34012592
Your gf made you feel shame.
And then she threw you away. Making sure she was considered morally right by all. Including you.
Also this fucked up your life. And the worst part: you believe to deserve it.
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>>34013003
t. OP is a retard and the problem lies deeper than just a simple 4chan post.

Also OP is a normie. Feels bar is opened. Get yourself a freebe. It's on OP.
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>>34011772
Ask the people you care about i.e. those family and friends what you can do to make things right.

I did it with a hooker last night no condom and she looked like a drug addicted whore. I feel so ashamed I paid for that shit. There is really no hope for me is there?
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>>34042121
Really?
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>>34040778
Did you at least cum inside her?
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>>34040778
A friend of mine is afraid of fucking whores because he might hurt them for selling something they do not provide: connection. Dirty things.
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>>34042501
Yes
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>>34040778
Get tested

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New coworker in my area. They're using stuff and putting things in a way that I don't like. Disrupts my workflow.

Should I tell them not to do this or that right away? Or should I leave them alone?

I don't want to come off as a bossy jerk to them.
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>>34041350
>Should I tell them not to do this
No, you should *ask* them not to. Politely.
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>>34042754
>Politely
But firmly.
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>>34041350
Cute. Shame about the nigger butt.
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>>34042827
>the nigger butt
I'm sorry what did you just fucking say?
Are you some kind of homosexual or something?
What kind of dude doesn't find an ass like that attractive?
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>>34041350
Ask them nicely. Tell them you're used to things being placed in their places and would appreciate if they could co-operate, please and thank you.


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